Ok, you dont want to leave your husband/wife and you have tried asking them and talking to them to try to find out why they dont want to. There is no medical excuse, only the spouse not wanting to have sex. You have tried counseling....I'm not saying its right for them to go out and have an affair, but I can see in some circumstances why they do.
that's where a good grip and imagination come into play...there is NO EXCUSE for infidelity.
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