They are weak from the circumstances of their marriage so if someone shows them a little attention they are weak and will give in. (and alot of times feel like crap about it later)
sorry to have to disagree here but they so horrible about it that they go out and do it again and again and again in most cases. There are very few men (and women) who seriously regret the action and never do it again.
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