My guess is we've all done wrong and or stupid stuff at some point in our lives
including lying and physically hurting others even those we love. So I vote for
pragmatic and universal compassion. Just to be clear, by pragmatic compassion I
don't mean the allowing of abuse. I mean something along the lines of hate the
wrong doing, have compassion for the wrong doer but don't allow them to
continue wrong doing. For yourself, steer clear of abusive behavior and do
what's necessary to protect those who aren't able to protect themselves.