Re: [gay_bombay] "discovering" one's sexuality! what happens if one ISNT married ?

2004-06-03 Thread prashanth prabhakar
It is surprising why gay parents think that if you can have sexual relationship with a woman then you are eligible to marry her. When i told my mother abt myself when i was hardly 18 and in college( a big risk !!) i had a tough time,not because of my mother's reaction but mainly because of the

Re: [gay_bombay] "discovering" one's sexuality! and when one does, what happens if one is married and has kids? who comes first ? self or the family?

2004-06-05 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Well said Sameer.We must indeed blame ourselves for this and not anyone else. NN <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Dear Friends, These are the topics that we should discuss and not who should be the prime minister. I would like to put my opinion as follows : 1. We need to understand the strong cate

Re: [gay_bombay] Complete Mail What are we trying to prove?????

2004-06-28 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Hi friends, I second sameers opinion. As much we respect our privacy into our personal lives ,even the celebrities like karan johar ..etc deserve.It is one's own personal choice to determine to wat extent he wants to be out. And we should respect their decision.How does it matter if karan joha

Re: [gay_bombay] Ne Gym Toned Guy Like This HERE

2004-07-03 Thread prashanth prabhakar
hi wiliam, i must say indeed a good observation. regds prash William <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: You want to see plastic mannequeens that look like this, come to South Beach Miami, land of the shallow, mindless, and looks obsessed, over gymmed, gelled, shaved and ultra trendy mannequeen

[gay_bombay] anyone in sydney ?

2004-09-07 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Hi all,   I have newly moved into sydney and looking for some friends to chill out. I am 26 ,5-9'',63kgs,fair and cute looking.Decent and sophisticated.   Anybody around sydney or melbourne wish to make friends with me email me back   Thanks Prashanth     Do you Yahoo!? Win 1 of 4,000 free do

Re: [gay_bombay] high time not to glamorize/separate ourselves from mainstream

2004-09-14 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Hello all, Off late i am seeing lot of discussions like 1. Do gays like cats? 2. can gays whistle? 3. can gays play cricket? 4. how you can you identify a gay? 5. Do gays like to shop? I am sure almost all of us know that there is no definite answer for such generalized questions and i am so

Re: [gay_bombay] Married Gays- Clarification

2004-09-14 Thread prashanth prabhakar
dear all, sahil is rite,sometimes situations in life are beyond our control. Life is full of choices if a gay man wants to get married it is his wish as long he is responsible for his choices.So there is no need for casting such concluded views which might hurt others which is i guess the last

Re: [gay_bombay] really astonishing to hear that a person close to gb and humsafar(got married)

2004-09-16 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Dear all, It is sad indeed to know that a person after so many years of living an "open" gay life,opted to marry a woman. It is indeed bad that a person who always claimed that he never had attraction for women, and who has been associated with groups like bombay dost can do this.If he has n

[gay_bombay] Looking for Madhav Bapat

2004-09-26 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Dear all, I am in search of the contact details (email address) ..etc of a long lost friend by name Madhav Bapat,from Pune. If anyone knows some contact of his , please email me. Madhav : I am not sure where you are,if you happen to read this email.Please do email me back at [EMAIL PROTECTED

Re: [gay_bombay] Re: God

2004-09-26 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Dear Tulik & all, I want to express some of my views regarding this subject .I wanna plead excuses in advance if some of the stuff i have written may contradict with others beliefs. Lord Krishna in Bhagvad gita(the most basic and the most comprehensive book on spiritual awareness ) in Karma

Re: [gay_bombay] Its demeaning to bring GOD in the sexual sphere of the life.

2004-09-29 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Hi all, I strongly second Ajay's opinion.It is shameful and derogatory to see that we have gone down to a level that we are contemplating on sex n sexuality of god.God is beyond sexuality ,sex and materialistic existence.Don't we all go to a temple and bow to god, u know it means we are su

[gay_bombay] Let us not Analyse GOD but let us LOVE him-Request

2004-09-29 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Dear All, Just a quick note to my earlier email, I am not against sex nor am a fundamentalist. I am not one of those who believe sex is dirty but i believe that GOD never takes/advocates sensual pleasure. Associating anything materialistic(sex or sexuality or anything) with GOD and trying

g_b Re: [gay_bombay] Personal Attacks pls stop !!!

2004-10-01 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Dear all, It is really disgusting to see series of personalized email attacks on each other over this mailing list. I am really surprised to see these kind of emails floating all over. We being the more sensitive lot, should be the last behaving like this. Are we here to fight with each othe

Re: g_b Are we all so insecure, or its just me?

2004-10-08 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Dear Harry, Its a good question. I would think, definetely we are more insecure in realtionships. Of course it is a different thing that we find it more difficult to make relationships bcoz logically since around (10%) of total world's male population is gay,the chances of finding someone suit

Re: g_b many of my friends are not doing homosex after thier marriage

2004-11-03 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Dear all, I think the moderator has correctly pointed out, that we must not restrict free flow of disbeliefs/myths/misunderstandings about homosexuality and such emails should be posted.It infact gives us an awareness of wat kind of myths people can have and maybe we can correct them as well

Re: g_b Its possible to be happy single?? !!!!

2004-11-03 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Dear all, That was nicely put by Ajay.The key lies in being happy with oneself. Each way of living (viz being single or being married to a woman) has its own de-merits.Considering the present day scenario,where girls are more "aware" of their rights and individuality,i feel it is risky/i

Re: g_b Homosexuality Illegal, Declares Delhi HC

2004-11-08 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Dear all, With the SC rejecting PIL against Section 377 , Let us look at this weak law stmt from our Indian constitution "Whoever voluntarily has carnal intercourse against the order of nature with any man, woman or animal, shall be punished with 152[imprisonment for life], or with impr

Re: g_b A Reality Letter!

2004-11-08 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Dear Smartie, I must really thank you for posting such nice msgs on this website. This one in particular, was absolutely hilarious !. Had me really burst in laughter. Thanks and regds prashanth Smarter boy Boy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Yahoo! Groups Spons

Re: g_b The Circuit Party: Mass Orgy or Cultural Mecca?

2004-11-14 Thread prashanth prabhakar
that was an intersting one,though "no asians or black men" did offend me lil bit ,mabbe its the truth dunno !! regds prash Yahoo! Groups Sponsor ~--> Make a clean sweep of pop-up ads. Yahoo! Companion Toolbar. Now with Pop-Up Blocker. Get it f

Re: g_b i would like to 'change' 'willingly' (my sexual orientation)..awful personal experiences

2004-11-15 Thread prashanth prabhakar
This email about sexual orientation change reminds me my own personal experiences. A section of mental health professionals still believe all this stuff about changing ..etc. An awful but yet funny incident i would like to quote is- i was undergoing this kind of electric shock diversion thera

Re: g_b The Mysterious thing calledLove

2004-11-16 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Tat was really a superb one !! afsan So deep n meaningful --- asfan <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: The Mysterious thing called "LOVE" If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just

Re: Best Lucks !!g_b LGBT March on 2nd December

2004-12-01 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Dear all (who are planning to participate in the march) : I would like to wish you all the best in this bold step.Its really great. Wish i could be there. Hope we get justice in our own country, and hope we get those rights which has been denied to us for centuries long.. W

Re: g_b Married gays - Coming Out...

2004-12-02 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Dear guyz, We all understand the situations of gay married men and the practical difficulties they are facing in life, Especially for those who married a decade back or so,when the gay scene in india was not much evolved. But now things have changed and if not they have to change. Indian Socie

Re: g_b 'Married' lesbian couple in India defy their families and vow to fight Indian law

2004-12-12 Thread prashanth prabhakar
Wow thats so nice and daring. But very filmy Women have proved again that they are courageous.. Gosh Guys we must do something about this. Hopefully i would be interested to do something like this anyone interested lol but o