- > > Marriages then were rarely a matter of simple choice > no matter what age you > were, but by all accounts it was a happy marriage. > Dear Susan,
I realise that. I said this because she might not at all have been unwilling to marry Muhammad, maybe have even wished for it. It is not usual that a person at 9 or 10 have sound judgements on matters like choosing a marriage partner, but it is not unheard of. Some people, very few, have an insight and understanding far beyond their years. I am not saying that Aisha had, but rather I wanted to put that possibility forward. I do not think really that she had a big say in the matter, though it is not unthinkable that she was consulted. After all, when the Light of a Manifestation appears, some people are so touched by it that old customs and habits are completely forgotten, so it may be possible that contrary to tradition and custom, in this case Aisha was consulted and that she was very insightful and advanced for her years and knew exactly what she was doing. I do not think it very likely, but it is a possibility. much love, janine __________________________________ Do you Yahoo!? Meet the all-new My Yahoo! - Try it today! http://my.yahoo.com __________________________________________________ You are subscribed to Baha'i Studies as: mailto:archive@mail-archive.com To unsubscribe, send a blank email to mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] To subscribe, use subscribe bahai-st in the message body to [EMAIL PROTECTED] Baha'i Studies is available through the following: Mail - mailto:bahai-st@list.jccc.edu Web - http://list.jccc.edu/read/?forum=bahai-st News - news://list.jccc.edu/bahai-st Public - http://www.escribe.com/religion/bahaist Old Public - http://www.mail-archive.com/bahai-st@list.jccc.net New Public - http://www.mail-archive.com/bahai-st@list.jccc.edu