I don't think most guys are looking for the perfect
woman, they are just looking for thewoman perfect for them. There is a big
difference.
AJ
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Sent: Friday, September 26, 2003 8:32
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Subject: Re: [Sndbox] Pick one (inner
beauty)
In a message dated 9/26/2003
9:45:58 AM Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED]
writes:
You sniped off some of your
original question, I think.
What I was getting at is that I think
that a lot of women, (not you Jackie), that complain about only
getting judged by what's on the outside don't always give much love to
their man from the inside. If a man is getting love and attention
from his woman he *will* appreciate her inner beauty. If all a man gets
is hen pecking and put downs that make him feel worthless, he will be
susceptable to another woman that will give him the
attention. If a guy has been around enough of these women he may find
it is easier to just consider them sex toys and treat them as such.
Down in Texas, I used to listen to a talk radio program called "Dr. Tony
Grant." She mostly specialized in relationship advise.
When ever a woman would call in and complain about her husband and how
they had an argument over something and how she just couldn't get through
to the thick headed brute, Dr. Tony would point out that the woman
was displaying very destructive behavior to their marriage. She
would always say.... "Do you want to be right ... or do you want to be
loved."
As far as the magazines and such.... I agree with
Charles.... You can't tell me that women don't put any stock in their
first impression of how a man looks.... As far as the airbrushed
perfection thing..... I often see real live walking talking
women of all ages and dress sizes that didn't need any airbrushing
to get *my* attention.... <G> I am sorry that some
women compare themselves to what they see on the magazine stand, but I
think that they could choose not to.... I don't compare myself to
the weight lifter guys that are on those same magazine stands.
Now if a guy took out a Maxim or SI magazine and showed it to his wife
and said, " Why don't you look like that?" That would be
cruel, but I think that mostly what you are saying is that you
*assume* they are comparing.
well actually i think were off the subject
completely but that could be my fault cuz i made the comparison comment
:) the actual point to the comparison comment and the original
comment is how men are looking for the perfect looking women because
they are exposed to these magazines and think thats what they are suppose to
look like. now we can turn this around and have a good one abpout
women who expect men to be romantic like they always are on tv too and it
would be the same principal. the media (as in magazines movies
television and such have painted impossible images for both women and men to
live up to for men its more the inside stuff and for women its more the
outside stuff.
now to answer the they arent treating their men right
one I know alot of wonderful sweet giving women who are far from perfect
body status who are shunned for shallow good looking women. so i cant say i
agree with that tony guys opinion.
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