How comfortable is she sailing the boat? Having sailed with a number of girlfriends, I found the more comfortable they were at the helm, the less concerned they were with heeling, gusts etc. Have you tried giving her the wheel? She can control the heel and you can ease sheets.
FWIW, When I taught sailing, I stonrgly recommended that spouses be in different boats because the wives learned and did more. Perhaps she would benefit from lessons from a friend or sailing school? Joel On Saturday, September 20, 2014, Chuck S via CnC-List <cnc-list@cnc-list.com> wrote: > David, > Well said. I am learning late in life that *many* wives don't appreciate > when a sailboat heels or as mine says, ". . . don't like when it leans". > And what I find challenging and fun about sailing like short tacking > through a narrow channel or sailing hard on the wind close hauled, causes > my wife anxiety or grief. Just when the wind starts getting good, she > usually asks to go somewhere for a swim. > > I recently went sailing w a friend with the same problem. His wife is > very similar to mine. We've all been friends since before we married over > twenty five years ago. He wanted to show off his new boat and his > wonderful country of Holland. His plan; the guys went sailing for 10 days > in Holland while the wives went touring by car through France. I noticed > most sailboat crews were guys, many skippers were alone, a very few white > haired couples and the same number of twenty-ish couples. My friend and I > had a great time sailing whenever possible and remarked several times when > the boat was making 8 to 9 knots and heeled to 25 degrees, and we were > having fun, "The girls would hate this." One leg on the North Sea, we > sailed w just the 110% downwind in 27 knots wind making 9 knots boatspeed. > On the return, we had 18 to 20 knots on the nose. Sailing would have taken > longer, causing us to miss getting a slip, so we motorsailed w a reefed > main making 8.3 knots. The main steadied the boat so she maintained > momentum and sliced better through the waves. I remember playing w the > vang to get a better shape to the top of the sail, because the boat had no > traveller. The girls would have hated it. > > So, I'm looking for suggestions to keep both the boat and the wife, happy. > > > -- Joel 301 541 8551
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