Re: Respect (was Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian)

2004-03-27 Thread Matthias Urlichs
Hi, Nathanael Nerode wrote: To get back to something *concrete*, would anyone find it sexist if the phrase was So easy your secretary or your boss could use it? This pairs a stereotypically male and a sterotypically female profession, both stereotypically clueless. These words are also

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-23 Thread Andrew Suffield
On Mon, Mar 22, 2004 at 05:31:52PM -0500, Evan Prodromou wrote: Within our project, if you consider the most effective DDs*, you're going to also be thinking of the most reasonable, thoughtful, and friendly ones. No, I'd say that's entirely wrong. The rest of your mail was based on similarly

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-23 Thread MJ Ray
On 2004-03-22 21:52:52 + Andrew Suffield [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I don't want people to say this might be suboptimal instead of this is crap, because then I won't be able to tell the difference between things that are crap and things that are suboptimal. I *want* to know when something is

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-23 Thread Anthony Towns
On Tue, Mar 23, 2004 at 09:42:47AM +, Andrew Suffield wrote: Hey, sure. It's impossible not to offend anyone. But it's always possible to deal with people politely and respectfully. How they react is their own business. That attitude was the cause of the Earth-Minbari war. And hey, we

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-23 Thread Andrew Suffield
On Tue, Mar 23, 2004 at 10:09:48AM +, MJ Ray wrote: On 2004-03-22 21:52:52 + Andrew Suffield [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I don't want people to say this might be suboptimal instead of this is crap, because then I won't be able to tell the difference between things that are crap and

Respect (was Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian)

2004-03-23 Thread Evan Prodromou
AS == Andrew Suffield [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Me Within our project, if you consider the most effective DDs*, Me you're going to also be thinking of the most reasonable, Me thoughtful, and friendly ones. AS No, I'd say that's entirely wrong. I'd say that you're being

Re: Respect (was Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian)

2004-03-23 Thread Floris Bruynooghe
On Tue, Mar 23, 2004 at 09:28:12PM +, Andrew Suffield wrote: On Tue, Mar 23, 2004 at 09:14:52AM -0500, Evan Prodromou wrote: AS The rest of your mail was based on similarly dumb ideas. Which ideas do I have that are so dumb? That you shouldn't be mean when you don't have to?

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-23 Thread Nathanael Nerode
Evan Prodromou wrote: AS == Andrew Suffield [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: AS Sure, and that's best accomplished by everybody not being a AS wuss. It doesn't make you a wuss to be respectful to others. Quite the contrary: the strong know their own strength and don't need to flex

Re: Respect (was Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian)

2004-03-23 Thread Nathanael Nerode
Andrew Suffield wrote: If people address issues rather than personalitites then everything you have said is completely irrelevant, because they aren't going to be perturbed by the speech pattern of the people they are talking to, so we can phrase things however we damn well please. You're

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-22 Thread MJ Ray
On 2004-03-21 01:46:14 + Hamish Moffatt [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On Sat, Mar 20, 2004 at 03:30:32PM +, MJ Ray wrote: Ignoring the sexism, it's still rather insensitive to some. Would improving ease-of-use make debian usable by the dead? That is a very silly comment indeed. So are

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-22 Thread Evan Prodromou
-BEGIN PGP SIGNED MESSAGE- Hash: SHA1 JW == Jonathan Walther [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: JW You are right. It is horrible discrimination that my pet dog JW is not allowed to vote in the US presidential elections. Down JW with discrimination! Let me get this straight: are

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-22 Thread Gunnar Wolf
Amaya dijo [Tue, Mar 16, 2004 at 02:44:31PM +0100]: On a side note, other real life examples. - At Debconf @ Toronto, BDale used grannies as examples of the worst kind of clueless users Debian should aim at. Susan happens to be a DD and a grannie, so he stood corrected, but refused my

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-22 Thread Evan Prodromou
GW == Gunnar Wolf [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: GW However, I do feel that trying to be politically correct in GW order never to offend anyone is plain stupid. How about this: 1) We act courteous, mature, and professional towards each other. 2) When representing Debian, we think ahead of

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-22 Thread Andrew Suffield
On Mon, Mar 22, 2004 at 01:37:20PM -0500, Evan Prodromou wrote: GW == Gunnar Wolf [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: GW However, I do feel that trying to be politically correct in GW order never to offend anyone is plain stupid. How about this: 1) We act courteous, mature, and

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-22 Thread Evan Prodromou
AS == Andrew Suffield [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: AS Sure, and that's best accomplished by everybody not being a AS wuss. It doesn't make you a wuss to be respectful to others. Quite the contrary: the strong know their own strength and don't need to flex their muscles all the time.

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-22 Thread Jonathan Walther
On Mon, Mar 22, 2004 at 05:31:52PM -0500, Evan Prodromou wrote: AS == Andrew Suffield [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: AS Sure, and that's best accomplished by everybody not being a AS wuss. It doesn't make you a wuss to be respectful to others. Quite the contrary: the strong know their own

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-22 Thread Evan Prodromou
JW == Jonathan Walther [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: JW I don't appreciate the way you are always flexing your JW muscles and accusing your fellow DDs of being sexist. I didn't accuse you of being sexist, Jonathan. I would, if I knew that you thought that dogs and women were equally unfit

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-21 Thread Nathanael Nerode
Jonathan Walther wrote: Yes, you should indeed complain about the so easy your grandmother can use it, but not because it discriminates against women; rather, because it discriminates against men. There is no substantive difference between the two, IMNSHO; I feel no need, when pointing out

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-21 Thread Jonathan Walther
On Sun, Mar 21, 2004 at 09:08:46PM -0500, Nathanael Nerode wrote: Yes, you should indeed complain about the so easy your grandmother can use it, but not because it discriminates against women; rather, because it discriminates against men. There is no substantive difference between the two,

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-20 Thread Benj. Mako Hill
On Tue, Mar 16, 2004 at 09:18:48PM +0100, Josip Rodin wrote: On Tue, Mar 16, 2004 at 02:44:31PM +0100, Amaya wrote: - On a talk at Madrid, Miguel de Icaza who is a close friend of mine BTW, used female secretaries as examples of clueless users. Well, that's probably because that's

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-20 Thread Stephen Frost
* Benj. Mako Hill ([EMAIL PROTECTED]) wrote: IIRC, the point Susan brought up at Debconf2 after the numerous so easy your grandmother can use it references was, why always the grand*mother*? Fact is, these little references paint the person as stupid, or unskilled, or somehow weaker (pick the

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-20 Thread Josip Rodin
On Sat, Mar 20, 2004 at 01:12:26AM +0100, Benj. Mako Hill wrote: IIRC, the point Susan brought up at Debconf2 after the numerous so easy your grandmother can use it references was, why always the grand*mother*? Fact is, these little references paint the person as stupid, or unskilled, or

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-20 Thread MJ Ray
On 2004-03-20 00:12:26 + Benj. Mako Hill [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: IIRC, the point Susan brought up at Debconf2 after the numerous so easy your grandmother can use it [...] Ignoring the sexism, it's still rather insensitive to some. Would improving ease-of-use make debian usable by the

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-20 Thread Hamish Moffatt
On Sat, Mar 20, 2004 at 03:30:32PM +, MJ Ray wrote: On 2004-03-20 00:12:26 + Benj. Mako Hill [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: IIRC, the point Susan brought up at Debconf2 after the numerous so easy your grandmother can use it [...] Ignoring the sexism, it's still rather insensitive to

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-20 Thread Jaldhar H. Vyas
On Sat, 20 Mar 2004, Benj. Mako Hill wrote: IIRC, the point Susan brought up at Debconf2 after the numerous so easy your grandmother can use it references was, why always the grand*mother*? I remember talking to Susan about this and though my memory is a bit fuzzy I thought her point was

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-17 Thread Martin Schulze
Josip Rodin wrote: On Tue, Mar 16, 2004 at 02:44:31PM +0100, Amaya wrote: - On a talk at Madrid, Miguel de Icaza who is a close friend of mine BTW, used female secretaries as examples of clueless users. Well, that's probably because that's empirically proven to be correct... But

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-17 Thread Nathanael Nerode
Josip Rodin wrote: On Tue, Mar 16, 2004 at 02:44:31PM +0100, Amaya wrote: - On a talk at Madrid, Miguel de Icaza who is a close friend of mine BTW, used female secretaries as examples of clueless users. I'd have used bosses -- come on, doesn't anyone read Dilbert? I know specifically of a

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-16 Thread Anthony Towns
On Mon, Mar 15, 2004 at 07:54:10PM -0600, John Goerzen wrote: Your mail fairly much appears to say nothing. But that talk did say many things. And I was not the only one offended by it. It was extremely sexist. Debian looked like (and probably is) a boys club. Could you perhaps provide

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-16 Thread Mike Beattie
On Tue, Mar 16, 2004 at 01:30:08PM +1000, Anthony Towns wrote: We covered a number of the scripts in detail, and as a joke, included pictures of the girls the rest were named after. That portion of the talk just ended up as a soft-core slideshow though, and, to my mind, didn't come off as

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-16 Thread Amaya
Mike Beattie wrote: I'll only apologise to those that are unable to take such things with a grain of salt. No need to apologise, really. The talk was probably intended to be amusing and the overall tone was light-hearted. But I want you to realize that this puts people off. I even felt like

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-16 Thread Andrew Suffield
On Tue, Mar 16, 2004 at 02:44:31PM +0100, Amaya wrote: On a side note, other real life examples. - At Debconf @ Toronto, BDale used grannies as examples of the worst kind of clueless users Debian should aim at. Susan happens to be a DD and a grannie, so he stood corrected, but refused my

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-16 Thread Josip Rodin
On Tue, Mar 16, 2004 at 02:44:31PM +0100, Amaya wrote: - On a talk at Madrid, Miguel de Icaza who is a close friend of mine BTW, used female secretaries as examples of clueless users. Well, that's probably because that's empirically proven to be correct... it's like saying stop only

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-16 Thread Amaya
Josip Rodin wrote: One just can't escape certain truths :) Plonk! :-) -- .''`. Yo tambiƩn estaba en esos trenes. I was also on those trains : :' : `. `' Proudly running Debian GNU/Linux (Sid 2.4.20 Ext3) `- www.amayita.com www.malapecora.com www.chicasduras.com Listening to

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-15 Thread Amaya
Mike Beattie wrote: Matt, I hate to burst your bubble, but IRC is not real life, Do you believe your talk @ Oslo was Real Life? Your mail fairly much appears to say nothing. But that talk did say many things. And I was not the only one offended by it. It was extremely sexist. Debian looked

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-15 Thread John Goerzen
On Tue, Mar 16, 2004 at 12:34:39AM +0100, Amaya wrote: Mike Beattie wrote: Matt, I hate to burst your bubble, but IRC is not real life, Do you believe your talk @ Oslo was Real Life? Your mail fairly much appears to say nothing. But that talk did say many things. And I was not the

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-09 Thread Matthias Urlichs
Hi, Jonathan Walther wrote: Lukas, I see that you are coming from a position of a lot of hurt and pain. I empathize with your suffering. How can we list-members help you out? Priceless. *PLONK*. -- Matthias Urlichs

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-09 Thread Matthias Urlichs
Hi, Peter Samuelson wrote: Yes, ok, but I wouldn't call it censorship... more, a type of 'policing'. Mere matter of terminology. It *is* censorship. Hmm... calling that mere glosses over some important differences in meaning. IMHO: Censorship means controlling which ideas get propagated,

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-08 Thread Jonathan Walther
On Sun, Mar 07, 2004 at 06:34:23PM -0500, David Nusinow wrote: On Mon, Mar 08, 2004 at 12:22:44PM +1300, Mike Beattie wrote: Matt, I hate to burst your bubble, but IRC is not real life, and in the grand scheme of things it really doesn't matter - we do not control what people say or do. We

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-08 Thread Lukas Geyer
Jonathan Walther [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: On Sun, Mar 07, 2004 at 06:34:23PM -0500, David Nusinow wrote: On Mon, Mar 08, 2004 at 12:22:44PM +1300, Mike Beattie wrote: Matt, I hate to burst your bubble, but IRC is not real life, and in the grand scheme of things it really doesn't matter -

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-08 Thread Jonathan Walther
Lukas, I see that you are coming from a position of a lot of hurt and pain. I empathize with your suffering. How can we list-members help you out? Jonathan On Mon, Mar 08, 2004 at 08:07:53AM -0500, Lukas Geyer wrote: Jonathan Walther [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: On Sun, Mar 07, 2004 at

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-08 Thread Lukas Geyer
Jonathan Walther [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Lukas, I see that you are coming from a position of a lot of hurt and pain. I empathize with your suffering. How can we list-members help you out? My suffering in this case was mostly caused by your posting, so probably the best you could do to

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-08 Thread Jonathan Walther
On Mon, Mar 08, 2004 at 10:26:23AM -0500, Lukas Geyer wrote: Lukas, I see that you are coming from a position of a lot of hurt and pain. I empathize with your suffering. How can we list-members help you out? My suffering in this case was mostly caused by your posting, so probably the best

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-08 Thread Lukas Geyer
Michael Poole [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: If people must be rude to each other in counter-productive ways, could they please do it off-list? When bullying (to borrow the term used earlier in a related thread) moves from technical issues to personal attacks, it merely escalates problems. It

Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-07 Thread Matthew Hall
Hello, my name is Matt R Hall. I am a student of computer engineering and German at the University of Pacific in Stockton, CA. IANAD (I Am Not A Developer), so I reserve my comments specifically to the IRC channel, where I have been present regularly since 1998 under the nickname mhall. I would

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-07 Thread Mike Beattie
On Sun, Mar 07, 2004 at 01:05:17PM -0800, Matthew Hall wrote: [snip drivel] Next, I would like to say some words to those who have been saying that Debian doesn't discriminate against women. As far as IRC goes, IT DOES. ADMIT IT ALREADY. Every day the channel is filled with trolls and [snip]

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-07 Thread David Nusinow
On Mon, Mar 08, 2004 at 12:22:44PM +1300, Mike Beattie wrote: Matt, I hate to burst your bubble, but IRC is not real life, and in the grand scheme of things it really doesn't matter - we do not control what people say or do. We cannot, and we will not. That's absurd. People get kicked and

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-07 Thread Mike Beattie
On Sun, Mar 07, 2004 at 06:34:23PM -0500, David Nusinow wrote: That's absurd. People get kicked and banned for obvious trolling, crapflooding, and racist remarks. We can and we do control what people say or do, and we can do better. Have a brain please? I was not talking about the

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-07 Thread Peter Samuelson
[Matthew Hall] there are 12 operators in #debian, which means we expect each one to be present at least 2 unique hours per day, assuming the task is equally divided. In my opinion that is probably not enough for a channel with 600+ people and such extreme traffic levels There are actually a

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-07 Thread David Nusinow
On Mon, Mar 08, 2004 at 12:50:10PM +1300, Mike Beattie wrote: Have a brain please? I was not talking about the technicalities of whatever one does on IRC... Last I looked, Debian's world domination plan did not include censorship. Way to resort to personal insults rather than respond to my

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-07 Thread Peter Samuelson
[Mike Beattie] Have a brain please? I was not talking about the technicalities of whatever one does on IRC... Last I looked, Debian's world domination plan did not include censorship. Censorship is entirely appropriate when it comes to maintaining some decorum in a forum such as IRC. Just as

Re: Some Comments on Sexism in #debian

2004-03-07 Thread David Nusinow
On Mon, Mar 08, 2004 at 01:35:44PM +1300, Mike Beattie wrote: [Posting to debian lists is like hitting your head against a brick wall. It feels good when you stop - so I will after this one] Yes, ok, but I wouldn't call it censorship... more, a type of 'policing'. We're not going to

Some Comments on Sexism in #debian: Meta-Reply

2004-03-07 Thread Matt R Hall
this thread was, Some Comments on Sexism in #debian. I specifically said I was reserving my comments to sexism and to our official channel, #debian on freenode. To say that my deliberate attempt to limit the scope of my remarks to a digestible level implies I have some ulterior belief about other