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----- Original Message -----
From: "Jacob" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Sent: Monday, January 26, 2004 5:20 PM
Subject: dating/relationship question... (LONG)
: When she says that she wants to '"be friends," does that mean that there is
: no more hope? Here is what happened.
:
: I was going out with the wonderful lady for about a month and a half. After
: each date, we could tell that we were into each other. Except for the first
: date, every date ending in a long kisses good bye. When we were together, I
: could tell she was enjoying herself. During the month and a half, she went
: away on vacation for a week and called me back the day she came home. So,
: it looked like she was interested.
:
: Last weekend, we had three dates back, to back, to back. A cooked her
: dinner at home and we watched DVDs, second was a fire at the beach, and the
: third was a comedy show and a relaxing evening in a hot tub. But, after
: that last date, there was no long kissing session after the date, just a
: peck on the lips. When I called her two days later I asked her out to
: dinner on Thursday, and said �call me later and if I fell like it, maybe.�
: With that and the peck on the lips, I though something was wrong. Well, I
: called her Thursday and asked her out and she said yes. She also said that
: she had something to tell me.
:
: After dinner, she told me that she spent the last few days thinking about
: us and looking deep inside of her to find the chemistry, but there was none
: there. She wanted to find it. She told me that I was a very nice guy, great
: looking, and that nobody has ever treated her like a princess before, which
: I did. She almost started to cry and asked me to give her a call so we can
: hang out again, because she would love that. And she then said that she
: wanted to �Be Friends.� She said that she is still a wild person and likes
: to be a little immature.
:
: I know it was only a month and a half, but I really, really liked her. I
: could tell that the chemistry was there, but it seemed like it died off. It
: was weird that at first she was into me, then not longer. I was beginning
: to think that I may have been too romantic and did too much, too soon
: �Cooking dinner at her place, fires, strawberries with whip cream, hot tub
: with music and candles, etc� (or another guy).
:
: So, did I move too fast? I think so. She already knows what I can do for
: her, romantically and affectionately, maybe I just needed to go slower and
: have more fun times first.
:
: I want to give it time. Just avoid contact with her for now and she what
: happens. See is she calls or not. Do not want to make it sound like I am
: desperate. I would like to be friends, on my level, and maybe I can
: re-create the spark by doing something that she likes to do for fun. It
: sounds like we wanted more fun and wild times. Give it a month and
: hopefully we end up going out on another "date", having fun, and I can
: maybe re-light that spark. After 8 years of looking and bad experiences
: with exs, though she was the one.
:
: On the other hand, I am not going to sit here and wait. Have to going
: fishing again...
:
: Yes.. for the first time, I thought I was in love... SUCKS!
:
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