On Tue, Oct 19, 2004 at 09:20:06PM -0500, Brian wrote:
> Do the world a favor and simply hold, rather than bounce, unknown
> mail.  Or drop it.  But please don't penalize the rest of the world
> (spam or otherwise) by bouncing messages, most of which will probably
> end up getting sent to a spoofed return path.

Why is bouncing unknown email any more penalizing than confirming
unknown email?  As far as spoofed return paths, I currently filter
all incoming email based on SPF records prior to anything ever
reaching TMDA.  Anyone that has a valid SPF record won't get bounces
or confirms from my TMDA set up.
 
> You might be interested in a little utility I wrote, tmda-ezplm
> (http://www.pongonova.net/tmda-ezplm), which would allow you to simply
> hold all incoming, non-whitelisted e-mail to your son in tmda-pending,
> and have a nightly e-mail send to yourself which would allow you to
> release and/or whitelist new senders that are known to you.

Setting the email up to confirm, rather than bounce, is not a
bad idea.  That would give me an option to peruse the pending dir
to whitelist and/or release acceptable emails.  But I'd want to
set it up so that confirmation replies did nothing.

My purpose for sending a bounce or a confirm is to provide the sender
with an option once they find out that they can't send my son email.
The last thing I want is for someone who has a legitimate reason
to send email to my son thinking that their email got through when
it didn't.  I think it's my responsibility to inform folks that
their email failed and give them something that they can do if they
really want to send this email.

Cheers,
- Mark
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