RE: Shielding child whose mother is A from father's Blifestyle/ideology/religion?

2008-01-24 Thread Brownstein, Alan
And that raises the issue from my prior post -- would a Jewish parent reciting a Hebrew prayer before dinner "confuse . . . the faith formation" of a child being raised as a Christian? Does the court have the power to condition visitation right on a parent refraining from praying before meals? I

RE: Shielding child whose mother is A from father's Blifestyle/ideology/religion?

2008-01-24 Thread Newsom Michael
Marty puts the matter in the right analytical framework. Arrangements regarding important child rearing issues are made, where the family is intact, by the parents (typically) and the parents are free, within fairly broad limits to be as "unreasonable" as they wish to be. They are constrained b

RE: Shielding child whose mother is A from father's B lifestyle/ideology/religion?

2008-01-24 Thread Volokh, Eugene
Actually, the New York appellate court approved a father's petition for overnight visitation, but stressed that this was done only because the father and his fiancee "agreed to refrain from exposing the child to any ceremony connected to their religious practices," and because the Family

RE: Shielding child whose mother is Catholic from father's Wiccanlifestyle?

2008-01-24 Thread Ed Brayton
But I hadn't already been exposed to it. For the first 8 years of my life I was raised with no religion at all. After that, not only did I have a Pentecostal stepmother, my father agreed that I would go to church with her every week (and I did, even becoming a Christian for several years). I think

RE: Shielding child whose mother is Catholic from father's Wiccan lifestyle?

2008-01-24 Thread Ed Brayton
I don’t think I’m confusing those issues, I’m saying that the latter issue inevitably collapses to the first. The idea that religion is to be preferred to non-religion, which is omnipresent in case after case in this area, IS an ideological predisposition, and it is one that exists without any soli

Re: Shielding child whose mother is A from father's B lifestyle/ideology/religion?

2008-01-24 Thread marty . lederman
I don't think Eugene's test case helps us see the problem clearly in these religion disputes. In deciding the "best interests of the child," it is virtually inevitable that a court will eventually be required to evaluate the "philosophy" to which the child will be exposed -- a philosophy that

RE: Shielding child whose mother is A from father's B lifestyle/i deology/religion?

2008-01-24 Thread Will Linden
At 03:27 PM 1/24/08 -0600, you wrote: I know I will probably be slapped down on the ground that it is not a legal consideration, but isn't judges deciding what will "confuse" the poor dears, well, patronizing? I had problems with my parents' pseudo-solution to interfaith issues, but I am sure

Re: Shielding child whose mother is A from father's B lifestyle/i deology/religion?

2008-01-24 Thread Vance R. Koven
I agree with the distinction, and I agree that a judge should base a decision on more than generalized hypothetical injury. However, where there is credible evidence of a serious risk of injury, which survives rebuttal, that to me justifies some level of restriction, even on a conventional free-spe

RE: Shielding child whose mother is A from father's B lifestyle/i deology/religion?

2008-01-24 Thread Judith Baer
At a practical level, of course, what parent would come out in open court and say "we're racists here, you can't let my child consort with other races"? (Vance Koven) No, but the present case reminds me of Palmore v. Sidoti. The father argued for, and initially got, custody on the grounds that hi

RE: Shielding child whose mother is A from father's Blifestyle/ideology/religion?

2008-01-24 Thread Volokh, Eugene
I appreciate Vance's kind words, and the response. But I'm not sure it quite works: 1. Can it really be that the First Amendment rule is "no viewpoint discrimination in custody decisions, except that viewpoint discrimination is OK against racist parents"? The Court has not accepted "race is al

RE: Shielding child whose mother is Catholic from father'sWiccanlifestyle?

2008-01-24 Thread Volokh, Eugene
Enforcing the parties' express agreement is one thing (cf. Cohen v. Cowles Media in the free speech context). But restricting the speech of a parent -- whether religious or political -- without an express agreement is quite another. Also, if the rule applied by the New York court was tha

Re: Shielding child whose mother is A from father's B lifestyle/ideology/religion?

2008-01-24 Thread Vance R. Koven
As always, Eugene finds the telling counter-example. I would argue (just a little shamefacedly) that in America race is almost always a special case that requires the utmost delicacy in scrutiny. The 14th amendment constrains to some extent what state court judges can do through their orders, and

Re: Shielding child whose mother is Catholic from father's Wiccan lifestyle?

2008-01-24 Thread Vance R. Koven
With all respect, I think Ed is confusing two different issues. Of course, a judge that awards custody or enters an order *because one parent's religion is "better" than the other's* is not supportable, and may have constitutional implications. But that's not what we're talking about. We're talking

Re: Shielding child whose mother is Catholic from father's Wiccanlifestyle?

2008-01-24 Thread Vance R. Koven
In a situation where the child has *already* been exposed to differences in outlook between the two parents (as in Ed's personal example or in Alan's), then it seems highly unlikely that anyone could show psychological injury by the child's continuing to be so exposed following a divorce. Nobody h

Re: Shielding child whose mother is Catholic from father's Wiccan lifestyle?

2008-01-24 Thread Steven Jamar
But it is doing so (according to some) not on the basis of religion or a religion per se, but rather because of some erstwhile other basis. Does not intent matter here? To me it seems to be both an endorsement and entanglement and also it seems to stepping on free exercise. But it is very

RE: Shielding child whose mother is Catholic from father's Wiccan lifestyle?

2008-01-24 Thread Judith Baer
The judge is preferring one religion to another, which even Rehnquist conceded is a violation of the First Amendment. Judy Baer Professor Judith A. Baer Department of Political Science Texas A&M University 4348 TAMU College Station, TX 77843-4348 979/845-2246 fax979/847-8924 [EMAIL PROTECT

RE: Shielding child whose mother is Catholic from father's Wiccanlifestyle?

2008-01-24 Thread Brownstein, Alan
I have no clear answer to this problem - but I think part of what is troubling to me about the potential scope of these constraints on visitation orders is that they may make it difficult for the child to have any meaningful relationship with one parent. A devout individual may make his or her reli

Shielding child whose mother is A from father's B lifestyle/ideology/religion?

2008-01-24 Thread Volokh, Eugene
Vance's proposed approach has the merit of being, at least facially, viewpoint-neutral; and I take it that it would apply to all ideologies, religious or otherwise. But let me probe whether it is indeed so. Say, for instance, a child has been raised in a racist household. After the bre

RE: Shielding child whose mother is Catholic from father's Wiccan lifestyle?

2008-01-24 Thread Ed Brayton
I could not agree more with Steve Jamar on this. The assumption that being exposed to different ideas is a bad thing is simply wrong. I know this from my own experience, having been raised by a Pentecostal and an atheist (who are still married after many decades). A judge making a custody decision

Re: Shielding child whose mother is Catholic from father's Wiccan lifestyle?

2008-01-24 Thread David Waddilove
Deciding to expose children to a variety of religious "options" is inevitably preconditioned by a value judgment about the source of truth. This is to say that placing the content of different religions on an equal level, as the decision to expose children to them in this manner more or less explic

Re: Shielding child whose mother is Catholic from father's Wiccan lifestyle?

2008-01-24 Thread rlcyr
A few responses in this thread suggest that the father converted to Wicca after the divorce (or at least, after he got married).  I haven't hunted down the decisions here, so maybe it is in fact a part of the history here.  I'm thinking that it's more likely an assumption -- and an incorrect o

Re: Shielding child whose mother is Catholic from father's Wiccan lifestyle?

2008-01-24 Thread Vance R. Koven
I think Steve's message illustrates exactly the point. What's in the best interests of *the* child is a matter to be decided with reference to the particular child in question and to his/her family's unique circumstances. It is not a matter for ideology. If a child is raised in a household in whic

Re: Shielding child whose mother is Catholic from father's Wiccan lifestyle?

2008-01-24 Thread Steven Jamar
I'm quite troubled by the idea that children are developmentally harmed by exposure to more than one idea, religious or otherwise. And that a judge can decide that only one religion is not harmful, and decide which one. How about -- step parents -- that is confusing. Or remaining single. That is

RE: Shielding child whose mother is Catholic from father's Wiccan lifestyle?

2008-01-24 Thread Conkle, Daniel O.
Maybe I wasn't clear. I wasn't suggesting how these cases should be decided, but only attempting to highlight what I think to be the underlying issue or problem. (Maybe my point was so obvious that it could have gone without saying.) I haven't studied this particular area with care, but I'm i

Re: Shielding child whose mother is Catholic from father's Wiccan lifestyle?

2008-01-24 Thread Vance R. Koven
I'm a bit confused by Prof. Conkle's last sentence. The judges have been explicitly ruling based on the "best interests" standard, which is the only one they are permitted to apply. The question is not whether religion should be exempt from the standard, but whether religion should be a favored or

RE: Shielding child whose mother is Catholic from father's Wiccan lifestyle?

2008-01-24 Thread Conkle, Daniel O.
Ordinarily, the government, including judges, properly has little or no say in parental decisionmaking, lifestyle choices, etc., even if those parental choices or activities might not (in the view of the government, including judges) be in the best interests of the child. It seems to me that th

Re: Shielding child whose mother is Catholic from father's Wiccan lifestyle?

2008-01-24 Thread Vance R. Koven
Shouldn't the issue be framed as whether the judge is granting greater solicitude to religious aspects of the child's upbringing than to non-religious ones of comparable influence? If the father had suddenly developed an extreme interest in, say, raucous rock concerts (weird people, drums, dancing)