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Elian's rescuer enjoys the spotlight
A fateful fishing trip upends Dalrymple's life
By Michael Leahy
WASHINGTON POST
WASHINGTON, April 27 - Three nights after a federal agent found him trying
to hide in a cramped closet with Elian Gonzalez in his arms, Donato
Dalrymple sits in his Georgetown hotel room at midnight, ready to talk for
hours, his body clock by now like a Vegas lounge singer's.
Elian may be gone, but Donato Dalrymple, aka The Fisherman, is in demand.
OLIVER NORTH rushed up to him a few hours ago to call him a hero. Some CNBC
lovelies sought his attentions and autograph. And just five minutes ago, in
a cab coming back from yet another television interview, he heard Howard
Stern say his name on the radio. "Howard Stern! Howard Stern!" he is
exulting. "It was just too cool," says The Fisherman.
Elian may be gone, but Donato Dalrymple, aka The Fisherman, is in demand.
"Did you know Elian liked to lick my face?" he asks, apropos of nothing.
The thought hangs there while the phone in his room rings and rings. He
ignores it. He wants to talk about Elian licking him, for no moment is more
revealing about what Elian Gonzalez has meant to the life of Donato
Dalrymple, or about how a child's tragedy can become a middle-aged man's
deliverance.
By then, five weeks after he helped pluck Elian out of the Atlantic on
Thanksgiving Day, Dalrymple had found what he'd always wanted, and what had
always eluded him. He'd walk through the Miami home of Elian's relatives
and strangers would reach out to hug him, reverentially calling him The
Fisherman, which, the more they said it, came to have a saintly quality.
For many people contemptuous of both the relatives and federal officials,
Dalrymple seemed the one pure, likable character in this custody tug-of-war.
He'd stroll outside, and TV reporters would scream for interviews. Hordes
of Cubans and gringos sought his autograph.
Fisherman. Fisherman. Pescador. Pescador.
The moniker made him sound like a character born of Hemingway, and he looked
and sounded the part: broad-shouldered, barrel-chested, salt of the earth,
with tattoos covering his arms and a passionate bark to his speech.
But, in fact, he is no fisherman; he cleans houses for a living.
Thanksgiving Day was the first time The Cleaner had ever gone fishing. He
didn't even want to fish, he admits, but agreed to drive the boat for his
cousin, content just to be out on the water, listening to oldies on the
radio. He left it to his cousin to bait the hooks. "My cousin was getting
on me," he grouses. "He always does.
The phone rings and Dalrymple, 40, picks it up. Someone tells him he'll be
on "Geraldo" the next day.
"Sure, uh-huh. Great." He hangs up, stands and does a torso bend or two.
An avid bodybuilder until the rescue of Elian turned his interests
elsewhere, he bears an uncanny resemblance to a young Jack La Lanne, the
fitness guru. His 5-foot-7 frame is dominated by his coiffed 'do, which
stands straight up, electrified, like Lyle Lovett's.
He has lost his train of thought, now asking whether his visitor wants to
see how the Border Patrol agent aimed the gun at his head. "Well, actually
it wasn't at my head," he says, grinning, shrugging. "It was right here."
He points to a spot below his left shoulder.
He remembers where he was going with this. "Let me tell you the moment when
I knew my life had changed," he says, thinking back to an evening shortly
after New Year's in the Gonzalez home in Little Havana. He had been lying
alongside Elian on the little boy's bed, in the room Elian shared with his
cousin Marisleysis, when the big truth struck him: There were few things
worse, The Fisherman thought, than living 40 years on this planet and never
feeling important. He had been eking out a living and a measure of
contentment from mopping and vacuuming other people's houses, but
contentment is what you settle for in a life unnoticed, when you walk the
streets and feel invisible.
No longer.
He and the boy were on the bed watching "The Lion King," the Disney feature
- beloved by Elian - about a brave young lion whose dad had perished. Elian
enjoyed imitating the lions licking the cheeks of everybody they liked.
Elian put his tongue on Dalrymple's cheek and laughed.
Lick, lick, lick.
Then he placed his head on Dalrymple's big chest. The two of them lay
motionless for a while before Elian put his tiny index finger in the man's
closed palm.
"You know, I've never felt important in my life," Dalrymple says, his eyes
dampening at the memory. "But I felt like the most important man in the
world that night.... You know, life can be hard. But what the kid went
through, and the lives he changed being with him, well, it's hard to
explain. He makes people feel important and loved and powerful."
Dalrymple walks over to a Banana Republic bag. He arrived in Washington on
Saturday afternoon with just the jeans and olive polo shirt he had on when
the Immigration and Naturalization Service grabbed Elian from him. The
dirty jeans are now in the Banana Republic bag. He has a new white
turtleneck and a cream-colored safari jacket for "Geraldo."
The hotel room, his plane fare, his new clothes - all of it has come through
the largess of The Fisherman's new admirers. His mind jumps 1,000 miles,
from Elian's bed to the Washington residence of a United States senator.
"Did I tell you that I had dinner with Bob Smith the other night?" he says.
"The senator. THAT Bob Smith... It's weird. I'm on the cover of every
newspaper and magazine in the world, and I'm hanging out with all these
elite people, and it's hard to know what to do. When I'm in Miami, people
shout to me, 'Pescador, pescador, don't leave for Washington. We need
leaders here.' I hear screams, 'Donato for mayor! Donato for mayor!' I'm
flattered; 800,000 Cubans love me. Yeah, I could see myself walking through
that door and maybe running for mayor or that lower office, you know, what
is it? Commissioner or something?"
Promises and possibilities are what Elian has given him. But at a price.
His cousin Sam Ciancio, the real fisherman that famous day, no longer speaks
to him, dismissing him as "a phony, a liar, a Kato Kaelin type - a desperate
man looking for publicity and letting himself be used by the Miami
relatives, who invited all that trouble in the first place with the
government."
"The boy belongs with the father, which - I don't care what Donato says now
- is what Donato originally believed," Ciancio said. "He said it to me.
He'll flip positions as many times as necessary to get on television and
stay in good with the relatives. Dontcha see? This is his big chance."
Ciancio says Dalrymple, during a meeting two weeks ago with Elian's father,
told Juan Miguel Gonzalez that "no man or country has the right to keep a
boy from his father." On hearing that, Ciancio, an admittedly emotional
man, says he lost control of himself and stormed toward his younger cousin;
others stepped between the two.
"I was tired of his hypocrisy," Ciancio says now. "I was tired of him
flipping positions; I was tired of him using this kid and that family for
his own advancement."
The two men, close since their childhood in New York, haven't seen each
other since.
For his part, Dalrymple says Ciancio is "jealous and bitter." He is rooting
through that Banana Republic bag while musing about his public appeal.
"People like it that I'm genuine and sincere, and that I tell it like it is."
He calls himself a "people's person," saying he did overseas Christian
missionary work. "I never had any definite plans about what I wanted to
do," he says. "I took a lot of things as they came."
He was born in Poughkeepsie to Italian and Scotch-Irish parents, and his
earliest years were spent in Hyde Park, not far from Franklin Delano
Roosevelt's home. The family later moved to southern Florida, where
Dalrymple spent his teenage years wondering "what to do next." After high
school there was a stint in the military, some odd jobs, the missionary
work, and then his cleaning business.
He says he was married once, and divorced once - and wants to leave it at
that. Later, confronted with information to the contrary, he acknowledges
there have been four marriages - two to the same woman - and that he is, in
fact, married now back home in Lauderhill, Fla. Flustered at being caught
dodging the truth, he sounds panicked, then offers that he is ashamed of his
marital track record. "I looked for love in all the wrong places," says the
fan of oldies tunes.
His bachelor-at-large persona has led to speculation about a relationship
with 21-year-old Marisleysis Gonzalez, but he adamantly denies it, saying
the only thing they share is a deep love for Elian.
"Why is my personal life relevant here?" he asks angrily. "I'm the savior of
a boy."
When his cousin's boat left the docks early Thanksgiving morning, the sky to
the north was dark and depressing. To the southeast was brilliant sunshine
and an inner tube where a boy waited, not to mention a new life for Donato
Dalrymple - fame, cameras, everything that has led to this hotel room.
Sometimes, when a man can't find a purpose, purpose finds him. "I believe I
was meant for this in some way," he says.
His cousin fumes that, so desperate is Donato for attention, he asked for
the clothes Elian had on when rescued - an orange pair of trousers and
shirt. "He wanted to stage a re-creation of the event," says Ciancio.
Dalrymple denies it.
But The Fisherman doesn't deny that he summoned TV cameras before showing up
at the Gonzalez home two days after the rescue. "The television cameras
waited outside for their cue from me while I said hello to the family," he
recalls. "I thought it was important that people know about this miracle."
Virtually every day thereafter, for the next five months, he raced from work
to the house in Little Havana. Although he speaks very little Spanish, "I'd
do things with Elian - go on the swings, watch TV," he says. "When the
family had to discuss legal issues with attorneys, they'd sometimes ask me
to leave the room."
He was sleeping just 10 feet from Elian on Saturday morning while the
family's attorney tried to negotiate a settlement with Attorney General
Janet Reno and the Justice Department. "Nobody in the family believed in
their wildest dreams that the government would ever come to the house and
get Elian," says Dalrymple, who believes the family was always dubious of
the government's will to use force. "In January, Reno said the boy belonged
to the father, and nothing like a seizure happened. In March, it was
supposed to happen and never happened. In April, the boy was still there.
So the family felt in their hearts that they had a good leg to stand on.
Nobody dreamed the agents would come."
When the feds knocked down the front door, Dalrymple grabbed Elian and ran,
desperate to find an escape route, only to hear Associated Press
photographer Alan Diaz say: "Sit tight, Donato. There's nowhere to go."
He stood wanly in the closet, awaiting the inevitable, with Elian squeezing
his neck and screaming. "We didn't have a hope of hiding," he recalls.
He mutters this while absently picking at a thread on his new blue shirt,
the one he wore to church with Lazaro and Marisleysis Gonzalez on Easter and
donned again for CNBC's "Hardball" and a Fox taping. The phone is ringing
and he mumbles into a receiver across the room, "I'm doing 'Geraldo'
tomorrow. And, yeah, we'll do Andrews again. Definitely Andrews. Gotta do
Andrews."
The day before, Dalrymple says, during a van ride to Andrews Air Force Base
with the Gonzalez family, he told Marisleysis that she should back off her
heated claim that a widely publicized photo of Elian reunited with his
father had been doctored. "Let's face the facts," he says he told her.
"Elian is smiling in all the pictures they're releasing. It's not doctored."
Marisleysis and Lazaro, her father, tersely agreed, he says. "Maybe if
somebody asked her about it in a calm way, she'd correct it," he says.
"But, you know, there's pride there and reporters screaming at her and..."
He halts in mid-sentence, a cloud crossing his face. One misstatement and
he's back to cleaning houses full time. Reinvention is dicey business.
"God, I really hope the family doesn't flag me for talking about this and
get annoyed," he says.
It is a moment that reveals how precarious it is to be The Fisherman, how
tenuous Donato Dalrymple's good fortune remains.
Staff writer April Witt and Metro researcher Bobbye Pratt contributed to this report.
� 2000 The Washington Post Company
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