----- Original Message ----- From: "ritu" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "'Killer Bs Discussion'" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Wednesday, February 18, 2004 11:09 PM Subject: RE: BRin-L - are we average?(was RE: Federal Marraige[sic]Amendment)
> Robert Seeberger wrote: > > > One thing you have to remember about Bisexuals. > > They can blend into any crowd. > > Remain hidden as long as they like. > > And only attract notice if they want to be noticed. > > > > My personal experience tells me that 40-60% of women I have dated were > > Bi (to varying degrees) and I would suspect the numbers are similar > > for men. > > Male homosexuality is suppressed in our society to the degree that > > male bisexuals either hide their sexuality or never act on it. > > > > I suspect that "pure" heterosexuals may not even be a majority. > > I have some questions: > > How do you determine if somebody is 'bi' if they have never acted on it? I think sexuality is a matter of who *you* think you are rather than what others perceive you to be. Further, I see sexuality as a matter of how one feels about things rather than what one does. In that sense celibacy is irrelevent to sexual orientation. > > And who would 'pure' heterosexuals be? People who find homo-sexuality > repulsive? No. Just people who are oriented towards the opposite sex only. > > Ritu, who is monogamous/hetero/married with one daughter > Same with a son and sometimes a step-daughter from my previous marriage. xponent Extended Family Plan Maru rob _______________________________________________ http://www.mccmedia.com/mailman/listinfo/brin-l
