Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences

2003-03-29 Thread Denise Hynd
Thank you denise - Original Message - From: "Lynne Staff" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Saturday, March 29, 2003 1:58 PM Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences Dear Penny - I kept this posting because I was very interested i

Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences

2003-03-29 Thread Lynne Staff
to hearing from you - regards, Lynne - Original Message - From: "Dr Penelope A Barrett" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "Ozmidwifery" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Friday, November 08, 2002 12:46 PM Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences Marilyn, What ca

Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences

2002-11-13 Thread rem & melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences And that is such a gift :  to gain a new career, a new empathy and be able to help other women.  (I feel I am on the verge of something similar.)  THe women who have had you as their carer should consider themselves lucky to have someone so

Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences

2002-11-13 Thread rem & melissa bruijn
t letting women know that THEY MATTER as well as their babies, is wonderful, Margie. It sounds like you are doing a lot to support them. And even if they are not ready - at least they know you are there. Melissa -- >From: Margie Perkins <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >To: [EMAIL PROTEC

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2002-11-13 Thread Jayne
From: Judy Chapman To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Thursday, November 14, 2002 1:21 PM Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences What helped me heal was knowing that I probably would not have been a midwife, or maybe not so caring, if it was not for

Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences

2002-11-13 Thread Judy Chapman
> Reply-To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences Date: Wed, 13 Nov 2002 22:35:18 +1030 Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiencesit's tragic that this is typical of rapees too. I think we ought to celebrate every woman who makes

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2002-11-13 Thread Aviva Sheb'a
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences it's tragic that this is typical of rapees too. I think we ought to celebrate every woman who makes the steps to even begin to heal; and let's celebrate every step along the way. love to you all, aviva - Original Message -

Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences

2002-11-13 Thread rem & melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences Judy - I am so sorry that you received no validation for your experience.  The comments re. having a healthy baby can be so hurtful.  I found they added guilt and self-doubt to the horrible way I was feeling. ie "How can it be that I a

Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences

2002-11-11 Thread Margie Perkins
; IS ok...and we have missed out on it. It is important to > acknowledge this. > > And the way you wrote about having had the honour of supporting > traumatised > women on their new journey...that just fills me with hope, and > gratitude > that there are people like you ou

Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences

2002-11-11 Thread Rhonda
ugh it.     Regards Rhonda               ---Original Message---   From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Date: Monday, November 11, 2002 23:54:43 To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: [

[ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences

2002-11-11 Thread Judy Chapman
om: "rem & melissa bruijn" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences Date: Sun, 10 Nov 2002 21:52:43 +0800 MArgie - just wanted to say THANK YOU for these words. The biggest thing I am finding for anyone who has been traumatised by their birth e

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2002-11-10 Thread rem & melissa bruijn
way you wrote about having had the honour of supporting traumatised women on their new journey...that just fills me with hope, and gratitude that there are people like you out there. Thank you, Melissa -- >From: Margie Perkins <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] >Subj

Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences

2002-11-08 Thread Marilyn Kleidon
suburban community hospital. - Original Message - From: "Jennifer Semple" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Friday, November 08, 2002 7:41 PM Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences > Marilyn, what's DIC? > > Th

Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences

2002-11-08 Thread Jennifer Semple
Marilyn, what's DIC? Thanks, Jen - Original Message - From: "Marilyn Kleidon" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Date: Friday, November 8, 2002 10:17 am Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences >she > survived,most probably one of the few people to survive DIC

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2002-11-08 Thread Robin Moon
t: Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences Oh, by golly. Imagine what will happen when EVERYONE speaks out! Go get 'em! Strength to all. aviva - Original Message - From: Dr Penelope A Barrett To: Ozmidwifery Sent: Friday, November 08, 2002 9:45 AM S

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2002-11-08 Thread Aviva Sheb'a
Oh, by golly. Imagine what will happen when EVERYONE speaks out! Go get 'em! Strength to all. aviva - Original Message - From: Dr Penelope A Barrett To: Ozmidwifery Sent: Friday, November 08, 2002 9:45 AM Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences I wonder how

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2002-11-07 Thread Dr Penelope A Barrett
Marilyn, What can I say ... I am thinking and reflecting more on this since my last post - only a couple of hours ago - there are so many 'horror' stories inside me (amongst a lot of nice ones too) that they must have some effect on my psyche. During the midwives' action research group (MARG) c

Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences

2002-11-07 Thread Marilyn Kleidon
ome things you never know. Fortunately I went to 2 very normal homebirths immediately after this birth, so I got right back into it. marilyn - Original Message - From: "Dr Penelope A Barrett" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "Ozmidwifery" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Thursday, Nov

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2002-11-07 Thread elizabeth mcalpine
- From: "Dr Penelope A Barrett" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "Ozmidwifery" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Friday, November 08, 2002 10:15 AM Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences > I wonder how many midwives have also felt violated and traumatised (but not > bee

Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences

2002-11-07 Thread Dr Penelope A Barrett
I wonder how many midwives have also felt violated and traumatised (but not been able to find expression) for having to partake in care of women in hospital that has trauma as part of it - as a witness? I'm reflecting on some really bad vibes I can remember and the (?) shame/guilt/shock (?) at havi

[ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences

2002-11-07 Thread Margie Perkins
My heart goes out to everyone who is sharing or has had soul and body hurting births. It is not ok. And must change. I have had the honour of supporting a number of women who have previously been traumatised by caesareans (or other things) and it is something so special to be part of their new