Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-19 Thread Dana Tierney
good point. I do agree with the time with the kid part but, wow, glad that *we* didn't have warfare is all... >He DID NOT say to talk to the child like that. What happens between >lawyers and the people involved is just that. > >This man has been one of my best friends n the world for years, and

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-19 Thread Yves Arsenault
Hey dude. Me and my wife separated for a number of months over the summer. I felt nothing but pain, I have a 3 year old daughter and it has been pretty hard. We (me and my wife) have tried to reconcile several times in the last few months. We are currently trying to reconcile once again. I feel

RE: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-19 Thread Heald, Timothy J
, seriously off on this one Dana. > -Original Message- > From: Dana Tierney [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > Sent: Monday, March 19, 2007 7:43 AM > To: CF-Community > Subject: Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do > > wow. I've been through this on the other s

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-19 Thread [EMAIL PROTECTED]
I've got to agree with some of the posts about moving to SD. I couldn't be away from my kids.My life is what I make of it and I have lived in nice places and hell holes. I can adjust to my surroundings and make life tolerable anywhere especially if I know it is to be close to my children. L

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-19 Thread [EMAIL PROTECTED]
That has to be tough. My wife and my kids are all that keep me here and keep me going. How old is your daughter. Bruce Sorge wrote: > Well today sucks. I thought that going to Iraq and leaving my family behind > two time was tough, but no way. My wife and I separated today and her and my > bel

RE: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-19 Thread Heald, Timothy J
I'm sorry to hear that man. My wife have been going back and forth about this for a while now, and I am not looking forward to a final decision one way or the other. Head up man, you are the man. You need to stay strong and do the right thing. Don't turn to the bottle, god knows I tried that wi

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-19 Thread G Money
Thanks again to this wonderful community and support. > > Bruce > > -Original Message- > From: Thomas Newcomen [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > Sent: Friday, March 16, 2007 3:15 PM > To: CF-Community > Subject: Re: Th

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-19 Thread Tony
not with atty's and money involved. and slowly, like a surge, it just gets WAY WORSE at the end... way worse. tw On 3/19/07, Dana Tierney <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > wow. I've been through this on the other side and I am really not sure I > agree. Oh... the child would be btter off with both o

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-19 Thread Dana Tierney
wow. I've been through this on the other side and I am really not sure I agree. Oh... the child would be btter off with both of them unless there's major issues sure. But this all-out war stuff? I can't see telling a young child that mommy or daddy is evil. But hey, I know nothing about any of t

RE: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-18 Thread Bruce Sorge
- From: Thomas Newcomen [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Friday, March 16, 2007 3:15 PM To: CF-Community Subject: Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do I feel your pain mate, but seriously... F that. I would pull for 50/50 at least

RE: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-18 Thread Bruce Sorge
-Community Subject: Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do What's the job market like in S.D? It might be worth the paycut to at least be around her. On 3/16/07, Bruce Sorge <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Well today sucks. I thought that going to Iraq and leaving my family > be

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-17 Thread Adam Churvis
ining in C# & ASP.NET 2.0 for ColdFusion Developers at ProductivityEnhancement.com - Original Message - From: Thomas Newcomen To: CF-Community Sent: Saturday, March 17, 2007 4:53 AM Subject: Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do The "isn't technology gra

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-17 Thread Tony
+1 its fucking war. get ready, i know you are, you're already battle prepared right? anyway, im serious. no fucking games. go for the jugular, its all about HER, and YOU, nothing at all, no person at all, will care for your feelings BUT YOU. and your atty. for real. as you know, ive been thr

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-17 Thread Thomas Newcomen
hmmm how can I say this without sounding like an ass? I don't think I can, but those that /know/ me know better, so I am not too worried. I was just up feeding Phoenix and this thread kept popping into my head, probably because I can relate to it. Now, I know absolutely nothing about the situation

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-16 Thread Robert Munn
I'm sorry to hear that, Bruce. I feel for you. My parents divorced when I was two and my brother and I only did the summer thing with my dad, and only until I was 18. He pretty much wasn't around otherwise. He might have called sometimes, I don't really remember. The good news is that technology m

RE: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-16 Thread Scott Stewart
Bruce, Remember something as you go through this You have rights too. To many judges automatically give custody to the mother on principal... don't just cave in without a fight. A lot of us have been through this, some good some bad, your not alone. -Original Message- From: Bruce

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-16 Thread Dinner
On 3/16/07, Bruce S wrote: > Well today sucks. I thought that going to Iraq and leaving my family behind > two time was tough, but no way. My wife and I separated today and her and my Man, that's rough. My folks got divorced, and it was the best thing that happened to their relationship. They're

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-16 Thread Thomas Newcomen
he's got rights too.. who says /she/ has to leave.. 1 month a year is bullshit. What say will he have in the rearing of his daughter? (No disrespect Bruce...) On 3/16/07, Zaphod Beeblebrox <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Man, I don't know.50/50 with her living in S.D.? That's not very > fair

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-16 Thread Erika L. Walker
I'm sorry to hear this Bruce. I hope it works out well for all you though. You'll be in my thoughts. ~| Create robust enterprise, web RIAs. Upgrade & integrate Adobe Coldfusion MX7 with Flex 2 http://www.adobe.com/products/coldfu

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-16 Thread Ben Doom
Man. When my last relationship ended, not seeing her daughter was as hard (if not harder) than not seeing her. That was after only three months, and the kid wasn't mine. I can't imagine how hollow you must feel right now. I offer good thoughts. I'd offer more if I had it. --Ben Bruce Sorg

RE: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-16 Thread Scott Stewart
Been through the divorce thing.. it sucks, but things will get better... -Original Message- From: Bruce Sorge [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Friday, March 16, 2007 6:03 PM To: CF-Community Subject: The hardest thing I have ever had to do Well today sucks. I thought that going to Iraq a

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-16 Thread Dana Tierney
I'm sorry to hear that, Bruce. >Well today sucks. I thought that going to Iraq and leaving my family behind >two time was tough, but no way. My wife and I separated today and her and my >beloved daughter left for South Dakota where she is from. This was no shock >to either of us as we had discusse

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-16 Thread Zaphod Beeblebrox
What's the job market like in S.D? It might be worth the paycut to at least be around her. On 3/16/07, Bruce Sorge <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Well today sucks. I thought that going to Iraq and leaving my family behind > two time was tough, but no way. My wife and I separated today and her and m

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-16 Thread Paul Ihrig
the D word is never good to hear. hope all goes well. ~| ColdFusion MX7 and Flex 2 Build sales & marketing dashboard RIA’s for your business. Upgrade now http://www.adobe.com/products/coldfusion/flex2?sdid=RVJT Archive: http:

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-16 Thread Zaphod Beeblebrox
Man, I don't know.50/50 with her living in S.D.? That's not very fair to his girl it would seem. On 3/16/07, Thomas Newcomen <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > I feel your pain mate, but seriously... F that. I would pull for 50/50 at > least. > > On 3/16/07, Bruce Sorge <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-16 Thread Jerry Johnson
Bruce, that does suck. Know you're in my thoughts and prayers. On 3/16/07, Bruce Sorge <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Well today sucks. I thought that going to Iraq and leaving my family behind > two time was tough, but no way. My wife and I separated today and her and my > beloved daughter left for

Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do

2007-03-16 Thread Thomas Newcomen
I feel your pain mate, but seriously... F that. I would pull for 50/50 at least. On 3/16/07, Bruce Sorge <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Well today sucks. I thought that going to Iraq and leaving my family > behind > two time was tough, but no way. My wife and I separated today and her and > my > b