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Hi Pete,
You are becoming the master of games, a step very far above that of a
master game player. Indeed a master of the games themselves.
Keep on TROMmoing, Paul
On Feb 9, 2014, at 3:24 AM, Pete Mclaughlin wrote:
Hi Paul
I am finding that even though I am at level 3 and still have some
compulsive games going on I can encounter an other who wants to
come at me with an opposition postulate to mine. But if I recognize
this as a game I don't want to play I can change my postulate to a
complementary postulate. When I do this the other fails to hold
their opposition postulate and wanders away.
Because of my understanding of games I can dissolve games
conditions or changes the others interest in playing a game.
Fun stuff.
Pete
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Hi Cory,
Yes, your conclusion is correct but there are still three parts.
If you are not into having a winner or a looser in an encounter
with another or others, then there is no game by you. The other
or others may not see it that way and are looking for a winner or
a looser so it is a game for them. From an exterior view of an
encounter, the encounter may be a game or not a game to all of
those doing encountering. No conclusions can be taken until more
actions have been taken and those actions are available to view.
The one who has 'Freedom from Overwhelm' and 'Freedom from Games'
can be thought of as a stranger in a strange land and be very
alone. This is why Dennis says that you will be alone as you
progress through TROM and the only way to avoid this is to also
take someone with you. I forget if he makes that statement after
Level 3 or 4.
One may have his Ethics in and may not have a game within an
encounter but the encounter is still the playing of a game and one
or more of the encounterors may wind up exiting the encounter as
neutral for they did not play the game to a win or a loose. They
just participated and their underlying intention was for everyone
to do well and not necessarily loose but not have to win. For
those sticklers that have to have polarities, no matter what, it
can be said that the encounter was a win-win situation. And again
it can be said for a particular encounter as this, win-win, there
is and was no game.
Keep on TROMmoing, Paul
On Feb 8, 2014, at 6:18 PM, Cory Keeler wrote:
I love talking about polarity. However what I see is that
applying ethics is a matter of doing right or doing wrong. And
any game is polarized, thus to have ethics in is to be good, and
that makes it a game.
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Hi Cory,
Freedom from games is to not have the intention that there will
be a win or a loss or both, a winner and a looser. Some will
always come to a conclusion of a win or a loss or both but you
don't have to. Some cannot see beyond having winners and
loosers. One should be content that things can happen and
happen for the better. In this way, Ethics can be applied
without one having to enter into games. The physical universe
is a force universe but it is not a necessity that it also be a
two pole and have polarizing effects. There can be best and
almost as good as best. We don't have to have the best and the
worst.
It's all subjective even when it is objective and purely
physical. What can you see?
Keep on TROMmoing, Paul
On Feb 8, 2014, at 2:26 AM, Cory Keeler wrote:
Just curious you wrote:
It is up to each individual to be free of games and have their
Ethics in to avoid catching themselves up with out-Ethics and
having motivators.
Is not having ethics in and being free of games impossible?
Ethics involves games right?
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