I am sure you wont like this but: IMO, the other woman is not the blame. THe man still could have said no. She might be a hussy,(sorry Jen) but she is not the reason the affair started. It started because Tom allowed it to happen.
Remove the temptation and you remove the potential problem.
AJ
thank you
Hmmmm......haven't been around much. What are we talking about here?
Gary
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