--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27" wrote: > > > Hey Ravi Guru, > > Picture life as a car with a five speed transmission. Four forward > gears, and one reverse. Some even have overdrive. It might be time to > shift from second gear to third gear. You've been stuck in second for > some time now. I remember when you went from first to second gear two > or three years ago. It was good. It's time to make another shift. > You'll be surprised how much better the machine runs. It won't have all > that friction. Try it, you may like it. Steve:
Steve's idea of Ravi: > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula wrote: > > > > Yeah right - false equivalence. Curtis did his thing, Judy did her > thing, > > it's all a matter of differing, perspectives, POV's - there is no such > > thing as facts, truth - we get it. > > > > No this not letting it go Curtis - it is one more deceptive salvo. The > last > > context shifting, the last breath of deceptive CRT. Curtis, the nice > guy, > > the ever gentleman - willing to let Judy finish on an even footing. > > > > > > > > On Sat, Apr 20, 2013 at 6:16 PM, curtisdeltablues < > > curtisdeltablues@ wrote: > > > > > ** > > > > > > > > > No, no, but then he said and then you said, and then he said, and > then you > > > said... > > > > > > I forget what it is you are trying so desperately to be right about > > > concerning my interactions with Robin, but if you are happy so am I. > > > > > > You proved what you wanted to the people who think like you, > > > > > > and I did the same. Works for me. > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" authfriend@ > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "curtisdeltablues" > > > wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Oh that. Well I know that you don't have the emotional IQ to > follow > > > it, or you wouldn't have set yourself up this way. So I'll write > this for > > > Robin. > > > > > > > > That's a fine start, Curtis. Let's see where > > > > you're going to go with this: > > > > > > > > > Robin, who kind of prides himself in being able to > > > > > understand people deeply, and in fact elevates his > > > > > personal opinions to being much more than that, to > > > > > being able to detect who is more aligned with REALITY, > > > > > is by your narrative... > > > > > > > > > > a hapless idiot who got played by an insincere and > > > > > seemingly pathologically devious person in the context > > > > > of hundreds of hours of conversations on FFL and in > > > > > emails. > > > > > > > > Well, it's actually by *his* narrative: > > > > > > > > "I have been naive and trusting way beyond what was > > > > appropriate in your case....I was naive and foolish in > > > > whatever I read into our friendship during those long > > > > conversations, both online and offline. I have assumed > > > > you are someone you are not....I understand; the fault > > > > lies in me to have had such lofty and unrealizable > > > > expectations." > > > > > > > > > In my version we were both sincere in enjoying each other's > > > > > friendship in the beginning > > > > > > > > Oh, I'm sure you were both enjoying it. My goodness, he > > > > appreciated the living daylights out of you. You were > > > > inspired to be at your very most charming and creative > > > > and funny. You reveled in his attention and admiration; > > > > you never had a better audience on FFL. > > > > > > > > > until Robin decided that his judgements about me were > > > > > more important to him than his friendship with me. > > > > > > > > Well, now, that's not quite true, is it, Curtis? This is > > > > how he concluded the final post of his five-parter: > > > > > > > > "Look, Curtis, in going through this exercise with you I > > > > feel my heart has opened again to you, with all that that > > > > entails: the risk, the re-disillusionment, the resurrection, > > > > the hope, the unconditioned and influenced by the past > > > > beginning. I am starting over, because this intense locking > > > > up with you has brought back the superb and unparalleled > > > > experience of enjoying your spirit. So let's try this on.... > > > > > > > > "This has been good for me, Curtis; I believe we have really > > > > cleared the air. But we have to see if we have between us > > > > wrought a kind of miracle whereby we really do experience > > > > that our friendship can take us over again, and we start with > > > > only an imagined past. Or rather, we only let our personal > > > > history be determined by what was positive, which > constitutedâ" > > > > I have calculate this very carefully and exactlyâ"97.47% of > our > > > > previous interaction. > > > > > > > > "Good night, Curtis." > > > > > > > > Doesn't get much more heartfelt than that. > > > > > > > > And your response? You blew him off. You had no interest > > > > whatsoever in reconciling with him. > > > > > > > > What I quoted above, Robin excoriating himself for having > > > > been too naive and trusting, was his reply to your blowing > > > > off his proposal that the two of you start over. > > > > > > > > Oooooopsie! > > > > > > > > > And I am not really sure which of the many judgements he > > > > > has laid on me since the falling out is the real reason, > > > > > if there is only one, that caused him to make that choice. > > > > > > > > Which choice, the one to try to reconcile with you and > > > > start over again that you blew off? > > > > > > > > > It is this area that you have been idiotically speculating > > > > > about under the guise of catching me lying, > > > > > > > > Oh, I haven't been "speculating about" anything, Curtis. > > > > I have asserted that, contrary to your claim, the > > > > falling-out had nothing to do with your not accepting > > > > that Robin was in Unity consciousness a quarter of a > > > > century ago. I stand by that assertion; there is no > > > > evidence for that claim in what was posted on FFL. > > > > > > > > > while completely oblivious to the effect of your agenda > > > > > on the very person you profess to shed tears for. > > > > > > > > So tell me, Curtis, what *is* the effect of my agenda on > > > > Robin? > > > > > > > > > Pretty funny huh Judy? > > > > > > > > It's very funny indeed watching you struggling to > > > > extricate yourself from the hole you've dug and only > > > > making it deeper. Want to play another round? I'm game. > > > > I'll have to find a way to move that bus off you first, > > > > though. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >