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Re: Something long overdue Most people think I’m dub an online games LOL URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/548286/#p548286 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames

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Re: Something long overdue When I first came I thought This Jimmy was dub, then I saw dub had an account here. So confusing... URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/548227/#p548227 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin

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Re: Something long overdue Too many friggin Jimmies!  And jame's!  And Johns!  And Jacks!  And Jakes!  I blame your mothers! URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/548223/#p548223 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin

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Re: Something long overdue Yeah, you're not alone in getting him confused with JimmyDub. I've done that plenty of times myself. Bah, names. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/548209/#p548209 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https

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Re: Something long overdue @jimmy69, post 25, righto, goes to show that anyone on this forum can quickly stick their foot in their mouth... I obviously have you confused with someone else and am sorry for the fact.  Would lack of sleep and loads of work suffice as fair reasons even

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Re: Something long overdue The epiphany  I came to was this. No matter how much I disagree with Haley, my publicly disagreeing with her is going to do nothing but make her mental state worse. Back in January I was in a pretty rough point emotionally, and after some further introspection

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Re: Something long overdue I see and agree  with what you’re saying.  Thank you for the explanation. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/548164/#p548164 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin

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Re: Something long overdue I see what you’re saying. I see it, and I agree.  Thank you for the explanation. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/548164/#p548164 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi

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Re: Something long overdue Speaking for myself, when someone wrongs someone in a community, and I witness the encounter, seeing an apology does a few things for me. First, it lets me know that the person making the apology regrets what they've done. Second, it lets me know that the person

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Re: Something long overdue One thing , at 22, I cannot remember a single time I’ve pirated. Please explain what you mean URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/548148/#p548148 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin

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Re: Something long overdue @nolan, I do not require anything of Jimmy. My only message was "Actions speak louder than words." He may deliver 50 of these topics saying that he is sorry for this, and sorry for that, but until I see improvement I will not consider those topics to

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Re: Something long overdue I mean, he's apologizing for attacking someone. What sort of action are you expecting before you'll accept the apology? Does he have to not attack the next, what, 5-10 members of this community who come out as trans or something?I get it if you don't want

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Re: Something long overdue I dunno, if I were to take this approach I'd believe nobody at all.  since I've had a couple of er, runnins?  with @jimmy69 out here, I'd say that this is not consistent with his past behavior and thus deserves at least this much attention, which is to say

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Re: Something long overdue It's less about what you said as the message behind it.At least to me, it appears that you are saying that it was worthless and even harmful that he apoligized in this way, and by extention, you're saying that the people who used this topic to also express

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Re: Something long overdue I do not try to shame Jimmy. Shaming would be me going "Oh yeah man! You really f***ed it up! Your apologies are pointless and disgraceful because they do not even approach the necessary threshold for fixing your reputation!" What I am trying to do he

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Re: Something long overdue I do not try to shame Jimmy. Shaming would be me going "Oh yeah man! You really f***ed it up! Your apologies are pointless and disgraceful because they do not even approach the necessary threshold for fixing your reputation!" What I am trying to do he

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Re: Something long overdue There's a difference between attention seeking and trying to amend mistakes. As Jimmy said, sperring people to hopefully understand and make amends, as well as the fact that he's  actively grown as a person enough to admit that he was wrong.I don't think your

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Re: Something long overdue There's a difference between attention seeking and trying to ammend mistakes. As Jimmy said, sperring people to hopefully understand and make ammends, as well as the fact that he's  actively grown as a person enough to admit that he was wrong.I don't think your

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Re: Something long overdue The fights were public, and the apology should be as well URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/548035/#p548035 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo

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Re: Something long overdue Jayde, while I see where you are coming from, I disagree with your example. You have the power to influence much more than a single user. Jimmy does not. When you mess up, multiple people are typically involved, you don’t target specific individuals. When Jimmy

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Re: Something long overdue JAYDE, it is definitely the latter. I realized a lot of the shit I said was not cool and decided that instead of just apologizing privately, which I’ve already done, it would be much better for me to publicly apologize and maybe spur others who have reservations

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Re: Something long overdue Americranian, I'll be the first to say that yes, actions speak louder than words. I will believe change when I see it, and not before.But I don't think it's fair to shame Jimmy for apologizing publicly either. One of two explanations comes to mind. Either he

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Re: Something long overdue Good on you for making an apology, but this did not need to come out in public. I fully realize that Haily may have felt damaged by your actions, but saying sorry on here does not negate anything you did. I would rather see your actions rather than words

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Re: Something long overdue He surely is URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/547968/#p547968 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector

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Re: Something long overdue I couldn't either, it was a whole lot of jibberish. This Nocturuns guh sure is insane... URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/547967/#p547967 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin

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Re: Something long overdue Scuze me but uh, what was post 9 again?  I didn't understand it. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/547948/#p547948 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman

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Re: Something long overdue Nine said it perfectly URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/547939/#p547939 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector

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Re: Something long overdue I can get behind all of the above.  for my part all I try to do is treat people like people.  I don't think there's much more to be said on the subject.  If you're a person, you know what you want and what you don't as far as treatment goes.  I try to go

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Re: Something long overdue For clarification my post was mainly in response to the topic attacking TUNMI URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/547343/#p547343 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin

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Re: Something long overdue at five, definitely. We both messed up while talking to each other. Don’t get me wrong, we are definitely very different people. But I think it’s time that everyone on the forum relax a little bit and stop jumping down everyone else’s throat. This isn’t just

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Re: Something long overdue @Haily I'd also like to take the time to apologise for my recent actions towards you regarding your rank change. After a while I was thinking abou t the conflicting thoughts that possibly goes on within your head, but  none of which I can ever understand. You're

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Re: Something long overdue Hi,@1, I appreciate the appology. I think that a lot of our exchanges could have been handled better on both sides. For my part, I think I was overly defensive at times, particularly back in January, and I certainly majorly underestimated the amount

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Re: Something long overdue ok, so here is what i feel. I'm sure some things said and done between OP and Haily might not be the  best or look very great. As stated things weren't, aligning in  the best order, to say. I agree with ironcross on his post. I won't think of you any different

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Re: Something long overdue Yeah I don't really talk about this type of thing much, because what does it do. If someone knows you disagree with a choice they've made, there's no reason to keep bringing it up. Also when it's something that personal, it's bound to feel like an attack on them

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Re: Something long overdue I don't quite remember, but I have a sneaking suspicion that I may have been part of one of these situations. A lot of my sentiments are echoing @OP. My views have and will not change in reguards to your and other people's choices, however, I in know way mean

Something long overdue

Something long overdue OK this is gonna be kind of an emotional post right. This is something I’ve been struggling with for a while. But I made a promise, and I like to keep my word.As many of you will remember, back in January the user Haley Mary And I got into a fight. She  made a very