--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008 <no_re...@...> wrote:
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> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "wayback71" <wayback71@>
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> > This part got to me - that couples who changed the course of their lives,
> > decided not to have children, only to find out that Tony is secretly
> > having a family, well - that is truly sad and reason to be furious. They
> > were betrayed.
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> How pathetic !
> Since when was having cildren (and raising them) better than not having any ?
> Betrayed for choosing a more evolutionary path without the burden of children
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> Please have a checking !
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I don't feel that having children is more evolutionary at all (takes a ton of
time and in the best of circumstances is a lot of work if you are good parents)
- but what I find upsetting is that people made important decisions about
their lives based on misinformation. And I bet Tony is greatly relieved not
to have to pretend anymore.