Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-03 Thread John Sessoms
From: Doug Franklin On 2010-02-02 21:10, John Sessoms wrote: > I've disagreed with bosses before. If they're wrong, they're wrong. > > And I've done my share of following the bosses orders even when I knew > they were wrong. I've always dealt with it the way the US military often does: when

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-02 Thread Doug Franklin
On 2010-02-02 21:10, John Sessoms wrote: I've disagreed with bosses before. If they're wrong, they're wrong. And I've done my share of following the bosses orders even when I knew they were wrong. I've always dealt with it the way the US military often does: when the boss is planning, and a

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-02 Thread Tom C
I've found they forget pretty quick (usually), there's always someone who doesn't accept the negative light even when it's their doing... I make it a point never to say I told you so. I just calmly outline the fix, estimate the time it will take, and proceed when given the green light. It often m

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-02 Thread John Sessoms
From: Leon Altoff John, You make the points I was wanting to make, thanks for saving me the effort. I would point out that even if it is your boss tha is making the suggestion you can still argue with it (I have several times and often win the discussion). The boss always has the option to say

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-02 Thread Leon Altoff
John, You make the points I was wanting to make, thanks for saving me the effort. I would point out that even if it is your boss tha is making the suggestion you can still argue with it (I have several times and often win the discussion). The boss always has the option to say "Do it anyway.", bu

RE: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread John Sessoms
From: Boris Liberman Having returned from the trip to USA, my boss pointed out that I spoke rather harsh language. Here is an example. I would say something like "I suggest that we do so and so" and according to my boss "I suggest" was interpreted specifically as an order, not as a suggestion o

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread frank theriault
On Mon, Feb 1, 2010 at 11:13 AM, Thomas Bohn wrote: > Moin, > > One of my English teachers in school warned us about the usage of the > word "Sir", because as non-native speakers we could hit the wrong tone > w/o even knowing it. > > And now I just have to bring in the future EU energy commissione

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread Thomas Bohn
2010/2/1 Bob W : > At least he's not trying to sing the Welsh national anthem: But he will be the next EU energy comissioner, and has no clue about energy policy or the English language. What anthems concerns, I can't sing mine either. I always forget the lyrics. So what? Thomas -- PDML Penta

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread Graydon
On Mon, Feb 01, 2010 at 08:54:03AM -0500, Tom C scripsit: [snip] > When one specifically states that something is a suggestion, I don't > know how it can be interpreted otherwise unless it is almost > deliberately misinterpreted. Words are chosen, usually with the intent > of accurately expressing

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread Ken Waller
Kenneth Waller http://www.tinyurl.com/272u2f - Original Message - From: "Rob Studdert" Subject: Re: Question of English, American and otherwise On 01/02/2010, Boris Liberman wrote: Having returned from the trip to USA, my boss pointed out that I spoke rather hars

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread Cotty
On 1/2/10, Boris Liberman, discombobulated, unleashed: > >I would say something like "I suggest that we do so and so" and >according to my boss "I suggest" was interpreted specifically as an >order, not as a suggestion or as an indication of one option among >several possible courses of action. My

RE: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread Bob W
> Moin, > > One of my English teachers in school warned us about the > usage of the word "Sir", because as non-native speakers we > could hit the wrong tone w/o even knowing it. > > And now I just have to bring in the future EU energy > commissioner Günther Öttinger and his attempt to speak >

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread P. J. Alling
I wouldn't be too hard on him, he's a bureaucrat, he's probably unintelligible in German as well... On 2/1/2010 11:13 AM, Thomas Bohn wrote: Moin, One of my English teachers in school warned us about the usage of the word "Sir", because as non-native speakers we could hit the wrong tone w/o e

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread P. J. Alling
Antennae? I always thought you were and earthly alien. On 2/1/2010 3:46 AM, AlunFoto wrote: It's the curse of not being native English speakers. It _can_ be a source of misunderstandings, but in general I believe both brits and americans are more forgiving than your boss would have you think. E

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread Thomas Bohn
Moin, One of my English teachers in school warned us about the usage of the word "Sir", because as non-native speakers we could hit the wrong tone w/o even knowing it. And now I just have to bring in the future EU energy commissioner Günther Öttinger and his attempt to speak English in public: h

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread Tom C
What are you suggesting Bob? :-) On Mon, Feb 1, 2010 at 10:44 AM, Bob Sullivan wrote: > Boris, > I think you have ventured into the tricky landscape of selling your > ideas to people. > I suspect Tom C. is very right about what 'tone' and manner you used. > 'I suggest' is pretty direct language f

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread Bob Sullivan
Boris, I think you have ventured into the tricky landscape of selling your ideas to people. I suspect Tom C. is very right about what 'tone' and manner you used. 'I suggest' is pretty direct language from a vendor to a client. 'You might want to think about doing something like this...' or 'One way

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread Boris Liberman
Thanks everyone who replied. The issue is much clearer to me now! -- Boris -- PDML Pentax-Discuss Mail List PDML@pdml.net http://pdml.net/mailman/listinfo/pdml_pdml.net to UNSUBSCRIBE from the PDML, please visit the link directly above and follow the directions.

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread Tom C
Boris, If I had said exactly what you said, I would feel exactly as you feel. When one specifically states that something is a suggestion, I don't know how it can be interpreted otherwise unless it is almost deliberately misinterpreted. Words are chosen, usually with the intent of accurately expr

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread Doug Franklin
On 2010-02-01 3:05, Boris Liberman wrote: I would say something like "I suggest that we do so and so" and according to my boss "I suggest" was interpreted specifically as an order, not as a suggestion or as an indication of one option among several possible courses of action. 1. Is indeed thi

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread AlunFoto
2010/2/1 Bob W : >> >> To me, smalltalk is where intonation suddenly conveys strange >> and unfathomable things.OTOH, that could speak more about the >> shortness of my social antennae than anything else, I guess. :-) >> >> Jostein > > It's been the sole topic of conversation here since your last v

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread mike wilson
Boris Liberman wrote: > Having returned from the trip to USA, my boss pointed out that I spoke > rather harsh language. Here is an example. > > I would say something like "I suggest that we do so and so" and > according to my boss "I suggest" was interpreted specifically as an > order, not

RE: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread Bob W
> > To me, smalltalk is where intonation suddenly conveys strange > and unfathomable things.OTOH, that could speak more about the > shortness of my social antennae than anything else, I guess. :-) > > Jostein It's been the sole topic of conversation here since your last visit... Bob -- PDM

RE: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread Bob W
> Having returned from the trip to USA, my boss pointed out > that I spoke rather harsh language. Here is an example. > > I would say something like "I suggest that we do so and so" > and according to my boss "I suggest" was interpreted > specifically as an order, not as a suggestion or as an

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread eckinator
what rob said just relax, you're probably just fine cheers ecke 2010/2/1 Rob Studdert : > On 01/02/2010, Boris Liberman wrote: >> Having returned from the trip to USA, my boss pointed out that I spoke >> rather harsh language. Here is an example. >> >> I would say something like "I suggest that w

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread AlunFoto
It's the curse of not being native English speakers. It _can_ be a source of misunderstandings, but in general I believe both brits and americans are more forgiving than your boss would have you think. Especially about business/science/problem-solving/etc. topics. That's my experience anyway. To m

Re: Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread Rob Studdert
On 01/02/2010, Boris Liberman wrote: > Having returned from the trip to USA, my boss pointed out that I spoke > rather harsh language. Here is an example. > > I would say something like "I suggest that we do so and so" and > according to my boss "I suggest" was interpreted specifically as an > ord

Question of English, American and otherwise

2010-02-01 Thread Boris Liberman
Having returned from the trip to USA, my boss pointed out that I spoke rather harsh language. Here is an example. I would say something like "I suggest that we do so and so" and according to my boss "I suggest" was interpreted specifically as an order, not as a suggestion or as an indication of on