So Sam, she is only doing this when she has to do something she doesn't want to do? So you have tried giving rewards? If food is the issue, maybe try going to the dollar store, and picking a few little toys she will enjoy , and telling her that if she has a day without getting sick and going to Lori's with no argument she will get to choose a toy when she gets home! Sometimes it will feel like you are giving rewards all the time. I have not had to deal with an issue like that either, many other ones but not that yet! Good luck! ----- Original Message ----- From: "Samantha Morris" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "canada" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Wednesday, September 08, 2004 10:44 AM Subject: [canada] RE: who's who
> Hi Julia, > > I could write a book about all the issues we are having with her. I've > actually been seeing a councilor since some of these issues are too big for > me to handle. > > The biggest one we have right now is her morning ritual with going to > daycare. She has been going to the same daycare (in home daycare where she > is part time and another boy of 3 goes part time too). This lady also has > two boys of her own (7 and 5). Every morning she says "Where and I going > today". If its a Lori day she complains and then says "Owie tummy". She > gags sometimes etc. Last week she was at Lori's 5 days and 4 of those 5 > days she threw up first thing when she got there basically. Once she's > there she is fine and when we go to pick her up she doesn't want to leave. > > Katy is a VERY picky eater and would rather not eat if she had the choice! > Lori has had the power to get food into Katy from day one. Well we think > this is what the issue is. She always says to me "Tell Lori I don't have to > eat anything". I tell her she doesn't have to eat, but what she doesn't eat > for lunch she will have to eat for dinner. There will be no treats if she > doesn't eat her lunch. etc etc. Twice last week she tested this and I made > her eat her lunch for dinner. She has such mind control now that she can > make herself throw up very easily. > > I have no doubt about Lori. Katy pulls stunts and plays me over my husband > constantly. Lori and I are the dominant females in her life and she is > trying to control us. I can't let her win or I'll never have control over > her. We are working on these things slowly. > > Eating and daycare are the biggest issues right now. This control with Lori > comes and goes. Its funny we just think we have it licked and it surfaces > again. > > Sorry you asked? =-) > > Sam > > -----Original Message----- > From: Julia Dickinson [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > Sent: Wednesday, September 08, 2004 10:00 AM > To: canada > Subject: [canada] RE: who's who > > > Sam, what sort of challenges? :-) > We haven't taken Aden out for Halloween but this year he seems keen to go, > so I guess I will get a costume for him. Not sure what. He suggested a > basketball player! LOL I think something warm would be good, more often than > not it's snowing on Halloween. Anyone else taking little ones out? Julia > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: Samantha Morris <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > Date: Wednesday, September 8, 2004 10:47 am > Subject: [canada] RE: who's who > > > Hi Melanie, > > > > I'm Sam from Vancouver, BC. We have a daughter Katy who turned 3 > > at the end > > of April. Going through some very challenging times with her > > right now =-P > > > > Welcome! > > Sam > > > > --- > You are currently subscribed to canada as: > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > To unsubscribe send a blank email to > %%email.unsub%% > > --- > You are currently subscribed to canada as: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > To unsubscribe send a blank email to %%email.unsub%% --- You are currently subscribed to canada as: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To unsubscribe send a blank email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> $9.95 domain names from Yahoo!. Register anything. http://us.click.yahoo.com/J8kdrA/y20IAA/yQLSAA/BCfwlB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> <a href=http://English-12948197573.SpamPoison.com>Fight Spam! Click Here!</a> Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/kumpulan/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
