Re: [QUAD-L] SURGERY

2006-05-04 Thread Stacy Harim
I have my flap surgery coming in the next couple of weeks.  It isn't scheduled yet but the office said only a couple of weeks.  Good luck with yours.  My only worry is how I'm gonna get all this hair washed. LOL!!   It's really long because I want to donate it but I'm not ready to cut it ye

[QUAD-L] Prescription drug plan

2006-05-04 Thread Dillon Ewa
Have all you signed up for the new prescription drug plan?  I am in the process but want to know if any of you decided to keep your original Medicare coverage or have you decided to enter into an HMO or PPO and two also receive your prescription drug coverage through these companies. I only have t

Re: [QUAD-L] Concerts

2006-05-04 Thread Houston809
Title: Re: [QUAD-L] Concerts I don’t know if he lied. But if he did guess I’ll have 2 go see him again. :) Prince isn’t or hasn’t gone Christian 3121 not as rowdy as 1999 but far from Christian. Still vintage PRINCE a true musical genius. On 5/3/06 4:14 PM, "[EMAIL PROTECTED]" <[EMAIL PROTECTED

Re: [QUAD-L] keeping in touch

2006-05-04 Thread Houston809
Title: Re: [QUAD-L] keeping in touch Glad things are going great 4 U. they have consumer directed services here. Handled through para-quad the cil here in st. louis. IRCIL which I was a board member 4 yrs needs 2 work on these services. Once again congrats On 5/4/06 6:15 PM, "Jason Thurston" <[

Re: [QUAD-L] Living alone and the future- slippery slope

2006-05-04 Thread Houston809
Title: Re: [QUAD-L] Living alone and the future- slippery slope Wally I used 2 get calls from you & andrea. Never had a problem with getting my chair in. :) why doesn’t every friend own a wheelchair get away van? :) and I’m looking 4 a call when you come 2 St. Louis On 5/4/06 8:45 AM, "[EMAIL P

Re: [QUAD-L] keeping in touch

2006-05-04 Thread RollinOn
That's great news Jason and I'm glad you found someone who can see past the chair. It takes a very special person and you're a lucky man. You'll have a great time in Washington and you'll meet some awesome people there, I know I did and wish I was going so we could meet but there'll be more a

Re: [QUAD-L] Living alone and the future

2006-05-04 Thread Houston809
Title: Re: [QUAD-L] Living alone and the future Dillon, When I 1st left the nursing home I was scared a few nights. But now I’m in St. Louis, Mo. Living with my sister can’t wait until I get my own apt. 2 be by myself. I only have my sister & her husband & kids here in St. Louis. But have no fea

[QUAD-L] keeping in touch

2006-05-04 Thread Jason Thurston
Dear Quad List Here's my attempt at catching up with everyone who's important to me.  The first big news, if you haven't heard, is that I have a job working for the local Center for Independence.  My job title is independent living specialists, some of the things that I do for work pertain

Re: [QUAD-L] Dillion, setting yourself up for semi-independent quad life

2006-05-04 Thread Houston809
Title: Re: [QUAD-L] Dillion, setting yourself up for semi-independent quad life People are people family or friends. I moved 2 indpls because I had family members offer 2 be of assistance if needed. It didn’t last long got 2 point I only saw them a couple times a yr. Friends I got 1 friend in al

Re: [QUAD-L] Living On The Edge- slippery slope

2006-05-04 Thread Richard Kratt
You old devil you.  :)Richard[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I fell over backwards going down the 4 inch bump out of my apartment in Phoenix in June in 1974.   I was alone and so pretty screwed if left to my own devices.  I guy across the bust street saw me and yelled over to see if I needed any h

Re: [QUAD-L] Living alone and the future

2006-05-04 Thread Bobbie299
I must be VERY aggressive because right from day one I asked friends to come get me or are you coming over here? When I went out dancing, shopping or picnic's I always asked guys out. I started dating while I was still in the hospital, Kevin was my PT. And I've had a boyfriend ever since, I think

Re: [QUAD-L] Living On The Edge- slippery slope

2006-05-04 Thread Oconnelldb
I fell over backwards going down the 4 inch bump out of my apartment in Phoenix in June in 1974.   I was alone and so pretty screwed if left to my own devices.  I guy across the bust street saw me and yelled over to see if I needed any help.  He got me up and back into my apt.  That was eno

[QUAD-L] Living Alone

2006-05-04 Thread Oconnelldb
I got this from a friend of my friend who met us at a local meet-market, Hurricane Bay.  There's nothing going on 'cept a bunch of flirting and hugs and kisses in front of everyone.  We're just huggy-friends.   You will have to get out in a crowd to meet people, and I'm here to tell you, the

[QUAD-L] Living On The Edge- slippery slope

2006-05-04 Thread River Wolfe
Like the topic of sex, it seems we always come back to talking about relationships and isolation. Personally I am reluctant to ask people to come over or hang out, my house is always a mess !! with 2 artists living here it gets pretty cluttered. For example right now there's a belt sander in

Re: [QUAD-L] SURGERY

2006-05-04 Thread Oconnelldb
I just had a secondary closure done for the 2nd time.  I was out for about 2 hours with a general anesthesia. I had a perileal abscess drained last August and my 1st secondary closure performed in January.   It didn't close and kept draining about 30-50 cc of fluid a day.  I've used up all m

Re: [QUAD-L] SURGERY

2006-05-04 Thread Danny Hearn
You will be in our prayers, hope all goes very smoothly-- let us know how you are doing afterwards.  DanLori Michaelson <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Is there anyone scheduled for any type of surgery in the next two weeks?   I am going in next Wednesday [May 10t

[QUAD-L] SURGERY

2006-05-04 Thread Lori Michaelson
Is there anyone scheduled for any type of surgery in the next two weeks?   I am going in next Wednesday [May 10th] to have my bladder stones removed.  Or my rocks ... since they are so huge.  It is an outpatient procedure so I hope everything goes smoothly.  The only thing that I am worried a

Re: [QUAD-L] Living alone and the future- slippery slope

2006-05-04 Thread RollinOn
Aint that the truth!   Mark    ---Original Message---   From: Danny Hearn Date: 05/04/06 10:03:44 To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]; [EMAIL PROTECTED]; [EMAIL PROTECTED] Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Living alone and the future- slippery slope  WIN THE LOTTERY--EVERYONE WILL

Re: [QUAD-L] Concerts

2006-05-04 Thread David K. Kelmer
Hi Stunt,   We saw them in June, the plane crash was in Oct.  This is from their web site.   "Skynyrd's ability to constantly rekindle its creative fires following tragedy is a testament to the indomitable spirit that has surrounded the band since its inception, and has largely defined Lynyrd S

Re: [QUAD-L] Living alone and the future- slippery slope

2006-05-04 Thread StubanRN
One of the problems is we can't go to others' homes because they are not wheelchair accessible. So a couple years ago I started a book club and it's still going strong. They put it their calendar and everyone shows up and has a good time. Sandy

Re: [QUAD-L] Joystick alternative

2006-05-04 Thread StubanRN
It's an infrared motion sensor switch made by Words+. http://www.words-plus.com/website/products/input/istswtch.htmSandy

Re: [QUAD-L] Living alone and the future- slippery slope

2006-05-04 Thread Stacy Harim
That was hard for me to adjust to.  Friends that I had 10 plus years in the area I live in are the same way.  Friends that I used to go out with.  I stress to them time and time again that all they have to do is let me know is where they are and I can meet them.  My big thing was when I fir

Re: [QUAD-L] Living alone and the future

2006-05-04 Thread Stacy Harim
I do live alone but my situation is much like yours Jim.  Out of the very few friends I still have, most of them are married.  I can call them and ask for their help or support but they are so busy with their families.  Their kids are in sports mostly and they are great parents being there

Re: [QUAD-L] Living On The Edge- slippery slope

2006-05-04 Thread Robert Brennan
Funny hey,but sad in the same context. I have 9 brothers and 5 sisters. Before my spinal injury,if it was happening it was happening at my house most weekends,sometimes even longer. If somebody needed numbers i was number 1. Hmm,wonder how they are these days although 1 bro' has stuck by me an

Re: [QUAD-L] Living alone and the future- slippery slope

2006-05-04 Thread Danny Hearn
WIN THE LOTTERY--EVERYONE WILL CALL AND SHOW UP    LOL Dan-[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:  Living as a quad, one is always on a slippery slope. One learns in time that being pro-active vs reactive is just part of being a quad as others do not know on a minute by minute basis, how yo

[QUAD-L] Living On The Edge- slippery slope

2006-05-04 Thread wheelchair
Living on the edge is not just an AeroSmith song.  It often describes the life of many paras and quads. A true friend will change your diaper and flush your legbag on the fly... without question. W     In a message dated 5/4/2006 9:01:33 AM Central Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

[QUAD-L] Living alone and the future- slippery slope

2006-05-04 Thread wheelchair
  LOL.  You can't begin to believe how RIGHT you are! W     In a message dated 5/4/2006 9:21:44 AM Central Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: WIN THE LOTTERY--EVERYONE WILL CALL AND SHOW UP    LOL Dan-  

Re: [QUAD-L] Living alone and the future- slippery slope

2006-05-04 Thread Shahidul
Hi, Jim:-)   Thats the fact of life. That happened to most of us. We must and have to accept this fact.   Also know that, we have now new friends in this cyber space. We can not do much for each other physically but we can at least exchange soothing words to give each other comfort of mind and rene

Re: [QUAD-L] Living alone and the future- slippery slope

2006-05-04 Thread Jkrocks
That's my point.  If I do not make any calls, nobody calls me except for a couple of my closest friends from childhood.  It's funny how you can have so-called friends for 20 plus years and as soon as something happens they disappear off the face of the earth especially family members that a

[QUAD-L] Living alone and the future- slippery slope

2006-05-04 Thread wheelchair
  Living as a quad, one is always on a slippery slope. One learns in time that being pro-active vs reactive is just part of being a quad as others do not know on a minute by minute basis, how you are doing that day.  When living in a chair, friends are not going to stop by and say lets go for

Re: [QUAD-L] Living alone and the future

2006-05-04 Thread Jkrocks
My biggest fear is living alone and I know one day that's going to happen.  I'm still married with my two children living at home but I take my situation one day at a time.  Since my injury, I have learned a lot about my family and my friends.  I have found out that if I do not pick up the

[QUAD-L] Living alone and the future

2006-05-04 Thread wheelchair
  You don't sound negative to me.  You sound like a person who has just become to realize that life is going on for them and realize that they need a plan, as well as a backup plan for the future.  That plan includes, what happens if I enter into a relationship and what should I do.  Same wou

Re: [QUAD-L] Dillion, setting yourself up for semi-independent quad life

2006-05-04 Thread Shahidul
Hi, Ron,   Excellent writing. Please keep it up...   Shahidul Dhaka, Bangladesh  On 5/4/06, RONALD L PRACHT <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Hey, Im a c7 quad and live with my father in a house he owns. I think the best thing to do is be realistic and realize that our fathers wont be around forever . S

[QUAD-L] wireless trackball mouse- which one do you use?

2006-05-04 Thread kaye allard
I know this question has been asked, sorry! I am getting a laptop and I can't see myself hauling around a corded trackball mouse. The logitech one doesn't look like it will work for me. I like the regular logitech trackball but the wireless one looks like it works only for someone who is using