Wow! I would be concerned too. Amazing she can make herself throw up. Have you thought at all of putting her in a different daycare? I'm sure Lori is great and all but maybe a different situation might work better for her. We moved our son from a home daycare to the YMCA this summer. It was an adjustment for sure, it's more like going to school, with all the kids, teachers etc. But I think it is good with so many things to do, much more structured day. Maybe if your daughter was just one of the group and nobody made a fuss of how much she ate or didn't eat she would just do like everyone else is? Just an idea, I only have one son and we have never dealt with anything like that. Julia
----- Original Message ----- From: Samantha Morris <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Date: Wednesday, September 8, 2004 11:44 am Subject: [canada] RE: who's who > Hi Julia, > > I could write a book about all the issues we are having with her. > I'veactually been seeing a councilor since some of these issues > are too big for > me to handle. > > The biggest one we have right now is her morning ritual with going to > daycare. She has been going to the same daycare (in home daycare > where she > is part time and another boy of 3 goes part time too). This lady > also has > two boys of her own (7 and 5). Every morning she says "Where and > I going > today". If its a Lori day she complains and then says "Owie > tummy". She > gags sometimes etc. Last week she was at Lori's 5 days and 4 of > those 5 > days she threw up first thing when she got there basically. Once > she'sthere she is fine and when we go to pick her up she doesn't > want to leave. > > Katy is a VERY picky eater and would rather not eat if she had the > choice!Lori has had the power to get food into Katy from day one. > Well we think > this is what the issue is. She always says to me "Tell Lori I > don't have to > eat anything". I tell her she doesn't have to eat, but what she > doesn't eat > for lunch she will have to eat for dinner. There will be no > treats if she > doesn't eat her lunch. etc etc. Twice last week she tested this > and I made > her eat her lunch for dinner. She has such mind control now that > she can > make herself throw up very easily. > > I have no doubt about Lori. Katy pulls stunts and plays me over > my husband > constantly. Lori and I are the dominant females in her life and > she is > trying to control us. I can't let her win or I'll never have > control over > her. We are working on these things slowly. > > Eating and daycare are the biggest issues right now. This control > with Lori > comes and goes. Its funny we just think we have it licked and it > surfacesagain. > > Sorry you asked? =-) > > Sam --- You are currently subscribed to canada as: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To unsubscribe send a blank email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Make a clean sweep of pop-up ads. Yahoo! Companion Toolbar. Now with Pop-Up Blocker. Get it for free! http://us.click.yahoo.com/L5YrjA/eSIIAA/yQLSAA/BCfwlB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> <a href=http://English-12948197573.SpamPoison.com>Fight Spam! Click Here!</a> Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/kumpulan/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
