Thanks for this Ronni, there is a bit of reading to do to digest all that. 

Before I had even spoken to Apple Support, the decision to update my Apple ID 
password was made and reinforced by your indication to do this - I hadn't 
chosen to ignore the advice. I had some family events and busy work periods 
which meant the issue of resolving my daughters Messages issue laid dormant for 
a few FIFO swings. As I work away, I have very limited windows where I can do 
things like this and I have to be at the family home as 13 devices affected - 
making this change with me away would send the house into meltdown. When I 
tried to actually do the update of the password, I couldn't, I ended up in a 
loop which was seemingly preventing me from doing the update. I would log in 
with my original Apple ID credentials which were acknowledged, and would get a 
blank panel (which later was corrected with Apple support help) where the 
update opportunity would subsequently present itself. It may have looked from 
the outside like I was ignoring, but your always accurate advice was certainly 
taken on board when it was provided. I merely used Apple Support to get me out 
of the loop I was in - which they we're able to do for me.

I am inclined towards moving to Family Sharing and with your comprehensive 
notes will be closer than I was prior to the email of yours.

Thanks again very much for the comprehensive notes.

Regards


Pete

> On 18 Jul 2016, at 7:59 PM, Ronni Brown <ro...@mac.com> wrote:
> 
> Hi Peter,
> 
> I’ve added to your subject - iCloud Family Sharing
> 
> I was not going to add anything more as I've given you all information on 
> iCloud Family Sharing before, and mentioned that you first needed to update 
> your Apple ID password security. Which you chose to ignore until Apple 
> support also told you to.
> 
> I’ll copy and paste more info from my documents on iCloud Family Sharing below
> ---
> iCloud Family Sharing 
> iCloud Family Sharing requires Yosemite or later, or iOS 8 or later, so I 
> recommend using it only if all your family’s devices are running recent 
> versions of their respective operating systems. If your family fits that 
> profile, here’s what you’ll get for up to six family members:
> 
>       • All family members’ purchases of media from Apple are charged to the 
> credit card of the person you designate as the family organizer. (Family 
> members who have enough credit in their own Apple ID accounts can use that 
> credit to buy something without using the shared card.)
> 
>       • Kids (who can get special Apple IDs of their own even if they’re 
> under 13) can request media purchases from a parent, who must approve each 
> one individually.
> 
>       • All family members can access each others’ media, although you can 
> hide particular items of your own that you don’t want to share.
> 
>       • A shared family photo album, calendar, and reminder list are created.
> 
>       • Family members can more easily share their locations (with Find My 
> Friends) and locate their devices (with Find My Device).
> 
> Partial workarounds for some of these things already existed, but Family 
> Sharing makes the process much more convenient.
> —
> Enable Family Sharing
> You can enable Family Sharing on either a Mac or an iOS device. Once it’s 
> enabled on one of your devices, it’s enabled on all of them. I’ll explain the 
> steps on a Mac here; if you use an iOS device, the process is similar except 
> you go to Settings > iCloud to start. Follow these steps:
> 
>       1. On a Mac, go to System Preferences > iCloud.
> 
>       2. Click Set Up Family.
> 
>       3. Click through five informational screens, confirming that you really 
> want to do this, and agreeing to the terms and conditions.
> 
>       4. In the dialog that appears, click Add Family Member to add one or 
> more family members:
> 
>               • ‣  For adults (and children with existing Apple IDs): Select 
> “Enter a family member’s name or email address,” enter the name or address, 
> and click Continue. Each invited family member will receive an email 
> invitation and must follow its instructions to accept the invitation.
> 
>               • ‣  For children without Apple IDs: Select “Create an Apple ID 
> for a child who doesn’t have an account,” click Continue, and then follow the 
> prompts. (See below Your Child’s Password, for important advice on choosing a 
> password.) You’ll have to select an iCloud username for your child (which 
> will become the child’s Apple ID), but then several screens go by before 
> you’re told if that username is available. If it isn’t, you’ll have to go 
> back to the child’s information screen, enter a new choice, and then step 
> through the process again—but at least the information you entered previously 
> will still be there.
> 
> Enter your credit card’s three- or four-digit security code when prompted.
> 
> To add another member, click the plus  <page41image16328.png> button and 
> repeat this process.
> 
>       • When you’re done, click Done.
> 
> To add or remove people later, go to System Preferences > iCloud and click 
> Manage Family. You can then change family members or adjust their details.
> 
> Your Child’s Password
> 
> Your child’s account password, like any iCloud account password, must meet 
> Apple’s minimum requirements—“at least eight characters, a number, an 
> uppercase letter, and a lowercase letter.” Normally I would suggest making 
> passwords stronger than the minimum.
> 
> However, in the case of a password for a very young child— consider keeping 
> it on the simpler side. That’s because the child will need to enter the 
> password in order to Use Ask to Buy—and if your child has to pester you to 
> look up and enter a long, complex password every time he wants to download a 
> game, that defeats part of the purpose of Ask to Buy in the first place, in 
> that the child can’t complete the process independently of the parent. On the 
> flip side, the presence of Ask to Buy (assuming you have it enabled) reduces 
> the security risk of a less-strong password.
> —
> Share Calendar and Reminders
> Each participating family member automatically has a Family calendar added to 
> Calendar (on OS X and iOS, and in the Calendar Web app) and a Family reminder 
> list added to Reminders. So, any events or reminders you assign to Family 
> will appear for all family members.
> 
> But what if you already had a shared family calendar (whether or not it was 
> called “Family”)? That calendar will still exist alongside the new one. If 
> you want to switch over to the new Family calendar without losing all the 
> events in your old family calendar, do this:
> 
>       • In Calendar on a Mac, select your old family calendar.
> 
>       • Choose File > Export > Export, choose a name and destination, and 
> click Export.
> 
>       • Choose File > Import, select the calendar you just exported, and 
> click Import.
> 
>       • In the Add Event dialog that appears, select your new Family 
> calendar. Click OK.
> 
>       • After Calendar imports the events into your Family calendar, you’ll 
> have two copies of each one—one each on the old and new family calendars. 
> Skim these to make sure all your events are indeed present on both calendars.
> 
>       • Select your old family calendar, choose Edit > Delete, and click 
> Delete to confirm.
> 
> The new family calendar will be used for family events from now on.
> —
> Share Family Photos
> 
> Family Sharing creates a new shared photo album called Family on all the 
> family’s devices. Add photos to this album just like any other album, and 
> they’re available to all family members.
> —
> Use Find My Noun
> 
> Family Sharing makes it easier for family members to use Find My Friends and 
> Find My Device
> 
>       • Find My Friends: Turning on Family Sharing automatically adds all 
> family members to each others’ Find My Friends app, so you can find out where 
> each family member is (or, to be more accurate, where each person’s primary 
> iOS device is).
> 
>       • Find My Device: On any or all of the family’s Macs and iOS devices, 
> family members can enable Find My Device (Find My Mac, Find My iPhone, etc.) 
> in System Preferences > iCloud (Mac) or in Settings > iCloud (iOS).
> 
> Once that’s done, when you open the Find My iPhone app for iOS, or the Find 
> My iPhone Web app at icloud.com, your personal devices appear at the top of 
> the All Devices list (under a My Devices heading), followed by headings for 
> each family member’s devices.
> —
> Share Media
> 
> Once Family Sharing is set up, media purchased from Apple by any family 
> member is available to the other family members, and new purchases are 
> charged to the organizer’s credit card. This is similar to how you can 
> re-download your own media.
> 
> To see and download another family member’s purchases:
> 
> • Mac apps: In the App Store app on your Mac, click Purchased and then choose 
> a family member’s name from the Purchased pop-up menu at the top.
> 
> • iOS apps: In the iOS App Store app, go to Updates > Purchased (iPhone) or 
> Purchased > My Purchases (iPad) and tap a family member’s name.
> Note: Some apps are not shareable among family members. (This is at the 
> developer’s discretion) Look at an app’s description in the App Store, and 
> you’ll see a Family Sharing entry that says either “Available” or “Not 
> Available.”
> 
> • Books: In iBooks for Mac, go to Store > Store Home and click the Purchased 
> link. Then choose a family member’s name from the pop- up menu next to 
> Purchased at the top.
> 
> In iBooks for iOS, go to Purchased (and then, on an iPad, to My Purchases) 
> and tap a family member’s name.
> 
> • Music, TV shows, and movies: In iTunes for Mac, click iTunes Store on the 
> navigation bar, click the Purchased link, and choose a family member’s name 
> from the pop-up menu next to Purchased at the top.
> 
> On an iOS device, open the iTunes Store app and then go to More > Purchased 
> (iPhone) or Purchased > My Purchases (iPad) and tap a family member’s name.
> 
> On an Apple TV, go to Movies > Purchased > Shared Movies or TV Shows > 
> Purchased > Shared TV Shows and select a family member’s name.
> 
> Note: If you subscribe to iTunes Match, your matched or uploaded tracks won’t 
> be available via Family Sharing because they weren’t purchased from Apple.
> --
> Hide Purchased Apps
> 
> To hide an app you’ve purchased from other members of your family, do this:
> 
> iOS: Go to App Store > Updates > Purchased > My Purchases (iPhone) or 
> Purchased > My Purchases (iPad), swipe an app name to the left, and tap Hide.
> 
> Mac: Go to App Store > Purchased, right-click (or Control-click) an app, and 
> choose Hide Purchase from the contextual menu. Click Hide Purchase to confirm.
> —
> Use Ask to Buy
> 
> If your family includes children, you may want to use Family Sharing’s Ask to 
> Buy feature. Follow these steps:
> 
> 1.  Go to System Preferences > iCloud > Manage Family (Mac) or Settings > 
> iCloud > Family (iOS), select a family member, and turn on Ask to Buy (it’s 
> on by default for new children’s accounts).
> 
> 2.  To designate another adult as a parent or guardian who can approve 
> purchases, go to System Preferences > iCloud > Manage Family, select that 
> person, and select Parent/Guardian.
> 
> 3.  On each child’s device, log in with the child’s Apple ID in both iCloud 
> (System Preferences or Settings) and each media app (iTunes, App Store, 
> iBooks).
> 
> 4.  On each adult’s device, log in with the adult’s Apple ID in all the same 
> places.
> 
> Thereafter, after the child clicks or taps the Buy or Install button in any 
> of Apple’s apps where media can be downloaded and enters her password, an Ask 
> Permission alert appears.
> When the child clicks or taps the Ask button in that alert, parents get a 
> notification that they can approve or decline.
> 
> Peter, I do not have first hand advice on this question per se, other than I 
> have assisted clients to setup their iCloud Family Sharing and they are happy 
> since making the change over to iCloud Family Sharing.
> 
> Cheers,
> Ronni
> 
> 
>> On 18 Jul 2016, at 5:46 PM, Peter Crisp <petercr...@westnet.com.au> wrote:
>> 
>> Hi all, I did eventually get this resolved. I had to take the plunge and 
>> update my Apple ID password - ugghhh. Anyway, it was relatively simple and 
>> without complications. As soon as I made the change - all my kids came to me 
>> holding their respective devices saying “Dad, I have to update the password, 
>> what do I do”! This was expected and simply resolved by entering the 
>> password. It happens a few times on each device for various reasons, app 
>> purchasing, Find my iPhone and some other things too much to remember. 
>> 
>> However, I still have my entire family (13 devices in aggregate) with one 
>> AppleID which causes a level of workarounds with some iOS features to avoid 
>> overlap of data. 
>> 
>> I am still wondering if I should take the plunge to move the other 4 family 
>> members to their own Apple ID - and set them up as Family Shared members 
>> under me as the Organiser. 
>> 
>> Has anyone got any first hand advice on this question and any reason why I 
>> should or should not migrate to a Family Shared environment?
> 
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