--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater <no_reply@...> wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb <no_reply@> wrote: > > > > "By what pushes their buttons ye shall know them." > > Yes, button pushing is a good technique for getting to > know people. I find there are much more productive ways > to do this however. Button pushing only shows you the > reactive side of a person. That is never the whole story.
I would say that the "reactive side" is very much the whole story. What you still react to owns and defines you. "It is only shallow people who do not judge by appearances. The true mystery of the world is the visible, not the invisible." - Oscar Wilde