----- Original Message ----- From: "Ronn!Blankenship" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "Killer Bs Discussion" <brin-l@mccmedia.com> Sent: Sunday, May 01, 2005 9:44 PM Subject: Re: Permission Slips Re: Rhetorical Questions RE:Removing Dictators Re:Peaceful changeL3
> It depends on whether one judges that the "enabling behavior" in the > particular case in question is overlooking the "severely antisocial > behavior" in question and allowing it to continue or responding to it and > therefore providing the one who exhibits the "severely antisocial behavior" > with the reward of seeing that their "severely antisocial behavior" has > provoked a response . . . Unfortunately, this list has had extensive experience testing this. I tend to ignore nasty one liners unless I can just turn them....but tend to counter arguments which actually have a point. FWIW, my friendly local therapist is of the opinion that ignoring these statements is probably the best thing to do. Dan M. _______________________________________________ http://www.mccmedia.com/mailman/listinfo/brin-l
