Re: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...

2012-08-31 Thread Mel





From: Joe desert_woodwor...@yahoo.com
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Subject: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...


  
Howdy, All,
---
MEL: Hello Joe
-

 The sanghas were looking more and more like groups of old people.

MEL: Yeah, I noticed that too...and the same reason I left the church, not to 
mention the psychological problems of some
---

Perhaps there was a wave of people in the 1960s and 1970s Stateside who were 
influenced to become interested in formal Zen practice, and the greying 
perceived of late is essentially the Zen-baby-boom of practitioners which is 
now naturally aging, moving through the sangha(s).

Perhaps conditions are not as favorable now for young people entering practice.
--
MEL: Those days must have been different times with equally different 
conditions, with the Vietnam War going on, and all that personal awakening from 
the restrictions of the '40s and '50s. Also, an interest in all things Asian or 
Oriental had caught on. Weren't the members of the BEATLES band obsessed for a 
while with all things Indian? Also, and despite WW2, it's surprising that an 
interest in all things Japanese also came out
-

On the other hand, we all know that it takes a certain maturity to sit Zen, and 
to keep at it.

MEL: Yes, it does. It is so plain and down-to-earth that some eventually move 
onto Tibetan Buddhism (or some other belief system) where there's more colour 
and what-have-you to tease, or titillate the senses
--

But the perceived greying is the perception of a REAL phenomenon: the 
predominant hair color in the 20 or so affiliate sanghas has become grey or 
white. It was not so earlier! The age of the average sangha member is still 
steadily increasing.

I'm not involved in the said sangha any longer, so I am not actively looking 
for ways to change the greying phenomenon.

I wonder if this greying is noted in other sanghas, elsewhere.
-
MEL: I suppose there's nothing wrong with the greying as such of the sanghas, 
but it does make it harder to relate to someone many years older than oneself. 
Without that connection, there's practically zero room for any sort of 
discussion face-to-face because of the generation gapwhich makes it much 
easier for someone like me to go online where everyone is equal and with none 
of that I'M OLDER THAN YOU AND THEREFORE I KNOW BETTER bull. On the other hand, 
dealing with the young can be trying, depending on the age gap
 
Buddha be praised
Mel



Re: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...

2012-08-21 Thread Chris Austin-Lane
Posture and a little bit of yoga is pretty standard teaching even in the
Soto lineages via Japan that have taught me.

I have noticed one  characteristic flaw that the youngsters make which is
easier to avoid in through oldsters, which is a fearful attitude towards
fatigue. People will deliberately sit in painful leg positions to avoid
feeling sleepy.  and I certainly agree a painful period is preferable to a
sleepy period, but learning how to stay awake in through midst of fatigue
is very valuable training. Certainly as a parent or on call person, I have
had great use for a more open and flowing awareness at all sorts of sleepy
times. To train oneself to be awake in the face of pain but not in the face
of drowsiness is curiously incomplete.

On Aug 18, 2012 5:36 PM, Joe desert_woodwor...@yahoo.com wrote:

 Chris,

 Thanks!

 Yes, average-age varies with sanghas; right.  And with geographic
locales, and with teachers, too, I find.

 When I started formally I was 27, and most of the others in the sangha
were about the same age.  It's because the teacher had JUST come from
China, and word was spread about his presence in America (New York City) on
college campuses in Religion departments, and through general announcement
flyers posted on campuses.  I was lucky to see one of the flyers at
Columbia, in the Physics Department where I worked!

 The teacher was 50 when I started with him.  He lived and taught for
another 29 years.

 In various sanghas I stayed long in, usually the only thing doing or
going on, thankfully, was the Dharma: I'm glad I didn't meet with groups
such as you mention who were overly sanguine about environmental affairs or
civil rights.  Time-and- place!  I mean, surely there's a place for
Engaged Buddhism, but I never even liked the sound of that label.

 In general, though, I have nothing to say against Boomers, but nothing
very much to say for them, either.  I know too many of them too
closely, to know that they're/we're nothing special.  And, if they ARE
special in some area (great artist, teacher, Yogi, or scientist), then they
are ordinary in other areas, or even deficient in some.  Well, a bit like
all of us, and like everybody before us!  You might say it's the human
condition.  ;-)

 I don't let myself off this same hook, either, mind you.

 California seems a natural place where sanghas will always be young,
Chris.  Anyway, I hope it is always so.  And I hope the old folks stick
with it and bring a good example for the young ones joining.

 Teachers say -- sometimes lamenting -- that A teacher gets the students
he/she DESERVES.  We don't always get to choose.  Maybe it's partly
karma.

 If I am to be a teacher, I think I'd much rather teach to quite young
people: the way I teach is pretty physical, and I think older people are
usually not ready for this.  Younger people competently take it as more of
a challenge that they can accept and work with, and can get results pretty
soon with, to keep them going.  With older folk, some remedial building-up
needs doing, if the person is to take well to our sort of practice, and
vice-versa.  It's serious!  Health takes time to regain, if it's had a
chance to slide.

 In our teaching, Posture is a big thing; Exercises; Self-massage; and
some special Yoga exercises.  Plus, extended periods of slow Prostrations.

 This is *not* the Japanese way of teaching, but comes through my teacher
from China, Sheng Yen.  It is wonderful, but not merely-wonderful: it is
a practical wonder, when a student can begin it and continue it.  I hope I
can still teach this to young people well into my 90s... as well as to
continue to practice it myself.

 Chris, I think you are too old to start at age 44.  It may be the
over-the-hill-gang for *YOU*, Old Man!  ;-)

 No, we find really that it is all up to the practitioner.  Sheng Yen had
people with him who were always older than he was at any time, though they
might not have been newcomers.

 Ah, but you have a sangha and teacher.  Already blessed!

 Strong practice,

 Thanks again,  Cheers,

 --Joe

  Chris Austin-Lane chris@... wrote:
 
  In my Sangha in Maryland, I was one of the youngest.  In California,
about
  half are younger than I.




 

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Re: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...

2012-08-21 Thread Joe
Chris,

Thanks, Chris, you make some interesting observations about attitudes or 
approaches to fatigue in meditation circles.  I've never touched base with 
anyone about it, and I wonder how it came up, and came to your notice.

Personally, I find that complete and thorough relaxation in sitting, and, even 
a good measure of fatigue, say, at the end of a long, warm afternoon on sesshin 
in the desert, is helpful to allowing the onset of Samadhi.  So to me, fatigue 
in this context has no negative connotations whatever in my personal experience 
as a practitioner.

A handy but debatable definition of samadhi that I like to bandy- about is 
that Samadhi is Falling asleep with your eyes open.  You see how fatigue 
could be helpful there.

As an Observational Astronomer, I suppose I have trained myself in my work, 
too, to maintain alertness in fatigued situations, as well as to live and work 
on a changeable schedule and with extremes of wakeful time and very little 
sleep.  I find too that for me it is personally best to avoid stimulants of 
every kind, and to reply on nutrition: in others words, nutrition versus 
stimulation.  Stimulants take a toll, nutrition does not.

On sesshin, I similarly avoid tea and coffee, and I wean myself off these -- if 
I'm using them at all -- beginning about 10 days before sesshin.  This way, I 
show up at retreat clean, and this is good for me and for all else who 
attend, because we sit sesshin as a group, you know, even if it looks to an 
outsider as if we practice alone.  I know that some folks on sesshin would 
never be without these stimulants, but I think it never helps anyone, and just 
keeps people nervous.  Terrible.  Plus, it's called addiction, and that's not 
a good condition in which to keep the brain and nervous system, in a program of 
practice like Zen meditation.

On Sheng Yen's Ch'an retreats, we drink plain hot water, from urns.  I came to 
call this Sheng Yen Tea, and I drink it to this day.  It's better for the 
stomach, maybe, than drinking cold water, he used to say.  And I think it has 
other benefits, besides.  Drinking it is relaxing, too, because we tend to 
linger over it, unlike drinking cold water, which we chug down.  ;-)

--Joe

 Chris Austin-Lane chris@... wrote:

 Posture and a little bit of yoga is pretty standard teaching even in the
 Soto lineages via Japan that have taught me.
 
 I have noticed one  characteristic flaw that the youngsters make which is
 easier to avoid in through oldsters, which is a fearful attitude towards
 fatigue.





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Re: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...

2012-08-21 Thread Chris Austin-Lane
I first became aware of the tactic of avoiding fatigue by adopting more
painful sitting positions (full lotus over 1/2; 1/2 over Burmese) by trying
it myself; I then noticed other young and eager folks doing similar and a
few times had a conversation about the relative good vs. evil of sore legs
vs. a sleepy brain.

I try not to have a great gap between my home practice and my retreat
practice, so I'm usually the guy that brings some instant coffee packets
along.  I also nap when I can, not sure why that's not more popular.

I was greatly pleased when I read a story that the origin of tea is
BodhiDharma's meditation and needing to stay awake he hurled his eyelids to
the ground and the tea plant grew, or some such.

There is an awesome study where they have people rate the friendliness of
various faces while holding a cup of hot water and alternatively of cold
water, and the folks with the warmth between their hands see others in a
more positive light.

Before I had kids, I would drink coffee for a few months then quit for a
few months, but I always paid a price of lethargy for a few weeks in the
afternoon after quitting it; I haven't tried to quit since having kids.

Thanks,

--Chris
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On Tue, Aug 21, 2012 at 3:59 PM, Joe desert_woodwor...@yahoo.com wrote:

 Chris,

 Thanks, Chris, you make some interesting observations about attitudes or
 approaches to fatigue in meditation circles.  I've never touched base
 with anyone about it, and I wonder how it came up, and came to your notice.

 Personally, I find that complete and thorough relaxation in sitting, and,
 even a good measure of fatigue, say, at the end of a long, warm afternoon
 on sesshin in the desert, is helpful to allowing the onset of Samadhi.  So
 to me, fatigue in this context has no negative connotations whatever in my
 personal experience as a practitioner.

 A handy but debatable definition of samadhi that I like to bandy- about
 is that Samadhi is Falling asleep with your eyes open.  You see how
 fatigue could be helpful there.

 As an Observational Astronomer, I suppose I have trained myself in my
 work, too, to maintain alertness in fatigued situations, as well as to live
 and work on a changeable schedule and with extremes of wakeful time and
 very little sleep.  I find too that for me it is personally best to avoid
 stimulants of every kind, and to reply on nutrition: in others words,
 nutrition versus stimulation.  Stimulants take a toll, nutrition does not.

 On sesshin, I similarly avoid tea and coffee, and I wean myself off these
 -- if I'm using them at all -- beginning about 10 days before sesshin.
  This way, I show up at retreat clean, and this is good for me and for
 all else who attend, because we sit sesshin as a group, you know, even if
 it looks to an outsider as if we practice alone.  I know that some folks on
 sesshin would never be without these stimulants, but I think it never helps
 anyone, and just keeps people nervous.  Terrible.  Plus, it's called
 addiction, and that's not a good condition in which to keep the brain and
 nervous system, in a program of practice like Zen meditation.

 On Sheng Yen's Ch'an retreats, we drink plain hot water, from urns.  I
 came to call this Sheng Yen Tea, and I drink it to this day.  It's better
 for the stomach, maybe, than drinking cold water, he used to say.  And I
 think it has other benefits, besides.  Drinking it is relaxing, too,
 because we tend to linger over it, unlike drinking cold water, which we
 chug down.  ;-)

 --Joe

  Chris Austin-Lane chris@... wrote:
 
  Posture and a little bit of yoga is pretty standard teaching even in the
  Soto lineages via Japan that have taught me.
 
  I have noticed one  characteristic flaw that the youngsters make which is
  easier to avoid in through oldsters, which is a fearful attitude towards
  fatigue.



 

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Re: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...

2012-08-21 Thread Joe
Interesting, Chris.  I wonder if adopting more painful positions helped the 
meditation of those people, or you.

By helped, I mean if it helped to make it more satisfactory to either the 
student or teacher, or both.

I think it's good to break new ground in our practice, maybe by adopting a more 
balanced or more compact posture; or by sitting longer; or by incorporating 
exercises or stretching to help our ultimate relaxation; or by changing our 
diet; or, etc.

Sometimes making a change, even an arbitrary one, can change things.

A case in point is the Bamboo-Breathing taught by Sekida in his book ZEN 
TRAINING.  At a certain point in a sit, a practitioner can change the rhythm of 
breathing, and this will be enough to break the usual pattern of a sit, and 
enable some changes.  It's very effective (he teaches it well, so I won't go 
into it).

Sleepiness is not always good to chase away, I think, though.  When properly 
embraced or when we are quite lucky, Samadhi can come on when we are relaxed 
and sunken 'way down, without our eyes closing.

Of course if we fall asleep and nod repeatedly, as we do when we sit sometimes, 
it's not altogether unpleasant, and I think even this does something good for 
us (although it disturbs our neighbors to the left and right).  Usually we 
don't waste too much time this way, because the bell rings and we get up and 
walk kinhin, and then sit again, maybe a little refreshed.

Did you know?: There's a method of practice in which the sitter sits all night 
and sleeps in lotus pose.  People say that the legs really ache for the first 
year doing this, but after that the body likes it and the sleep is very good.  
I think usually only monastics practice this.  It has a name in Japanese... 
Za- somthing.  No, not Zazen!  Zasui, I think.  It's been years since I 
thought of it.

By the way, I've heard other parents say that having kids drove THEM to 
drinking too, but at least your poison is Coffee, not the other.  ;-)

--Joe

 Chris Austin-Lane chris@... wrote:

 I first became aware of the tactic of avoiding fatigue by adopting more
 painful sitting positions (full lotus over 1/2; 1/2 over Burmese) by trying
 it myself; I then noticed other young and eager folks doing similar and a
 few times had a conversation about the relative good vs. evil of sore legs
 vs. a sleepy brain.  [snip]





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Re: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...

2012-08-21 Thread Chris Austin-Lane
We are in general discouraged from evaluating sitting periods as being more
or less satisfactory.  The emphasis is more on right here, right now.
 Just as it is.  Not about the student gaining something by diligent work
which the teacher already had, but the teacher being with the student who
is practicing living with the perspective that everything is fine already:
right now, right here.

In my experience, trying to do different things to get ahead in a
meditation game covers up so many things, that for me at least, it is far
better not to try to do anything.  Just sit; stop crinkling up my mind;
stop comparing and contrasting everything; stop judging thoughts as being
good or bad; stop mistaking mental formations for being other than mental
formations.

That said, painful sitting periods are just painful sitting periods: like
everything valuable reminders of the utility of inconvenience (and the
relative nature of timed intervals : ).

I do sit as close to full lotus as the time allotted makes seem plausibly
doable.  For sesshin, usually just 1 or 2 periods a day.  At home, usually
only 1/2 lotus, but it fluctuates as my hip flexibility varies, sometimes
full lotus is easy, sometimes not.  The bicycling seems to tighten up and
the sitting and the yoga seem to loosen up, so there's that.  It's a false
dichotomy mind vs. body, and there is something about sitting balanced and
still with a solid base.

Thanks,

--Chris
ch...@austin-lane.net
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On Tue, Aug 21, 2012 at 8:54 PM, Joe desert_woodwor...@yahoo.com wrote:

 Interesting, Chris.  I wonder if adopting more painful positions helped
 the meditation of those people, or you.

 By helped, I mean if it helped to make it more satisfactory to either
 the student or teacher, or both.

 I think it's good to break new ground in our practice, maybe by adopting a
 more balanced or more compact posture; or by sitting longer; or by
 incorporating exercises or stretching to help our ultimate relaxation; or
 by changing our diet; or, etc.

 Sometimes making a change, even an arbitrary one, can change things.

 A case in point is the Bamboo-Breathing taught by Sekida in his book ZEN
 TRAINING.  At a certain point in a sit, a practitioner can change the
 rhythm of breathing, and this will be enough to break the usual pattern of
 a sit, and enable some changes.  It's very effective (he teaches it well,
 so I won't go into it).

 Sleepiness is not always good to chase away, I think, though.  When
 properly embraced or when we are quite lucky, Samadhi can come on when we
 are relaxed and sunken 'way down, without our eyes closing.

 Of course if we fall asleep and nod repeatedly, as we do when we sit
 sometimes, it's not altogether unpleasant, and I think even this does
 something good for us (although it disturbs our neighbors to the left and
 right).  Usually we don't waste too much time this way, because the bell
 rings and we get up and walk kinhin, and then sit again, maybe a little
 refreshed.

 Did you know?: There's a method of practice in which the sitter sits all
 night and sleeps in lotus pose.  People say that the legs really ache for
 the first year doing this, but after that the body likes it and the sleep
 is very good.  I think usually only monastics practice this.  It has a name
 in Japanese... Za- somthing.  No, not Zazen!  Zasui, I think.  It's been
 years since I thought of it.

 By the way, I've heard other parents say that having kids drove THEM to
 drinking too, but at least your poison is Coffee, not the other.  ;-)

 --Joe

  Chris Austin-Lane chris@... wrote:
 
  I first became aware of the tactic of avoiding fatigue by adopting more
  painful sitting positions (full lotus over 1/2; 1/2 over Burmese) by
 trying
  it myself; I then noticed other young and eager folks doing similar and a
  few times had a conversation about the relative good vs. evil of sore
 legs
  vs. a sleepy brain.  [snip]



 

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Re: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...

2012-08-21 Thread Joe
Chris,

Yes, well, that's the Party line as I understand it, too.  ;-)

When we practice our method of meditation, the method serves as a monitor, as 
well as a method.  So, if you/we are not aware of what's doing, then that's 
an indicator of just that.  I'm not saying you personally, Chris!  Not *just* 
you.

I think everyone wants to cleave to the method, in the sense of being intimate 
with it, _qua_ method, and because of what it may open up in us/for us/for all 
beings (the heart of compassion).

I think everyone wants to do better, just as we are exhorted to do by our 
teacher.  It may seem a difficult walk, a difficult balance!, but I think we 
know when we are on the beam.  Of course, being on the beam is not the end of 
it.  It's just being on the beam.  Awakening may or may not come.  And then 
there's all that practice after awakening.

The emphasis on all being fine already is fine, and true from the point of view 
of Enlightenment, but from the point of view of Samsara or delusion, it's 
fiction to a lot of people.  These are the people I care most about, if I were 
to pick and choose.

Well, also, and as I like to say:

The rain that
has not fallen
does the parched ground
no good.

(I live in the desert).

But, we practice; and that's what counts for one who values practice, either 
for itself, and/or for what it may reveal.

No matter why we practice, practice has the power to straighten us out... if 
we're lucky; have a scrupulous teacher; have a life that supports practice ( 
vice-versa); and we appreciate whatever comes, and pour back into practice what 
it pours out.

On the other hand, there are people who are just drawn to practice because it 
seems natural to them, or else maybe they don't know *why* they are drawn to 
practice.

In the Mahayana -- such as we are -- people who are drawn to practice are 
usually not drawn to it for themselves.  In fact, we put off liberation, don't 
we?, until Samsara is all emptied out.

But that's another conversation.  ;-)

--Joe

 Chris Austin-Lane chris@... wrote:

 We are in general discouraged from evaluating sitting periods as being more
 or less satisfactory.  The emphasis is more on right here, right now.
  Just as it is.  Not about the student gaining something by diligent work
 which the teacher already had, but the teacher being with the student who
 is practicing living with the perspective that everything is fine already:
 right now, right here. [snip]





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Re: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...

2012-08-19 Thread mike brown
Joe,

When I used to sit in the Fremantle Zen Centre about 12 years ago, the average 
age seemed to be around late middle-age. In Japan, amongst the lay folk, it was 
a lot older. Since starting Vipassana at the Goenka retreats, the average age 
seems to range between the mid-20s to early 40s. I think there are a number of 
reasons for this. Firstly, the Goenka retreats have no religious overtones at 
all - not even a picture of the Buddha - and is promoted as a meditative 
technique only (for insight into the Dharma) . Although it could be argued that 
Zen Buddhism is not a religion, the prostrations to an icon of the 
Buddha/Kwannon etc can easily be interpreted as such by the inquisitive seeker. 
Also, 'entry' into Goenka practice begins with a 10 day retreat. It'd be highly 
unusual to begin Zen practice with an 8 day sesshin (one usually sits once a 
week for a number of weeks or months before undertaking a sesshin). As you 
know, the mind settles much better on
 retreat and many fruitful insights are attained this way. Given that there are 
many Goenka Vipassana centres all over the world (conducted for free), many 
younger travellers/back-packers spread, by word of mouth, news of the efficacy 
of vipassana as a meditation technique. Zen seems a lot more 'crusty' in 
comparison.

Mike




 From: Joe desert_woodwor...@yahoo.com
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Saturday, 18 August 2012, 21:45
Subject: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...
 

  
Howdy, All,

I don't know how many here sit regularly or occasionally with a Zen practice 
group -- a sangha -- and a teacher, but I have a general question which is a 
bit like a survey question for you, even if you don't sit with a group.

In a group here in Tucson that is affiliated with the Diamond Sangha of Robert 
Aitken Roshi, late, of Hawai'i, the matter of The greying of the sangha came 
up. Mmost of the affiliated sanghas began to look at it, and to think about it.

The greying of the sangha as perceived during that time was/is the advancing 
average age of sangha members.  It seemed that younger people just were not 
joining and not practicing.  The sanghas were looking more and more like groups 
of old people.

Perhaps there was a wave of people in the 1960s and 1970s Stateside who were 
influenced to become interested in formal Zen practice, and the greying 
perceived of late is essentially the Zen-baby-boom of practitioners which is 
now naturally aging, moving through the sangha(s).

Perhaps conditions are not as favorable now for young people entering practice.

On the other hand, we all know that it takes a certain maturity to sit Zen, and 
to keep at it.

But the perceived greying is the perception of a REAL phenomenon: the 
predominant hair color in the 20 or so affiliate sanghas has become grey or 
white.  It was not so earlier!  The age of the average sangha member is still 
steadily increasing.

I'm not involved in the said sangha any longer, so I am not actively looking 
for ways to change the greying phenomenon.

I wonder if this greying is noted in other sanghas, elsewhere.

--Joe / Arizona


 

Re: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...

2012-08-19 Thread Joe
Merle,

Thanks, I think that's right, and I love the spirit.

But I once went to the 'Cello teacher Gordon Epperson to see about being his 
student, when I was 48.  He was about 70.  I asked him if 48 is too late to 
start on the instrument.  He said, Not at all, and said that he has taught to 
students aged 15 to 90.  

I was impressed, and asked him, Oh, yes?, even a 90 year-old?

And Gordon said, Yes; but for HIM it was too late!  ;-)

Poor Gordon himself passed away soon after his 85th birthday here in Tucson in 
2006 (photo and obituary is at link below):

http://tucsoncitizen.com/morgue/2006/05/11/12161-obituary-cellist-gordon-epperson-was-rare-educator/

I also love the book by the amateur cellist, the late John Holt, NEVER TOO LATE 
-- MY MUSICAL LIFE STORY (1978):

http://www.amazon.com/Never-Too-Late-Musical-Story/dp/0201567636/ref=sr_1_1?s=booksie=UTF8qid=1345403717sr=1-1keywords=never+too+late%2C+holt

(great cover photo!).

w/ Cheers,

--Joe

PS  The comedian says: Where there's a will, there's a won't.

 Merle Lester merlewiitpom@... wrote:

 one is never too old for anything where there is a will there is a way...merle






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Re: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...

2012-08-19 Thread Merle Lester


 good to hear..yes it is true the youngsters are taking part..after all how do 
we quieten the chattering mind?...how are we to improve the world?..sitting 
still and listening to the grasses growing is one answermerle
  
Joe,

When I used to sit in the Fremantle Zen Centre about 12 years ago, the average 
age seemed to be around late middle-age. In Japan, amongst the lay folk, it was 
a lot older. Since starting Vipassana at the Goenka retreats, the average age 
seems to range between the mid-20s to early 40s. I think there are a number of 
reasons for this. Firstly, the Goenka retreats have no religious overtones at 
all - not even a picture of the Buddha - and is promoted as a meditative 
technique only (for insight into the Dharma) . Although it could be argued that 
Zen Buddhism is not a religion, the prostrations to an icon of the 
Buddha/Kwannon etc can easily be interpreted as such by the inquisitive seeker. 
Also, 'entry' into Goenka practice begins with a 10 day retreat. It'd be highly 
unusual to begin Zen practice with an 8 day sesshin (one usually sits once a 
week for a number of weeks or months before undertaking a sesshin). As you 
know, the mind settles much better on
 retreat and many fruitful insights are attained this way. Given that there are 
many Goenka Vipassana centres all over the world (conducted for free), many 
younger travellers/back-packers spread, by word of mouth, news of the efficacy 
of vipassana as a meditation technique. Zen seems a lot more 'crusty' in 
comparison.

Mike



 From: Joe desert_woodwor...@yahoo.com
To: Zen_Forum@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Saturday, 18 August 2012, 21:45
Subject: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...
 

  
Howdy, All,

I don't know how many here sit regularly or occasionally with a Zen practice 
group -- a sangha -- and a teacher, but I have a general question which is a 
bit like a survey question for you, even if you don't sit with a group.

In a group here in Tucson that is affiliated with the Diamond Sangha of Robert 
Aitken Roshi, late, of Hawai'i, the matter of The greying of the sangha came 
up. Mmost of the affiliated sanghas began to look at it, and to think about it.

The greying of the sangha as perceived during that time was/is the advancing 
average age of sangha members.  It seemed that younger people just were not 
joining and not practicing.  The sanghas were looking more and more like groups 
of old people.

Perhaps there was a wave of people in the 1960s and 1970s Stateside who were 
influenced to become interested in formal Zen practice, and the greying 
perceived of late is essentially the Zen-baby-boom of practitioners which is 
now naturally aging, moving through the sangha(s).

Perhaps conditions are not as favorable now for young people entering practice.

On the other hand, we all know that it takes a certain maturity to sit Zen, and 
to keep at it.

But the perceived greying is the perception of a REAL phenomenon: the 
predominant hair color in the 20 or so affiliate sanghas has become grey or 
white.  It was not so earlier!  The age of the average sangha member is still 
steadily increasing.

I'm not involved in the said sangha any longer, so I am not actively looking 
for ways to change the greying phenomenon.

I wonder if this greying is noted in other sanghas, elsewhere.

--Joe / Arizona




 

Re: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...

2012-08-19 Thread Merle Lester


 that is the spirit joe..what is age..but for our mortal bodies?... our spirit 
is forever young forever free and timeless...enjoy your week..merle
  
Merle,

Thanks, I think that's right, and I love the spirit.

But I once went to the 'Cello teacher Gordon Epperson to see about being his 
student, when I was 48.  He was about 70.  I asked him if 48 is too late to 
start on the instrument.  He said, Not at all, and said that he has taught to 
students aged 15 to 90. 

I was impressed, and asked him, Oh, yes?, even a 90 year-old?

And Gordon said, Yes; but for HIM it was too late!  ;-)

Poor Gordon himself passed away soon after his 85th birthday here in Tucson in 
2006 (photo and obituary is at link below):

http://tucsoncitizen.com/morgue/2006/05/11/12161-obituary-cellist-gordon-epperson-was-rare-educator/

I also love the book by the amateur cellist, the late John Holt, NEVER TOO LATE 
-- MY MUSICAL LIFE STORY (1978):

http://www.amazon.com/Never-Too-Late-Musical-Story/dp/0201567636/ref=sr_1_1?s=booksie=UTF8qid=1345403717sr=1-1keywords=never+too+late%2C+holt

(great cover photo!).

w/ Cheers,

--Joe

PS  The comedian says: Where there's a will, there's a won't.

 Merle Lester merlewiitpom@... wrote:

 one is never too old for anything where there is a will there is a way...merle


 

Re: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...

2012-08-18 Thread Merle Lester
organised religious practise is in decline in advanced industrial societies 
joe...and young folk have no time...they are working very long hours.

..what ever happened to the shorter working week?.

..they are literary flogged ...the quest for the dollar and material goods have 
become the mantra of this age..

.no longer to search for higher wisdom etc...it's all about the here and now 
and survival.

..that's how i see it

..young people's energies are taken up (the ones that think and 
care)..protesting about corporate greed and the destruction of rainforests etc..

. no one has time to sit and contemplate their navel..when the world is 
falling apart..climate change etc

merle..still wolfing on...howl
  
Howdy, All,

I don't know how many here sit regularly or occasionally with a Zen practice 
group -- a sangha -- and a teacher, but I have a general question which is a 
bit like a survey question for you, even if you don't sit with a group.

In a group here in Tucson that is affiliated with the Diamond Sangha of Robert 
Aitken Roshi, late, of Hawai'i, the matter of The greying of the sangha came 
up. Mmost of the affiliated sanghas began to look at it, and to think about it.

The greying of the sangha as perceived during that time was/is the advancing 
average age of sangha members.  It seemed that younger people just were not 
joining and not practicing.  The sanghas were looking more and more like groups 
of old people.

Perhaps there was a wave of people in the 1960s and 1970s Stateside who were 
influenced to become interested in formal Zen practice, and the greying 
perceived of late is essentially the Zen-baby-boom of practitioners which is 
now naturally aging, moving through the sangha(s).

Perhaps conditions are not as favorable now for young people entering practice.

On the other hand, we all know that it takes a certain maturity to sit Zen, and 
to keep at it.

But the perceived greying is the perception of a REAL phenomenon: the 
predominant hair color in the 20 or so affiliate sanghas has become grey or 
white.  It was not so earlier!  The age of the average sangha member is still 
steadily increasing.

I'm not involved in the said sangha any longer, so I am not actively looking 
for ways to change the greying phenomenon.

I wonder if this greying is noted in other sanghas, elsewhere.

--Joe / Arizona


 

Re: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...

2012-08-18 Thread Chris Austin-Lane
In my Sangha in Maryland, I was one of the youngest.  In California, about
half are younger than I.

I am 44.

If I may take a US centric perspective for a moment, I, and perhaps people
my age and younger, find organizations dominated by baby boomers to be a
bit insufferable.  They have a way of talking that makes one think they are
claiming credit for the civil rights movement, feminism, the spread of
wisdom from Asia, environmentalism and so on, when we are seeing a legacy
of giant SUVs, giant houses, bubbly markets, under funded schools and
retirement programs, etc.  A lot of sappy headed woo woo so called Buddhism
has been promulgated by the people now in their sixties.  Are we face to
face with reality or our we trying to escape life via positive
visualizations?  Seems a lot of the baby boomers ditched their kids, made
up comfortable religions  that do not speak of any need to work hard, and
then still sold out to the man, trashing the  environment while being
sanctimonius about tofu.

Plus they were a big baby boom.  There's not so many bodies in the later
generations, outside of immigrants.

But of course, we are grateful for feminism, environmentalism, and the wide
variety of Zendos to be trained in.  I sure as heck would not have wanted
to raise my daughter in the fifties.  The Dharma will endure.  Face to face
teaching will continue to be taught.
On Aug 18, 2012 1:45 PM, Joe desert_woodwor...@yahoo.com wrote:

 Howdy, All,

 I don't know how many here sit regularly or occasionally with a Zen
 practice group -- a sangha -- and a teacher, but I have a general question
 which is a bit like a survey question for you, even if you don't sit with a
 group.

 In a group here in Tucson that is affiliated with the Diamond Sangha of
 Robert Aitken Roshi, late, of Hawai'i, the matter of The greying of the
 sangha came up. Mmost of the affiliated sanghas began to look at it, and
 to think about it.

 The greying of the sangha as perceived during that time was/is the
 advancing average age of sangha members.  It seemed that younger people
 just were not joining and not practicing.  The sanghas were looking more
 and more like groups of old people.

 Perhaps there was a wave of people in the 1960s and 1970s Stateside who
 were influenced to become interested in formal Zen practice, and the
 greying perceived of late is essentially the Zen-baby-boom of
 practitioners which is now naturally aging, moving through the sangha(s).

 Perhaps conditions are not as favorable now for young people entering
 practice.

 On the other hand, we all know that it takes a certain maturity to sit
 Zen, and to keep at it.

 But the perceived greying is the perception of a REAL phenomenon: the
 predominant hair color in the 20 or so affiliate sanghas has become grey or
 white.  It was not so earlier!  The age of the average sangha member is
 still steadily increasing.

 I'm not involved in the said sangha any longer, so I am not actively
 looking for ways to change the greying phenomenon.

 I wonder if this greying is noted in other sanghas, elsewhere.

 --Joe / Arizona



 

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Re: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...

2012-08-18 Thread Joe
Chris,

Thanks!

Yes, average-age varies with sanghas; right.  And with geographic locales, and 
with teachers, too, I find.

When I started formally I was 27, and most of the others in the sangha were 
about the same age.  It's because the teacher had JUST come from China, and 
word was spread about his presence in America (New York City) on college 
campuses in Religion departments, and through general announcement flyers 
posted on campuses.  I was lucky to see one of the flyers at Columbia, in the 
Physics Department where I worked!

The teacher was 50 when I started with him.  He lived and taught for another 29 
years.

In various sanghas I stayed long in, usually the only thing doing or going 
on, thankfully, was the Dharma: I'm glad I didn't meet with groups such as you 
mention who were overly sanguine about environmental affairs or civil rights.  
Time-and- place!  I mean, surely there's a place for Engaged Buddhism, but 
I never even liked the sound of that label.

In general, though, I have nothing to say against Boomers, but nothing very 
much to say for them, either.  I know too many of them too closely, to know 
that they're/we're nothing special.  And, if they ARE special in some area 
(great artist, teacher, Yogi, or scientist), then they are ordinary in other 
areas, or even deficient in some.  Well, a bit like all of us, and like 
everybody before us!  You might say it's the human condition.  ;-)

I don't let myself off this same hook, either, mind you.

California seems a natural place where sanghas will always be young, Chris.  
Anyway, I hope it is always so.  And I hope the old folks stick with it and 
bring a good example for the young ones joining.

Teachers say -- sometimes lamenting -- that A teacher gets the students he/she 
DESERVES.  We don't always get to choose.  Maybe it's partly karma.

If I am to be a teacher, I think I'd much rather teach to quite young people: 
the way I teach is pretty physical, and I think older people are usually not 
ready for this.  Younger people competently take it as more of a challenge that 
they can accept and work with, and can get results pretty soon with, to keep 
them going.  With older folk, some remedial building-up needs doing, if the 
person is to take well to our sort of practice, and vice-versa.  It's serious!  
Health takes time to regain, if it's had a chance to slide.

In our teaching, Posture is a big thing; Exercises; Self-massage; and some 
special Yoga exercises.  Plus, extended periods of slow Prostrations.

This is *not* the Japanese way of teaching, but comes through my teacher from 
China, Sheng Yen.  It is wonderful, but not merely-wonderful: it is a 
practical wonder, when a student can begin it and continue it.  I hope I can 
still teach this to young people well into my 90s... as well as to continue to 
practice it myself.

Chris, I think you are too old to start at age 44.  It may be the 
over-the-hill-gang for *YOU*, Old Man!  ;-)

No, we find really that it is all up to the practitioner.  Sheng Yen had people 
with him who were always older than he was at any time, though they might not 
have been newcomers.

Ah, but you have a sangha and teacher.  Already blessed!

Strong practice,

Thanks again,  Cheers,

--Joe

 Chris Austin-Lane chris@... wrote:

 In my Sangha in Maryland, I was one of the youngest.  In California, about
 half are younger than I.






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Re: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...

2012-08-18 Thread Merle Lester
not all baby boomers are goody goodies...some fell through the net and behave 
very badly as does your generation mr. 44
 merle
  
In my Sangha in Maryland, I was one of the youngest.  In California, about half 
are younger than I.  
I am 44.  
If I may take a US centric perspective for a moment, I, and perhaps people my 
age and younger, find organizations dominated by baby boomers to be a bit 
insufferable.  They have a way of talking that makes one think they are 
claiming credit for the civil rights movement, feminism, the spread of wisdom 
from Asia, environmentalism and so on, when we are seeing a legacy of giant 
SUVs, giant houses, bubbly markets, under funded schools and retirement 
programs, etc.  A lot of sappy headed woo woo so called Buddhism has been 
promulgated by the people now in their sixties.  Are we face to face with 
reality or our we trying to escape life via positive  visualizations?  Seems a 
lot of the baby boomers ditched their kids, made up comfortable religions  that 
do not speak of any need to work hard, and then still sold out to the man, 
trashing the  environment while being sanctimonius about tofu. 
Plus they were a big baby boom.  There's not so many bodies in the later 
generations, outside of immigrants.   
But of course, we are grateful for feminism, environmentalism, and the wide 
variety of Zendos to be trained in.  I sure as heck would not have wanted to 
raise my daughter in the fifties.  The Dharma will endure.  Face to face 
teaching will continue to be taught.  
On Aug 18, 2012 1:45 PM, Joe desert_woodwor...@yahoo.com wrote:

Howdy, All,

I don't know how many here sit regularly or occasionally with a Zen practice 
group -- a sangha -- and a teacher, but I have a general question which is a 
bit like a survey question for you, even if you don't sit with a group.

In a group here in Tucson that is affiliated with the Diamond Sangha of Robert 
Aitken Roshi, late, of Hawai'i, the matter of The greying of the sangha came 
up. Mmost of the affiliated sanghas began to look at it, and to think about it.

The greying of the sangha as perceived during that time was/is the advancing 
average age of sangha members.  It seemed that younger people just were not 
joining and not practicing.  The sanghas were looking more and more like 
groups of old people.

Perhaps there was a wave of people in the 1960s and 1970s Stateside who were 
influenced to become interested in formal Zen practice, and the greying 
perceived of late is essentially the Zen-baby-boom of practitioners which is 
now naturally aging, moving through the sangha(s).

Perhaps conditions are not as favorable now for young people entering practice.

On the other hand, we all know that it takes a certain maturity to sit Zen, 
and to keep at it.

But the perceived greying is the perception of a REAL phenomenon: the 
predominant hair color in the 20 or so affiliate sanghas has become grey or 
white.  It was not so earlier!  The age of the average sangha member is still 
steadily increasing.

I'm not involved in the said sangha any longer, so I am not actively looking 
for ways to change the greying phenomenon.

I wonder if this greying is noted in other sanghas, elsewhere.

--Joe / Arizona





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Re: [Zen] Greying of the Sangha...

2012-08-18 Thread Merle Lester


  one is never too old for anything where there is a will there is a way...merle


  
Chris,

Thanks!

Yes, average-age varies with sanghas; right.  And with geographic locales, and 
with teachers, too, I find.

When I started formally I was 27, and most of the others in the sangha were 
about the same age.  It's because the teacher had JUST come from China, and 
word was spread about his presence in America (New York City) on college 
campuses in Religion departments, and through general announcement flyers 
posted on campuses.  I was lucky to see one of the flyers at Columbia, in the 
Physics Department where I worked!

The teacher was 50 when I started with him.  He lived and taught for another 29 
years.

In various sanghas I stayed long in, usually the only thing doing or going 
on, thankfully, was the Dharma: I'm glad I didn't meet with groups such as you 
mention who were overly sanguine about environmental affairs or civil rights.  
Time-and- place!  I mean, surely there's a place for Engaged Buddhism, but 
I never even liked the sound of that label.

In general, though, I have nothing to say against Boomers, but nothing very 
much to say for them, either.  I know too many of them too closely, to know 
that they're/we're nothing special.  And, if they ARE special in some area 
(great artist, teacher, Yogi, or scientist), then they are ordinary in other 
areas, or even deficient in some.  Well, a bit like all of us, and like 
everybody before us!  You might say it's the human condition.  ;-)

I don't let myself off this same hook, either, mind you.

California seems a natural place where sanghas will always be young, Chris.  
Anyway, I hope it is always so.  And I hope the old folks stick with it and 
bring a good example for the young ones joining.

Teachers say -- sometimes lamenting -- that A teacher gets the students he/she 
DESERVES.  We don't always get to choose.  Maybe it's partly karma.

If I am to be a teacher, I think I'd much rather teach to quite young people: 
the way I teach is pretty physical, and I think older people are usually not 
ready for this.  Younger people competently take it as more of a challenge that 
they can accept and work with, and can get results pretty soon with, to keep 
them going.  With older folk, some remedial building-up needs doing, if the 
person is to take well to our sort of practice, and vice-versa.  It's serious!  
Health takes time to regain, if it's had a chance to slide.

In our teaching, Posture is a big thing; Exercises; Self-massage; and some 
special Yoga exercises.  Plus, extended periods of slow Prostrations.

This is *not* the Japanese way of teaching, but comes through my teacher from 
China, Sheng Yen.  It is wonderful, but not merely-wonderful: it is a 
practical wonder, when a student can begin it and continue it.  I hope I can 
still teach this to young people well into my 90s... as well as to continue to 
practice it myself.

Chris, I think you are too old to start at age 44.  It may be the 
over-the-hill-gang for *YOU*, Old Man!  ;-)

No, we find really that it is all up to the practitioner.  Sheng Yen had people 
with him who were always older than he was at any time, though they might not 
have been newcomers.

Ah, but you have a sangha and teacher.  Already blessed!

Strong practice,

Thanks again,  Cheers,

--Joe

 Chris Austin-Lane chris@... wrote:

 In my Sangha in Maryland, I was one of the youngest.  In California, about
 half are younger than I.