What I'm saying is if a friend was a true friend, she wouldnt have agreed to the affair in the first place so the husband wouldnt have to worry about breaking his vows.
if the husband were a real man he'd simply say no to the friend too. it is HIS (or the wifes) CHOICE to have the affair or not.
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