Hi, After a long sielence on this subject, I have some experience to shair. It happened with me just today. One of my friends has recently met with an accident. I went to his house to see him with some of my female friends in their car. P.s, It didn't make me uncomfortable at all. Any ways coming to the point, When we got down stares one of my friends was trying very hard to unpark her car. But it was beyond her efforts. So she quickly stepped out and some guy unparked the car for us. I was talking to someone elce so didn't notice that she has stepped out. As soon as car was in front of me I yelled loudly"areh vah!!! kya bat? madam ko bhi car chalani aati hai? aakhir nikal hi lee??" then everybuddy bursted out in laughter because of that stupid fumble. I too didn't miss this opportunity and just laughed aloud with them. These stupid mistakes don't make me uncomfortable, but give a chance to any untimely and natural humour. So don't pay that much attention to them. Soon your friends will not only co oprate with you, But will tease you like they did today with me for very long. And everybuddy knows, teasing is an unseprable part of good friendship. So happy fumbeling from my side. ☺ ☺ ☺ regards
On 9/14/12, Ekinath Khedekar <ekin...@gmail.com> wrote: > Has happend to me too, > > Solution, engage the person in some stupid conversation. > > > On 9/14/12, pankaj Singh kushwaha <justicewith...@gmail.com> wrote: >> yes friend: this is a mental problem. I want to share with all of >> you one day I was in the class teacher was talking to student then >> I said yes Sir then he told me I am not talking to you. this type of >> events has happend with me and also with my friends. I have a only >> a solution for this problem, it requires only a awareness to the >> normal people to deel with v.i. you know here a prof. in my >> university she is very psychologically fit when I wen to her class >> she asked my name through tuching my hand. I want to share one >> events friends one day I was at the bus stand and asked to >> passenger to tell me abouth the bus number sudenly he went and I >> could wait there for his respons, after some time I feel that he >> was not there then I asked a women she told me when this number bus >> went then Iwas here why you didn't ask me imediately I got angry >> and told her don't ask me further otherwise what I will say you >> can't imagin. so this type problems are coming and we can't remove >> it as we cn't remove blindness like that. >> >> On 9/14/12, Ekinath Khedekar <ekin...@gmail.com> wrote: >>> Some tips buddy, >>> >>> Invoke response >>> I.e. through interrogatives like isn’t it, do you know, are you >>> getting it, sahi hain? >>> >>> Or enquiring >>> In the narrative, make them confirm facts which are mutually known >>> like talking about a place or about person subject’s any attribute. >>> >>> Through their audio expressions inducing extreme or exaggerated >>> narrative >>> Like a Laughter, sorrowful chuck chuck etc. >>> >>> And remember as someone said, it happens to all of us. Don’t make a >>> big deal out of it. Just laugh and forget. If it happens to me I say >>> “Agar ye mujh jaisen aandhe ko anhin hoga tu kise hoga.” Hahahah >>> >>> Remember, good concentration on other's voice can exactly let you know >>> whom the person is looking at. In fact, i have many times caught >>> people signing amongst them selves. >>> >>> Disclaimer - >>> Personal views dude >>> >>> ~Cheers >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> On 9/13/12, Mohit Shah Shah <mohit.shah...@gmail.com> wrote: >>>> Hi folks, >>>> >>>> I would like to ask you all how you guys deal with this blindism. >>>> A blindism, of course, is a thing blind people do. >>>> >>>> So, due to lack of visual communication, it is often difficult for us >>>> to determine whether someone is talking to us or not if they forget to >>>> take our name. >>>> This recently happened with me and I was left ashen-faced and felt >>>> really awkward about it. >>>> What do you guys do when you don't know if someone's talking to you or >>>> not? >>>> >>>> One more thing, sometimes it's also difficult to determine if a person >>>> is listening to you or not. >>>> This is mainly because they may nod or do other visual things to show >>>> that they're listening, but we can't perceive that. >>>> >>>> So, what's the most graceful and dignified way of dealing with such >>>> situations? >>>> >>>> Controversially yours, >>>> Mohit >>>> >>>> >>>> Search for old postings at: >>>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>>> >>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>>> >>>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>>> please >>>> visit the list home page at >>>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>>> >>>> >>> >>> >>> -- >>> “The waves breaking on the surface draw all the attention, >>> but it is the current beneath the water that determines your direction.” >>> >>> >>> Search for old postings at: >>> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >>> >>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>> >>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>> please >>> visit the list home page at >>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >>> >>> >> >> >> Search for old postings at: >> http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to >> accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please >> visit the list home page at >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >> >> > > > -- > “The waves breaking on the surface draw all the attention, > but it is the current beneath the water that determines your direction.” > > > Search for old postings at: > http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ > > To unsubscribe send a message to > accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in > with the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please > visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > > -- Ajay Minocha Mob : +91-7827188455 E mail : ajayminoc...@gmail.com ajaymanu...@gmail.com Skype : ajayminocha2 Search for old postings at: http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ To unsubscribe send a message to accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in with the subject unsubscribe. 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