Competency and contribution are also playing a big role in all this! Of course Government jobs have reservations for us, but let us congratulate ourselves... we are working and performing! Hope you agree? Preeti
Preeti Monga Director Mobile: +91 9871701646 Landline: 011 22781446 E-mail: preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in Website: www.silver-linings.co.in ; www.silver-linings.org Our Services: Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. Training –Motivation; Stress Management; Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting – Corporate ; Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; including demystifying workshops and counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive Travel and Marketing Data Mining / Refining.. We assure high quality service marked with excellence and complete customer centricity, forming Synergies as we go along. -----Original Message----- From: AccessIndia [mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] On Behalf Of mahendra Sent: Thursday, July 03, 2014 12:07 AM To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues concerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners Dear Ashita why people give us jobs, if they can get sighted people? are you working? and there are enough sighted people jobless, or not? At 10:19 AM 7/2/2014, you wrote: >Dear preety madam, I can understand through your >real example that marriage between disable and >non disable is not always disastrous But I am >being reasonable in stead of being positive or >negative. If a person gets able bodied life >partner then why he or she should accept blind >person? Madam, this isn’t question of Indian >or American mentality. Blindness is big problem. >Blindness is not as simple and easy as you are >describing. Fortunatlly I have vision right now. >But if I will loss it, people will know me by my >blindness more then my real name. If I will do >something good, they will say: see that blind >girl has done really great job. If I will fail >in something they will say: bechari blind hai to >thik se nahi kar paai. Blindness will always >come first in our over all personality. People >can accept us as a friend or employee easily >with our blindness. But the same people will >think twice before accepting blind life partner. >Rather they will accept blind person as his or >her life partner in majburi only. On 7/2/14, >Preeti Monga <preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in> >wrote: > Hey, who are these beggers? Not any of >us here I hope? You all are all doing > >wonderfully well... then why are we calling >ourselves, or even indicating > towards >ourselves as beggers! > > Life is our choice, >you are whatever you have chosen to be... so let >us > first of all choose to be beggers! We all >deserve the best! How are we going > to convince >the world that we are great human beings, when >we are still > referring to ourselves as >beggers? I think we need to begin at the very > >beginning. Incidently, we have a major >disability, on top of that we go > ahead and >subscribe to being beggers! Amazing! We first >have to look at > ourselves as the true people >we actually are! If we are still not able to >do > this, how are we even expecting the non >disabled society to look at us > differently? >The world perceives you in the same way that >you look at > yourself! Please remember, it is >that simple! This is our world, and we are > >choosing to remain on the dark side of it, then >why complain at the way we > get treated? If >you say your name is 'begger' then that is >exactly what you > will be called as or refered >to by others! This is what is meant by > >conditioning. > > Please do understand, all, >each one of us is the very best and we have > >equal right and equal duties by this world! >Perform your duties to the best > of your >abilities, and your rights will come running >after you! > Warmly > Preeti > > Preeti Monga > >Director > > > > Mobile: +91 9871701646 > >Landline: 011 22781446 > E-mail: >preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in > Website: >www.silver-linings.co.in ; >www.silver-linings.org > Our Services: Executive >Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. >Training > Motivatioon; Stress Management; Soft >Skill; Behavioral. Gifting “ Corporate > ; >Promotional; Events. End to end CSR Advisory; >including demystifying > workshops and >counseling. Printing Solutions, Incentive >Travel and > Marketing Data Mining / >Refining.. > > We assure high quality service >marked with excellence and complete > customer >centricity, forming Synergies as we go >along. > > > > -----Original Message----- > >From: AccessIndia >[mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] >On Behalf > Of Asudani, Rajesh > Sent: >Wednesday, July 02, 2014 2:24 PM > To: >AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility >and issues concerning > the disabled. > Subject: >Re: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are > >normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners > > >Well said Ishita. > Motivation is ok, but >marriages between blind and sighted, without > >compromise are rare.. > > Please remember >beggars are not choosers.... > > > > >-----Original Message----- > From: AccessIndia >[mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] >On Behalf > Of ishita kapoor > Sent: Wednesday, >July 02, 2014 2:10 PM > To: AccessIndia: a list >for discussing accessibility and issues >concerning > the disabled. > Subject: Re: [AI] . >Re: my quriyocity are > >normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners > > >I have found the argument of bhavani sir more >realistic. > Preety madam, if your aim is just >to motivate us then your points are valid. > I >have 40 percent vision. > And if I lose it no >sighted person will even think to marry me even >in > dream unless he has social or economical >problems. > In that case a guy will marry me if >he won’t get proper match rather > any girl in >able bodied world, > Or if I can offer him lots >of money if he is poor > Or I have nice job and >he has no earning capacity. > Otherwise no >sighted person will marry me just for the sake >of charity. > And I don’t have any bitter >feeling for this belief. > Because everyone has >right to choose a life partner who is equal in >all > aspects > I can’t marry with the guy who >doesn’t have both arms and both legs. > The >same way I shouldn’t expect such charity from >any able bodied man. > And yes I won’t get >promotion if I ask my boss to touch his clothes >by > saying: sir log kafi tariff kar rahe hai >chalo mai bhi chhoo ke dekhu > to tariff kar >saku. > I don’t have much experience but still >I would like to advice all > youngsters that >please don’t do this. > Don’t ask anyone >that: sir ya madam mai apke kapde dekhna chahta >hun > ya chahti hun. > > > On 7/2/14, Preeti >Monga <preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in> >wrote: >> You are very right! >> Preeti >> >> >Preeti Monga >> Director >> >> >> >> Mobile: +91 >9871701646 >> Landline: 011 22781446 >> E-mail: >preeti.mo...@silver-linings.co.in >> Website: >www.silver-linings.co.in ; >www.silver-linings.org >> Our Services: >Executive Search - Specializing in Head Hunting. >Training >> Motivation; Stresss Management; >Soft Skill; Behavioral. Gifting >> >Corpoorate >> ; Promotional; Events. End to end >CSR Advisory; including demystifying >> >workshops and counseling. Printing >Solutions, Incentive Travel and >> Marketing >Data Mining / Refining.. >> >> We assure high >quality service marked with excellence and >complete >> customer centricity, forming >Synergies as we go along. >> >> >> >> >-----Original Message----- >> From: AccessIndia >[mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] >On >> Behalf >> Of Zoher Kheriwala >> Sent: >Wednesday, July 02, 2014 11:44 AM >> To: >AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility >and issues concerning >> the disabled. >> >Subject: Re: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are >> >normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners >> > > > In the world we cannot expect every sighted >person to get married to a >> blind person, even >we cannot expect every blind person to get >married >> to a blind person. Some of us might >have rejected the proposal of >> sighted person >not because of he or she is sighted but many >reasons >> other vice. Or if we are rejected by >sighted person, it might not be >> related to >our blindness. >> Let me have the courage to >make the statement, Many of we blind people >> >have the habit to relate our rejection (not only >in marriages but also >> in jobs and other >sectors) to our blindness, but I am sure that if >we >> are appealing to the required party then >our blindness should not be >> of great concern. >Yes having some doubt about our work efficiency >is >> quite natural in the case of sighted >partner, this may not be the case >> if we are >engaged with blind partner. This is the time >when we have to >> show our ability (not only >through talking but also through working). >> >Marrying to a sighted person or vice versa >cannot guaranty of >> successful married life. >It has very little to do with our blindness. >> >I have married to a blind girl, We have not >accepted each other >> because we are blind, >blindness is just is a coincidence. Let me >put >> in other words, My life partner happends >to be a person with >> blindness. >> When we >are in a hunt of life partner, we cannot over >estimate the >> ability of sighted person and we >should not under estimate the ability >> of >blind partner. >> >> >> On 7/2/14, Shadab Husain ><shadab...@gmail.com> wrote: >>> Hey Bhawani >bhai, nice quotes! The key point is that there >has to be some >>> "self-interest" for both the >parties otherwise the friendship will end. A >>> >person with financial poverty and emotional >richness can provide >>> emotional >>> support >to the emotionally poor but financially rich one >and thus can be >>> equal in status. Can we >apply it on a blind marrying a sighted? >Disagree >>> with it, but I won't - especially >after seeing so many examples on Access >>> >India. >>> >>> -----Original Message----- >>> >From: AccessIndia >[mailto:accessindia-boun...@accessindia.org.in] >On >> Behalf >>> Of bhawani shankar verma >>> >Sent: 02 July 2014 07:13 >>> To: AccessIndia: a >list for discussing accessibility and >issuesconcerning >>> the disabled. >>> Subject: >Re: [AI] . Re: my quriyocity are >>> >normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners >>> > >>> "Never make friends with people who are >above or below you in status. >>> Such >>> >friendships will never give you any >happiness." >>> - Chanakya >>> >>> "There is >some self-interest behind every friendship. >There is no >>> friendship >>> without >self-interests. This is a bitter >truth." >>> - Chanakya >>> >>> both >quotations should also be applied regarding >partnership. marriage is >> a >>> social >partnership between to parties where they have >joined each other >>> to >>> satisfy their >physical and emotional desires. >>> >>> ----- >Original Message ----- >>> From: "aditi shah" ><shahaditi1...@gmail.com> >>> To: "accessindia" ><accessindia@accessindia.org.in> >>> Sent: >Tuesday, July 01, 2014 6:24 PM >>> Subject: [AI] >. Re: my quriyocity are >>> >normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners >>> > >>> >>>> Hi there everyone, >>>> Have been >reading this discussion since a few days, so >felt like >>>> expressing my views as >well. >>>> >>>> We are all humans blind or not, >and we have our own set of skills. >>>> There >might be areas we are extremely good at or there >might be areas >>>> we cannot do much, in case >of us blind it may be because of our >>>> >disability whereas incase of sighted it might be >due to other reasons. >>>> According to me, a >happy married life demands a set of some >basic >>>> skills, like understanding, cooking, >up bringing of kids, earning, >>>> socializing, >etc. >>>> Again, these basic requirements differ >depending on what kind of a >>>> lifestyle one >has. >>>> So, in my view, it does not really >matter whether we are marrying a >>>> sighted or >a blind, what matters is whether our's and our >partner's >>>> skills can meet those basic >requirements or not. >>>> Considering this, I >disagree from the belief that if a blind has >to >>>> marry a sighted, he has to make >compromises like marrying someone >>>> >economically or intellectually weaker than >us. >>>> If a blind who is earning well or is >from a well-to-do family or may >>>> be is >extremely qualified marries a sighted from a >weaker economic >>>> background or >qualification, it is not a compromise as far as >both >>>> partners together possess the required >skills. >>>> Even if a blind is marrying a >blind, and both of them can manage to do >>>> >the required things, may be in ways different >than the normal world, >>>> they can indeed have >a successful married life. >>>> >>>> So, it is >not about being blind or sighted, it is always >about finding >>>> that someone such that with >understanding, you can both match up for >>>> >each other's shortcomings. >>>> Life partners >are like two pieces of a puzzle, one has to find >the >>>> other half that fits perfectly, lest we >got to spend our entire life >>>> filling the >gaps. >>>> >>>> Regards, >>>> >aditi >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> Register at the >dedicated AccessIndia list for discussing >>>> >accessibility of mobile phones / Tabs on: >>>> >http://mail.accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/mobile.accessindia_acc > >>>> essindia.org.in >>>> >>>> >>>> Search for >old postings at: >>>> >http://www.mail-archive.com/accessindia@accessindia.org.in/ > >>>> >>>> To unsubscribe send a message to >>>> >accessindia-requ...@accessindia.org.in >>>> with >the subject unsubscribe. >>>> >>>> To change >your subscription to digest mode or make any >other changes, >>>> please visit the list home >page at >>>> >http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org > >>>> .in >>>> >>>> >>>> Disclaimer: >>>> 1. >Contents of the mails, factual, or otherwise, >reflect the thinking >>>> of the person sending >the mail and AI in no way relates itself to >its >>>> veracity; >>>> >>>> 2. 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