I'm like you on this one.  We had a tough decision with Julie's mom...but
fortunately the doctor was able to ask her mother if she wanted more pain
medicine or did she want to be more alert.  She chose the pain medicine and
it basically put her to sleep then shut her down.  She was in so much pain
and suffering from the cancer.  Now this case is a bit different, but if
they feel that taking the woman off of the feeding tubes will cause her pain
and make her suffer, I'm not for her suffering.  I say since she is
basically dead anyway, then give her enough medication to let it be an easy
transition.  I don't like playing God, but I don't think that is the case.

David L.

Ben Franklin:  "Only a virtuous people are capable of freedom. As nations
become corrupt, they have more need of masters."



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[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of Charles
Sent: Wednesday, October 15, 2003 9:58 AM
To: 'The Sandbox Discussion List'
Subject: RE: [Sndbox] Right to Die


I haven't decided on this one.  The woman has been vegetative for 13 years.
For all practical purposes she is not alive, and reports I've heard is that
her brain waves are severely deteriorated. The drain on her immediate family
(Husband (children?)) must be enormous not even counting the financial drain
keeping her artificially alive.

I'm looking at it like this, my wife (who according to the laws of the state
of FL is my next of kin) knows my wishes.  If she made the difficult
decision to cease heroic measures on me I wouldn't want my mother to be able
to step in and make a different decision.  If the extended family wins in
this case, that is the precedent that will be set.

I know for *ME* I don't want to live like that.  Take the tube away.  If it
is the only thing keeping me alive, I mean, and I'm not conscious.  Now if I
were still conscious and just couldn't eat, then it is a different story.


Charles Mims
http://www.the-sandbox.org


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On Behalf Of Tim Harder
Sent: Wednesday, October 15, 2003 10:38 AM
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Subject: [Sndbox] Right to Die


Has anyone been paying attention to the woman in Florida who has been a
vegetable since 1990.  They are going to remove her feeding tube...  They
say she will *probably* die in about two weeks.... Does anybody else find
this disturbing?  I suppose they will have her loaded up on pain meds?  Is
it better for her to go this way... or would it be better for someone to
give her a lethal dose of something?


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