From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of authfriend Sent: Saturday, July 17, 2010 8:58 AM To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Another woman comes forward
For some here, it seems, it's a huge challenge to deal with ambivalence, with mixed feelings, with both appreciation and condemnation of the same dude. We want everything to fall into place neatly on one side of the ledger or the other; straddling is too uncomfortable. Hear, hear. The main point I've been making since starting FFL. But if we aren't willing to endure the discomfort, we miss the most valuable lesson in this situation.
