Good advice!!!! He will have to pay you support too so contact the court systems!
When you are gifted... give; when you learn... teach Nancy, Abbey-Rose and Maggie-Mae --- On Mon, 1/24/11, [email protected] <[email protected]> wrote: From: [email protected] <[email protected]> Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas] OT Need Advice To: [email protected] Date: Monday, January 24, 2011, 12:37 PM I am so sorry that you are going through such a hard time. I know, I was lucky, I married a man whom I loved and who was meant to be my life companion, we had been married for 45 years when he died. So, I never had to go through anything like you have experienced but I have had friends who have. My advise to you is the same as my advise was to them. First of all, love and respect yourself, be proud of who you are and what you are. No man, no one, is worth killing yourself over. If you have proper self respect, you don't want to be with a man who no longer wants to be with you, Move on with your life. Start by looking at what type of help is available in your community for a woman with disabilities and no income. Call, make appointments, get some help. The people at your church or a church may be able to provide information on social services available. Then meet with your mother and step father, tell them you need their moral support as well as their financial support (if they had to pay the bills even before your husband left, he wasn't even a good supporter). Find something that you enjoy and can afford to do and add it to your routine, even if it's just walking the dogs daily. Give yourself something to look forward to each day. Bask in the love of your Chihuahuas, who will glory in seeing you happy once again. And if you are a believer, pray for help and the strength you will need to change your life. A life where you come first. Good luck. Gloria
