Right Ode! A little harmless flirting would be good for an over 50's woman (or any age.) With the ravages of time and gravity on the body, lots of women feel unattractive. Exercise helps with feeling good, but doesn't do much for looks (I'm talking mild exercise like the average person might do). No chance of looking like the under 40 women that men love to look at.
At the YMCA pool, one of the members is an almost 90 year old former state senator and ex-bomber pilot. He's so full of charm that he still gets the women giggling....with comments like "Your hair looks extra pretty today", or "You have pretty teeth", or "You have pretty skin." It might seem hokey and fresh from a younger guy, but coming from him it just gives a little boost. Pat ----- Original Message ---- From: Dorothy Fitzpatrick <[email protected]> To: [email protected] Sent: Sun, January 31, 2010 10:47:24 AM Subject: Re: CS>Depression/Anxiety You're quite the psychologist aren't you Ode? Naughty with it too! dee On 31 Jan 2010, at 14:08, Ode Coyote wrote: > > > Opinion: > Depression is a negative feedback loop where lack of interest and lack of > adequate reasons to do stuff leads to doing nothing...and doing nothing > suppresses the brain chemistry that makes one interested in doing stuff. > To get around that, learn to not need reasons to move, and once you get > moving, reasons come back, especially if reasons are no longer needed. [ANY > reason is an adequate reason...get MOVING and the sillier the better ] > Depression is a disease of the ego, backed up by chemical imbalance in a > feedback loop. [Attitude controls brain chemistry and ego controls attitude] > A great deal of a womans ego comes from the power of her sexuality and if she > no longer "feels" sexy, that power gone leaves a huge vacuum...and a vacuum > attracts anxiety. > Silly can fill it. Get unreasonable. You don't need a reason to be happy. > -- The Silver List is a moderated forum for discussing Colloidal Silver. Instructions for unsubscribing are posted at: http://silverlist.org To post, address your message to: [email protected] Address Off-Topic messages to: [email protected] The Silver List and Off Topic List archives are currently down... List maintainer: Mike Devour <[email protected]>
