Re: g_b Need Advice

2014-08-17 Thread rohan rana coolrohanr...@yahoo.com [gay_bombay]
My dear friend, you are lucky to have a partner like that, who loves you. you said you guys never performed physical, and that things probabllyy bugs u. listen yaar, basicalllyy nowdays everything is only for sex(like msg chat, movie, dates) every thing, bcz one or other guy want that at the end,

Re: g_b Need Advice (reply)

2014-08-17 Thread nirb...@aol.com [gay_bombay]
Kiss him and see what happens !!! In a message dated 8/9/2014 3:32:10 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com writes: Hi All, Need advice from you... I have a colleague actually he is my junior. We started chatting casually and we get along well with each other. I first sta

g_b Need Advice

2014-08-09 Thread guru nanak imad4u2...@yahoo.com [gay_bombay]
Hi All,   Need advice from you...   I have a colleague actually he is my junior. We started chatting casually and we get along well with each other. I first started saying jokingly "I Love You" and all...and he dint mind. Then we really get along so well that I fall in love with him...Whenever we

Re: g_b Need advice--Why Label people?

2005-11-07 Thread MICHAEL DRINKWATER
Dear Beejay uncle, In my country the usual rule about the use of these undesirable words is : people who use derogatory terms for gay people are themselves freaked out by their own secret sexuality and this can lead to(in its ultimate extreme) to 'poofter bashing" . I am bashing poofters, so ever

Re: g_b Need advice

2005-11-06 Thread dorans2000
hi indrannel trust me i will also vouch for the same thing if u have a crush on ur friend who is stright then dont make the mistake of harbouring feelings dfor him sorry to say that deprssion will be a part and parcel of the package if u harbour feelings coz u r gonna make expectations and dont say

Re: g_b Need advice

2005-11-06 Thread bsutesh
Hi Indraneel, Indraneel this happens with many of us.We get more attracted towards straight friends which are a bit alluring.Nevertheless, just becauz he has a gf does not mean he is straight , just cvk this out.If he's is finally straight, just let time pass and try to get yourself involved w

Re: g_b Need advice

2005-11-06 Thread idont likeit
hi neel, It often happens in a gay's life, falling in love with a straight friends. and it is hard to pass. it is not going to happen neel. sometimes u cud express urself to him and if he is a good person, he would help u tackle the situation. u cud try telling to him stressing like u dont expec

Re: g_b Need advice--bi love is difficult

2005-11-06 Thread Manthan Kulkarni
Hey Indraneel, I completely agree with Lapin & cooldude, Love is the most difficult part of our life, and upon that maintaining a kind of bi love is again very difficult task. These are my personal experiences, I was also in Love, infact I am still in love with him, but what i was in my ealier st

Re: g_b Need advice--Why Label people?

2005-11-06 Thread beejay uncle
hi all, why do people have to use undesirable words-- like creeps and perverts. if somebody only likes to have multiple partners, it is his choice, who r indraneel or lapin, or anybody else, to judge them. bj --- Lapin <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: hey indraneel, ive been there and done not

Re: g_b Need advice

2005-11-06 Thread Lapin
  hey indraneel, ive been there and done nothing! i know how hard it is to love one's straight best friend. oh indraneel i wish i could find some solution to ur depression...but all u can do is let time pass. only time can helpplus i know itd be very very very unkind of me to say this but

Re: g_b Need advice

2005-11-05 Thread abc def
Hi Indraneel, read ur mail and felt the emotions vicariously the phase u r goin thru now may be very difficult for u to cope with...but friend,i wd advice you to take life as it comes...don't think too much about somethinghave many hobbies,interests and indulge into them...keep urself oc

g_b Need advice

2005-11-05 Thread Indraneel Sengupta
Dear Friends,     I am a 23 year old Pg student,coming to terms with my sexuality. Well, first of all a big thanx to the moderator for providing a platform where we gay people can speak our minds and exchange our views. Well I am quite a good looking straight acting fellow. I have a good se