Hey guys, Just to let you know, I had an amazing time. It was the most perfect weekend really. I can't remember ever being so relaxed. I did have a bit of a rough night on Sunday after I took her Scuba diving, but it was well worth it. The entire weekend was fun, we both had a really great time. I owe you guys a lot for your encouragement, I was really worried about nothing. I guess I thought I wasn't ready, but now I know I'm still attractive to the opposite sex and I can still put a smile on a woman's face. >From the bottom of my heart guys, Thanks.... Always, Jeron
From: em...@telephonelady.com To: rumc...@hotmail.com Subject: RE: [TMIC] is it too early? (off topic) Date: Wed, 19 Oct 2011 11:22:19 -0400 Hi Jeron, Was just wondering how did you enjoy your weekend? Did you both have a great time? Emily From: Emily [mailto:em...@telephonelady.com] Sent: Friday, October 14, 2011 2:21 PM To: 'Jeron Rampersad' Subject: RE: [TMIC] is it too early? (off topic) Well….the alternative would be to continue to hide the REAL you……then get further into the relationship….and then she finds out and wonders why you didn’t tell her about all of this sooner. I say…get it out there…let her know the REAL you before both of you get so entangled that it becomes even more difficult to get it out in the open. Why not give her a call right now and tell her of your concerns? Tell her what you have is painful…..and it is a part of who you are. Just a suggestion….. From: Jeron Rampersad [mailto:rumc...@hotmail.com] Sent: Friday, October 14, 2011 2:03 PM To: em...@telephonelady.com Subject: RE: [TMIC] is it too early? (off topic) Thanks Emily, We've "been" together already, but didn't spend a night together as yet. So, she gonna see me with all my pills and the routine I go through every night to fall asleep. I'm really afraid that I won't be able to hide my pain for the entire weekend. It might be too much to see so soon, do you know what I mean? Jeron From: em...@telephonelady.com To: rumc...@hotmail.com Subject: RE: [TMIC] is it too early? (off topic) Date: Fri, 14 Oct 2011 13:47:27 -0400 Jeron, My suggestion is just go and enjoy yourself. If “something” happens……so be it. Life is too short. Enjoy each day you have here on earth…..because as you already know life can change in a split second. Have you met with her already? Does she know about your disability? My husband has no feeling from the waist down so “nothing” is happening here but our relationship was so good and strong before this TM came into our life that we are able to sustain our love for each other without “something” happening in the bedroom. I hope all goes well with her…..have a good time….and come back on Monday and let us know how it went this weekend. I wish you luck…..you deserve some happiness in your life. Regards, Emily From: Jeron Rampersad [mailto:rumc...@hotmail.com] Sent: Friday, October 14, 2011 12:42 PM To: tmic-list@eskimo.com Subject: [TMIC] is it too early? (off topic) Hey guys, I need some advice. Most of you would remember my wife leaving me in April of this year. Since then I've found acceptance of my lonliness and it really was not too bad. Anyway, some 2 months ago I met up an old friend from way back and well, let's just say sometimes life just has a way of hooking 2 people up. My problem is I'm going away with her this weekend to a resort on the island of Tobago for her birthday. I'm kind of wondering if I'm ready to spend a weekend with someone alone. Haven't thought about that since my separation/divorce. What if I start having real feelings for her? What if she wants more out of this "relationship" after this weekend, even though we spoke about it at lenght. I was really honest with her from the get go, suppose honesty becomes my downfall? Should I be scared guys? or should I just go and have fun....forget TM/fibromyalgia/vasculitis for a weekend and enjoy the company of a woman who I might like? Regards, Jeron
