On Mon, Mar 31, 2014 at 7:06 PM, Joe Hass <hassgoc...@gmail.com> wrote:

> I did not see the HIMYM finale. But I did just read about it. And I don't
> think I'm spoiling anything when I say this:
>
> Good news, Seinfeld! You're no longer the worst series finale in
> television history.
>

There will be spoilers in this post, but A) I have read other posts in this
thread now and there seem to already be spoilers here, despite the subject
line an B) it was three months ago.

I had never seen a single episode of this program until one month ago.
After years of badgering from a family member, I promised to watch the
first season on Netflix. I did not love it, but did not hate it, and
decided to keep watching it - and somewhere between Season 2 and 3 I got
hooked. My 16 year old son did too, and we started binge watching it. We
got to the end of Season 8 last week and were horrified to find the last
season was not on the 'flix. I bought the last season on Amazon, and we
started taking it about 4 or 5 episodes at a time - and just finished it
off earlier this evening.

There is a different dynamic when you binge watch a long-running show over
a short time frame, compared those who patiently live with a show week by
week over many years. I noticed when I binged on House a few years ago that
I was not as frustrated with the cast changes as friends and family who had
watched it all along were (at least, not until the last season). That may
be part of the reason that I do not hate the ending of HIMYM. I was
genuinely sad as it became pretty clear in Vesuvius what was going to
happen to Mother (I did not know what was going to happen, but did know
that there was some controversy about it - which probably was enough to cue
me into what was going to happen) but not angry at the producers.

The ending seems very consistent with the entire show (both in resolving
appropriately the trilemma that Robin was not the kids mother, Ted Loved
the kids mother, and Ted loved Robin) and with the longstanding themes of
the show. It explains why he is telling his kids the story (and why
teenagers would sit through such a long story from their Dad). The
producers' main mistake seems to have been that of all of Ted's girlfriends
over the years, the actress they got to play the mother was by far the most
likable (I actually did not very much like any of the others), so even
though we only knew her for about one season, we quickly grow attached to
her, and feel like all the sentimental stuff Ted has been saying about her
in the previous 8 seasons make it seem like we knew her longer than we did.
I guess if fans did not like her so much they would not have been so angry.

I have read this evening several online reviews summarizing why the fans
hated it so much, many of which reach to say something nice about it and
say it shows how life is unpredictable. This strikes me as the opposite of
the case. Nothing is more predictable in life than that the people we love
will die (if we do not die first), so the ending actually shows just how
predictable life really is. There are 3 marriages at the core of this show:
1 is fabulously happy, 1 is happy but ends in death, and 1 ends in divorce.
The only thing unrealistic about that is suggesting the hit rate for happy
marriages is 2 out of 3.

I grew to like this show (the last CBS sitcom I watched regularly was
probably Murphy Brown), and I really liked the ending. But then, I liked
the ending of The Sopranos too...

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