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Ditto....
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Saturday, September 27, 2003 5:34
PM
Subject: Re: [Sndbox] Pick one (inner
beauty)
I don't think most guys are looking for the
perfect woman, they are just looking for thewoman perfect for them.
There is a big difference.
AJ
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Friday, September 26, 2003 8:32
AM
Subject: Re: [Sndbox] Pick one (inner
beauty)
In a message dated 9/26/2003
9:45:58 AM Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED]
writes:
You sniped off some
of your original question, I think.
What I was getting at is that I
think that a lot of women, (not you
Jackie),
that complain about
only getting judged by what's on the outside don't
always give much
love to their man from the inside. If a man is getting
love and
attention from his woman he *will* appreciate her inner beauty.
If all
a man gets is hen pecking and put downs that make him feel
worthless,
he will be susceptable to another woman that will
give him the
attention.
If a guy has been around enough of these
women he may find it is easier
to just consider them sex toys and treat
them as such. Down in Texas, I
used to listen to a talk radio
program called "Dr. Tony Grant." She
mostly
specialized in
relationship advise. When ever a woman would call in
and complain
about her husband and how they had an argument over
something and how
she just couldn't get through to the thick headed
brute,
Dr. Tony
would point out that the woman was displaying very destructive
behavior
to their marriage. She would always say.... "Do you want to
be
right ... or do you want to be loved."
As far as the
magazines and such.... I agree with Charles.... You
can't
tell
me that women don't put any stock in their first impression of how
a man
looks.... As far as the airbrushed perfection
thing..... I often see
real live
walking talking women
of all ages and dress sizes that didn't need any
airbrushing to get
*my* attention.... <G> I am sorry that some
women
compare themselves to what they see on the magazine stand, but I
think
that they could choose not to.... I don't compare myself to
the weight
lifter
guys that are on those same magazine
stands. Now if a guy took out a
Maxim or SI magazine and showed
it to his wife and said, " Why don't
you look like that?"
That would be cruel, but I think that mostly what
you
are saying is
that you *assume* they are
comparing.
well actually i think were off the subject
completely but that could be my fault cuz i made the comparison comment
:) the actual point to the comparison comment and the original
comment is how men are looking for the perfect looking women because
they are exposed to these magazines and think thats what they are suppose to
look like. now we can turn this around and have a good one
abpout women who expect men to be romantic like they always are on tv too
and it would be the same principal. the media (as in magazines movies
television and such have painted impossible images for both women and men to
live up to for men its more the inside stuff and for women its more
the outside stuff.
now to answer the they arent treating their men
right one I know alot of wonderful sweet giving women who are far from
perfect body status who are shunned for shallow good looking women. so i
cant say i agree with that tony guys opinion.
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