Jeron I am so glad you has such a good time. It sure pays to take a chance on life when you have an opporunity. I have been thinking about you and hoping all went well for you.
Keep us informed and good luck with this relation. Patti - Wisconsin On Wed, Oct 19, 2011 at 3:14 PM, Jeron Rampersad <rumc...@hotmail.com>wrote: > Hey guys, > Just to let you know, I had an amazing time. It was the most perfect > weekend really. I can't remember ever being so relaxed. I did have a bit of > a rough night on Sunday after I took her Scuba diving, but it was well worth > it. The entire weekend was fun, we both had a really great time. > I owe you guys a lot for your encouragement, I was really worried about > nothing. I guess I thought I wasn't ready, but now I know I'm still > attractive to the opposite sex and I can still put a smile on a woman's > face. > From the bottom of my heart guys, Thanks.... > Always, > Jeron > > ------------------------------ > From: em...@telephonelady.com > To: rumc...@hotmail.com > Subject: RE: [TMIC] is it too early? (off topic) > Date: Wed, 19 Oct 2011 11:22:19 -0400 > > Hi Jeron, > > > > Was just wondering how did you enjoy your weekend? Did you both have a > great time? > > > > Emily > > > ------------------------------ > > *From:* Emily [mailto:em...@telephonelady.com] > *Sent:* Friday, October 14, 2011 2:21 PM > *To:* 'Jeron Rampersad' > *Subject:* RE: [TMIC] is it too early? (off topic) > > > > Well….the alternative would be to continue to hide the REAL you……then get > further into the relationship….and then she finds out and wonders why you > didn’t tell her about all of this sooner. I say…get it out there…let her > know the REAL you before both of you get so entangled that it becomes even > more difficult to get it out in the open. Why not give her a call right now > and tell her of your concerns? Tell her what you have is painful…..and it > is a part of who you are. Just a suggestion….. > > > > > > > ------------------------------ > > *From:* Jeron Rampersad [mailto:rumc...@hotmail.com] > *Sent:* Friday, October 14, 2011 2:03 PM > *To:* em...@telephonelady.com > *Subject:* RE: [TMIC] is it too early? (off topic) > > > > Thanks Emily, > We've "been" together already, but didn't spend a night together as yet. > So, she gonna see me with all my pills and the routine I go through every > night to fall asleep. I'm really afraid that I won't be able to hide my pain > for the entire weekend. It might be too much to see so soon, do you know > what I mean? > Jeron > ------------------------------ > > From: em...@telephonelady.com > To: rumc...@hotmail.com > Subject: RE: [TMIC] is it too early? (off topic) > Date: Fri, 14 Oct 2011 13:47:27 -0400 > > Jeron, > > > > My suggestion is just go and enjoy yourself. If “something” happens……so be > it. Life is too short. Enjoy each day you have here on earth…..because as > you already know life can change in a split second. > > > > Have you met with her already? Does she know about your disability? My > husband has no feeling from the waist down so “nothing” is happening here > but our relationship was so good and strong before this TM came into our > life that we are able to sustain our love for each other without “something” > happening in the bedroom. > > > > I hope all goes well with her…..have a good time….and come back on Monday > and let us know how it went this weekend. I wish you luck…..you deserve > some happiness in your life. > > > > Regards, > > Emily > > > > > > > ------------------------------ > > *From:* Jeron Rampersad [mailto:rumc...@hotmail.com] > *Sent:* Friday, October 14, 2011 12:42 PM > *To:* tmic-list@eskimo.com > *Subject:* [TMIC] is it too early? (off topic) > > > > Hey guys, > I need some advice. Most of you would remember my wife leaving me in April > of this year. Since then I've found acceptance of my lonliness and it really > was not too bad. > Anyway, some 2 months ago I met up an old friend from way back and well, > let's just say sometimes life just has a way of hooking 2 people up. My > problem is I'm going away with her this weekend to a resort on the island of > Tobago for her birthday. I'm kind of wondering if I'm ready to spend a > weekend with someone alone. Haven't thought about that since my > separation/divorce. What if I start having real feelings for her? What if > she wants more out of this "*relationship*" after this weekend, even > though we spoke about it at lenght. I was really honest with her from the > get go, suppose honesty becomes my downfall? > Should I be scared guys? or should I just go and have fun....forget > TM/fibromyalgia/vasculitis for a weekend and enjoy the company of a woman > who I might like? > Regards, > Jeron >
