Re: g_b why are we gay?prasanth

2005-10-13 Thread Tes Mar
I was planning on replying to this thread.. but was away. ButI dobelieve suhail khan has summed it up much better than I could have. Thanks Suhail. suhail khan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: hi prasanth ok you mean to say that its upbringing that decides whether you will be gay or straight. now i

Re: g_b why are we gay?

2005-10-09 Thread Lezvin Dcosta
see people likeu will not really understand the intensity of this coz u really havent felt that indian could be a better place if liberal im not saying that its the majority hindu population that will not allow it to happen but the way people think ..john has point here and since i know him i

Re: g_b Why are we gay?

2005-10-07 Thread jay
It's been a fantastic week for we nosey foreigners reading the various posts about gay identity from the emerging Indian gay scene. It is terribly heartening to see the sheer 'in your face' courage of many of the contributors here, as they stand up for themselves in a culture solidly rooted in

Re: g_b why are we gay?john haddock

2005-10-05 Thread Kennedy
I think suhail, that you missed the satirical,ironic, sarcastic sense of humor that John was writng his diatrab. Go back and read it from that view and you will not only laugh out loud but the real truth becomes obvious. Yahoo! Groups Sponsor

Re: g_b why are we gay?

2005-10-05 Thread smart stud
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Re: g_b why are we gay?ah_chaudhary

2005-10-04 Thread shashank mishra
it was great thought but what if you have started hating what you are this is the problem that i am facing i want to be normal LIKE MY OTHER BUDDY BUT CANT EVERY DAY I AM ACTING TO BEHAVE LIKE A NOR MALL GUY AND DO IT WELL BUT BOY ITS TOUGH DONT KNOW WHAT WILL HAPN WHN I WILL HAVE TO ACT WITH MY

Re: g_b why are we gay?

2005-10-04 Thread dbf
i believe we are born gay i think sexuality is not a choice i was gay since very young, looked at some men when i was a kid and got an erection, but at that small age, i did not know that was an erection, just realised when i grew older anyone with similar thoughts?

Re: g_b why are we gay?

2005-10-04 Thread walnut
What was that? A Poem or a Shayari smart stud [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Which is our favourite colour : Red, Blue, Green, ...Which is my favourite sweet dish : icecream,Gulabjmun,Halwa, ...Which is my favourite dress : shirt, T-shirt, Jeans,...Which is my favourite sex : Male or Female ?If

Re: g_b why are we gay? I am not comfortable being gay/bi

2005-10-04 Thread walnut
Yes its a fact. I have personally spoken to our family Doctor and got this information. OK now, so if you want to change yourself, then first and formost, you need to change your choice and habits. You need to leave this group (well I dont want u to leave this group, but if u want to become a

Re: g_b why are we gay?indian

2005-10-04 Thread suhail khan
hi indianWhen certain hormones are released in the brain, you tend to get attracted more towards men than women.this is the most obvious way of saying "why are we gay"but to be frank atleast i used to question that why it happened with me only, why only me and not the most of them. in my

Re: g_b why are we gay?

2005-10-04 Thread walnut
Thanks John, You are great and You are 'ME' too john haddock [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: It's going to be a fascinating couple of days ahead on gay bombay as the usual, the unusual and the downright crazy try to answer in their own terms the potent question "Why am I gay"?Walnut has led off with

Re: g_b why are we gay?

2005-10-04 Thread Just me
I completely disagree with Prasanth's view that we chose to like men over women and if we decide then we can start liking men. Prasant can you make similar statement for heterosexuals? I wonder. For me personally, I always had attraction for men and I did not grow up in a over powering

Re: g_b why are we gay?

2005-10-03 Thread Indian
Dear Moderator, While part of this mail are OK but there are other parts which amount fo fiction. Moderators please be careful in filtering out some of these mythical replies .. I know it is diffcult at times for you. Any way let me take this opportunity for to congratulate you for the excellent

Re: g_b why are we gay?

2005-10-03 Thread Prasad S
Is it not like asking "Why are we men?". My view is that categorizing people on the basis on his preference to have sex with a man or a woman is incorrect. However changing this concept internationally is not possible. If everyone were to just accept that fact that we enjoy having sex with the

Re: g_b why are we gay?

2005-10-03 Thread Zeus Titan
Now this may be at a tangent or relevant --decide for ur own self . There is a temple in Tamil Nadu having some scripts centuries old. One who goes there for fortune telling tells his xxx info and frm the scripts the fortune(past and future) is told. Now these r things written in times when u

Re: g_b why are we gay?

2005-10-03 Thread prasanth kumar
Hi I don't think being gay is because GOD wanted us to be like this or because we are born gay. It is more to do with parenting, upbringing and circumstances. Psychological factors also affect a person to become a gay or straight. If your parents are over protective and shield you from the

Re: g_b why are we gay?

2005-10-03 Thread john haddock
It's going to be a fascinating couple of days ahead on gay bombay as the usual, the unusual and the downright crazy try to answer in their own terms the potent question Why am I gay? Walnut has led off with a marvellous observation that gays who marry very often have girl babies - (a new

Re: g_b why are we gay? I am not comfortable being gay/bi

2005-10-03 Thread ammad hassan
hi walnut if its in our mind that mean we can change it, and if we can change it then how because i am not comfortable being gay/bi i dont kown about you but i do want to change walnut [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: dude, Let me tell u the truth here. Being a Gay doesnt mean you differ from

Re: g_b why are we gay?

2005-10-03 Thread smart stud
Which is our favourite colour : Red, Blue, Green, ... Which is my favourite sweet dish : icecream, Gulabjmun,Halwa, ... Which is my favourite dress : shirt, T-shirt, Jeans, ... Which is my favourite sex : Male or Female ? If male, people call me Gay If female, people call me straight So why are

Re: g_b why are we gay?ah_chaudhary

2005-10-03 Thread suhail khan
hi ah_chaudhary i completely understood what you say. yes ofcourse we want to change things we dont like and definitely we should give it a try. but you had asked why are we gay? so the answer comes because god made us gay. definitely i completely agree that many a times we are not satisfied

Re: g_b why are we gay?

2005-10-03 Thread walnut
My Dear Friend, Dont get so hyper. My mail reply is based on my observations and the things that I have read in the magazines and in the news papers. And always I have used the words..'May.be.''Possiblity'..'Bright chances..'' so what makes u so nervous..I really have no idea! Dont

g_b why are we gay?

2005-10-02 Thread ah_chaudry
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Re: g_b why are we gay?

2005-10-02 Thread walnut
dude, Let me tell u the truth here. Being a Gay doesnt mean you differ from otherstraight guys in any way. Only the differene lies in your thinking and in your brain. When certain hormones are released in the brain, you tend to get attracted more towards men than women. Now if you marry a

Re: g_b why are we gay?

2005-10-02 Thread ammad hassan
hi suhail don't you think you are taking the easy way out because god made us like that so we are gay. god made us but we don't always like how he made us we don't like all lot of things about usand we try to change that so why cant live with those, why we try to change our self, i hope you