[Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste by CORNEL DACOSTA

2007-12-15 Thread edward desilva
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Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-14 Thread CORNEL DACOSTA
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Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-14 Thread CORNEL DACOSTA
* * * 2007 ANNUAL GOANETTERS MEET - GOA * * * WHERE: Foodland Cafe - Miramar Residency - Miramar, Goa WHEN: December 27, 2007 @ 4:30pm M

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-14 Thread CORNEL DACOSTA
* * * 2007 ANNUAL GOANETTERS MEET - GOA * * * WHERE: Foodland Cafe - Miramar Residency - Miramar, Goa WHEN: December 27, 2007 @ 4:30pm M

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-13 Thread Vinay Natekar
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Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste - to Gabe

2007-12-13 Thread CORNEL DACOSTA
* * * 2007 ANNUAL GOANETTERS MEET - GOA * * * WHERE: Foodland Cafe - Miramar Residency - Miramar, Goa WHEN: December 27, 2007 @ 4:30pm M

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-13 Thread Victor Rangel-Ribeiro
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Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-13 Thread CORNEL DACOSTA
* * * 2007 ANNUAL GOANETTERS MEET - GOA * * * WHERE: Foodland Cafe - Miramar Residency - Miramar, Goa WHEN: December 27, 2007 @ 4:30pm M

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-12 Thread Santosh Helekar
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Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste/to Gilbert

2007-12-12 Thread Mario Goveia
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Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste - to Gabe

2007-12-12 Thread Gabe Menezes
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Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-12 Thread Victor Rangel-Ribeiro
* * * 2007 ANNUAL GOANETTERS MEET - GOA * * * WHERE: Foodland Cafe - Miramar Residency - Miramar, Goa WHEN: December 27, 2007 @ 4:30pm M

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-11 Thread Victor Rangel-Ribeiro
* * * 2007 ANNUAL GOANETTERS MEET - GOA * * * WHERE: Foodland Cafe - Miramar Residency - Miramar, Goa WHEN: December 27, 2007 @ 4:30pm M

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-11 Thread eric pinto
* * * 2007 ANNUAL GOANETTERS MEET - GOA * * * WHERE: Foodland Cafe - Miramar Residency - Miramar, Goa WHEN: December 27, 2007 @ 4:30pm M

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste - to Gabe

2007-12-11 Thread CORNEL DACOSTA
* * * 2007 ANNUAL GOANETTERS MEET - GOA * * * WHERE: Foodland Cafe - Miramar Residency - Miramar, Goa WHEN: December 27, 2007 @ 4:30pm M

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste (to Cornel dacosta)

2007-12-11 Thread CORNEL DACOSTA
* * * 2007 ANNUAL GOANETTERS MEET - GOA * * * WHERE: Foodland Cafe - Miramar Residency - Miramar, Goa WHEN: December 27, 2007 @ 4:30pm M

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-11 Thread Gabe Menezes
On 10/12/2007, CORNEL DACOSTA <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: ... As to Gabe, I have not had the time to reply but rest assured that I believe Gabe is entirely wrong if he says that 'Catholic' Goan casteism is widespread in London. Indeed, another of his posts says the exact opposite-

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-10 Thread Gilbert Lawrence
Hi Santosh, I did not realize that the persons you mention below were trying to "portray themselves as superior" to me. How silly of me? Of course they are superior to this supurlo Goenkar. Ani tea bair they are superior to all supurlo Goenkars of all caste. Why do you not fight your own

[Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste (to Cornel dacosta)

2007-12-10 Thread marie
Hi Cornel, I did not mention anything about the CONFRARIAS. Yes they stand merged and i do not know whether they have distinguising vestments. i wrote about the COMMUNIDADES, which by the way women are not allowed to be members of -- marie

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste - to Selma

2007-12-10 Thread Mario Goveia
Date: Sun, 9 Dec 2007 17:32:34 -0800 (PST) From: Carvalho <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > In short, how much does caste play a role in the day to day lives of Goans today? > By all means let's fight prejudice and discrimination and caste where we find it, but let's also give Goa its due credit in having ove

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-10 Thread CORNEL DACOSTA
Hi Victor I am totally flummoxed by Gilbert's very strange logic that you should have presented your speech on caste not in Lisbon but in Goa. It is in Lisbon that you faced the issue and not in Goa irrespective of the fact that Goa reeks of caste, generates it, and exports it to places like

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-10 Thread CORNEL DACOSTA
Hi Gilbert I referred to Aldona from a point raised by Marie and because I was armed with some info that you have studiously avoided answering. Being silent when questioned on specific issues is now your style and I regret I do not buy it. Why don't you stand up and be counted as reiterated by

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste - by redefining it!

2007-12-10 Thread Mario Goveia
Date: Sat, 8 Dec 2007 13:58:10 -0800 (PST) From: Santosh Helekar <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > Is Gilbert trying to say that Cornel, Mario, Victor and RKN, who criticized his creative definition of casteism, are simply mediocre Goans, while Gilbert is the one with achievements? > Mario adds: > Who knows a

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste - to Gabe

2007-12-10 Thread eric pinto
We gather in Goa, London, Chicago, even in Rio, never to hear any of this in conversation, pray, why then on the net ! eric. Mario Goveia <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Date: Fri, 7 Dec 2007 00:49:28 + From: "Gabe Menezes" > What guts are required ? I have never had a problem, wit

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste - to Mario

2007-12-10 Thread Carvalho
--- Mario Goveia <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Marie, > > > Thank you so much for confirming, FROM GOA, WITH A > VERY SPECIFIC EXAMPLE, that the contention by some > Goanetters, WHO DO NOT LIVE IN GOA, that caste is > not > a problem in Goa, or that it is only relegated to > the > matrimonial ads

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-10 Thread Victor Rangel-Ribeiro
--- Gilbert Lawrence <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Gabe speaks of CURRENT casteism in UK and Victor > speaks of casteism's PRESENT existence in Portugal. > Interesting that Victor gave his speech on casteism > in Portugal and not in Goa. The overwhelming > opinion among native residents is, its

[Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste - Ed

2007-12-10 Thread Gilbert Lawrence
Hi Ed, Thanks for your insights. My experience is similar to yours, when I attended the New Year's eve dance in Toronto. If they display it to me living in USA, (I drink Johnny Walker Blue or the model of their car), they likely display more of it when they come to Goa. No caste issue - just

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-10 Thread Gilbert Lawrence
Arre Cornel-baba, Instead of worrying about Aldona, why do not you worry about casteism currently being practiced in London and UK? And solve the present casteism that Gabe Menezes so succinctly outlined. One way you could solve it is by not practicing it on Goanet. Can you explain to us why

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste - to Marie

2007-12-09 Thread Alfred de Tavares
Tavares, a grandson of Aldona... > Date: Sat, 8 Dec 2007 09:29:58 -0800> From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: > goanet@lists.goanet.org> Subject: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds > on caste - to Marie> > Date: Sat, 8 Dec 2007 12:32:56 +0530> From: "Marie &g

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-09 Thread Gilbert Lawrence
Gabe speaks of CURRENT casteism in UK and Victor speaks of casteism's PRESENT existence in Portugal. Interesting that Victor gave his speech on casteism in Portugal and not in Goa. The overwhelming opinion among native residents is, its ABSENCE in Goa; where Caste exists. Question: Is casteis

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-09 Thread CORNEL DACOSTA
Hi Marie It is nice to hear from you. Re Aldona, having just returned from a visit to Goa, I was led to understand that, the two caste based confrarias (spelling?) were obliged to merge, to avoid embarrassment, when the late Pope visited Goa. However, that the 'vestments' used in the single

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste - to Gabe

2007-12-09 Thread Mario Goveia
Date: Fri, 7 Dec 2007 00:49:28 + From: "Gabe Menezes" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > What guts are required ? I have never had a problem, with Bamons - I have danced with all the Bamon girls to my hearts content ! > Mario responds: > Did you have the guts to tell them that there are no Bamons in true Ch

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-09 Thread Santosh Helekar
--- Gilbert Lawrence <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Goans not uncommonly portray themselves as superior > than another Goan (specially one with achievements); > which gives their mediocrity some oomph. This is > regularly seen on Goanet. > Is Gilbert trying to say that Cornel, Mario, Victor and

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-09 Thread Gabe Menezes
On 08/12/2007, Gilbert Lawrence <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Hi Gabe, > > What does it take to get 'class'? Can it be taught or self-learnt like so > many things in life? RESPONSE: Sometimes, please don't take what I write as being 'kosher' I did that deliberately to elicit some emotions ! -- D

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-09 Thread eric pinto
This hurts. Mario is married to a physician. I studied with Crystal, and i knew the hospitality of her father, a physician too. They were noble people, anyway you choose to define it. Of Portuguese-Bombay native descent, they owned land and homes in Santa Cruz-Juhu. Mario and i share common a

[Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-09 Thread edward desilva
(Hi Gabe, What does it take to get 'class'? Can it be taught or self-learnt like so many things in life? Presenting oneself as intellectually superior is nothing more than a form of Goan casteism. It is nice to be important. But it is more important to be nice. And perhaps that may be "Class".

[Goanet] CHANGING PEOPLE'S HEARTS AND MINDS ON CASTE

2007-12-09 Thread Bonefacio Lopes
If you ask my opinion on the above topic , it's nothing got to with caste in simple terms the biggest problem in Goa is Jealousy, crab mentality , and disunity amongst Goans. If the mind set of Goans are changed positively on issues of what i have mentioned then petty issues like caste and the l

[Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste - to Marie

2007-12-08 Thread Mario Goveia
Date: Sat, 8 Dec 2007 12:32:56 +0530 From: "Marie D'Souza" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > I have recently come to know that Communidades in Goa - or at least definitely in Aldona have 2 Presidents and 2 groups. One is for the upper caste/s and the other for the Sudhras. > Only when the Communidade in each

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-08 Thread Mario Goveia
Date: Fri, 7 Dec 2007 12:53:53 -0800 From: Gilbert Lawrence <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > Some excerpts: > If we are not clear thinking, we will not solve the problem. For my education, I ask you: Is the problem in UK related to caste? OR is it the insidious attitude of Goans that "I am superior that you"

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-08 Thread Seb dc
d de Tavares <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > Subject: Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste - to > (You have, now, gone & metamorphose the mucho mach Nehru, Pandit & all, > into Indira's mamma! > However, she was PM considerably after her mapa Nehru; i

[Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-08 Thread edward desilva
Gabe Menezes wrote: I do not believe it is a problem in Goa. I do think it is a problem though in the U.K. as it was in East Africa. Gilbert Lawrence asked: If we are not clear thinking, we will not solve the problem. For my education, I ask you: Is the problem in UK related

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-08 Thread Gilbert Lawrence
Hi Gabe, What does it take to get 'class'? Can it be taught or self-learnt like so many things in life? Lack of class shows itself in several forms, which have been described with many phrases. On Goanet, it may show as, "Last Wordism", a phrase coined by amcho Fred. Those who insists on 'l

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste - JOIN TOGETHER NOW...........

2007-12-08 Thread JOHN MONTEIRO
Well said Marie, and let us all hope, pray & use our (GOD-given) brains to get both together so that all act as one, together you win, divided will mean one rule for one and another for the other. Casteism will never get us anywhere, it has been said on this forum ad nausium but I am a great sup

[Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-08 Thread Marie D'Souza
If we want to change people's hearts and minds on caste what we need to do at the start is change the mindset of people / members of Institutions promoting caste. I have recently come to know that Communidades in Goa - or at least definitely in Aldona have 2 Presidents and 2 groups. One is fo

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-07 Thread Gilbert Lawrence
Hi Gabe, You have given more insights into the problem of caste among Goans than others in zillions of postings on this topic. Thank you for being honest and up front. And with your talents as a scribe, your English is unquestionably good. I noticed your statement, "I do think it is a problem

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-07 Thread CORNEL DACOSTA
Hi Victor I found it of much interest that you delivered a strong speech against casteism when at the Goan Convention in June. I was to attend the same Convention and planned to speak on casteism too but unfortunately, the Convention date clashed with another conference I had to attend

[Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-07 Thread edward desilva
gt; Subject: Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste - to (You have, now, gone & metamorphose the mucho mach Nehru, Pandit & all, into Indira's mamma! However, she was PM considerably after her mapa Nehru; in between stepped in the little red Sashtri, who pr

[Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste - to Edward

2007-12-07 Thread Mario Goveia
Thu Dec 6 02:08:25 PST 2007 From: edward desilva guirimboy at yahoo.co.uk > I HAVE SAID IT BEFORE AND I SAY IT AGAIN. You write post A LOT OF RUBBISH on Goanet, and after each sentence you contradict yourself in the next. You have made Caste System your Obsession because you have nothing better t

[Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-07 Thread edward desilva
Hi, I had said earlier to Bandare that my friend Mario does not comprehend his comprehension here is the proof. Mario, Gabe said - 'I AM THE DEVIL'S ADVOCATE' (devils advocate is an entity - it cannot be thanked) OK Mario!! Secondly YOU cannot change the 'Heart', heart is just a pump - it c

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-06 Thread Victor Rangel-Ribeiro
--- Gabe Menezes <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Mario responds: > > > > > Basilio, > > > I do not even recognize your observation that > > confrontation has been tried and has made things > > worse. I have seen or heard very few Goans even > > speaking out agains

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-06 Thread Gabe Menezes
On 06/12/2007, Mario Goveia <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > In my never humble opinion, the small number of expat > Goans confronting this abomination on Goanet are > showing they have the guts to do so. QUESTION: What guts are required ? I have never had a problem, with Bamons - I have danced with

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-06 Thread Mario Goveia
Date: Wed, 5 Dec 2007 23:37:37 + From: "Gabe Menezes" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > I am playing the Devil's advocate here, if it ain't broke why fix it ? As they say in American parlance! > The Bamons are happy with the status quo and so are the non bamons, in Goa. The only people who get irritated se

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste - to (Mario Goveia)

2007-12-06 Thread Alfred de Tavares
> Date: Thu, 6 Dec 2007 10:08:25 +> From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: [EMAIL > PROTECTED]> Subject: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste - > to (Mario Goveia)> > "Would the Brits have left India without being> > confronted by Mahatma Gan

[Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste - to (Mario Goveia)

2007-12-06 Thread edward desilva
"Would the Brits have left India without being confronted by Mahatma Gandhi? Would the Portuguese have left Goa without being confronted by Indira Gandhi?" RESPONSE: I HAVE SAID IT BEFORE AND I SAY IT AGAIN. You write post A LOT OF RUBBISH on Goanet, and after each sentence you contradict

Re: [Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-05 Thread Gabe Menezes
> Mario responds: > > > Basilio, > I do not even recognize your observation that > confrontation has been tried and has made things > worse. I have seen or heard very few Goans even > speaking out against caste, leave alone confronting > it. When I bring up the su

[Goanet] Changing people's hearts and minds on caste

2007-12-05 Thread Mario Goveia
Date: Tue, 4 Dec 2007 20:13:31 -0500 From: "basilio Monteiro" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > Some excerpts: > The perniciousness of the caste in Goan society was battled decades ago and continues to be battled till today, and statements were made, and positions staked. Documents were issued, etc. and those