--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@...> wrote: > > dear Ravi, I just asked my pastoral counselor about my allegedly being what > you call psychologically stunted. She laughed in total delight. End of > report.
Isn't that why you pay her the big bucks, to tell you what you want to hear? Of course you provided this pasture-loving counsellor the full context for why someone would say that about you, I'm sure. Being the lover of complexity that you are Share, I am sure the two of you had a protracted and in depth investigation into why this characterization should have been attributed to you by Ravi. Yes, this description of your counselling session certainly conveys how deeply and in detail you considered the possibility you are "psychologically stunted". Perhaps your counsellor might be too? Oops, maybe that was arrogant of me to suggest this. Forget I said that. > > > > > ________________________________ > From: Ravi Chivukula <chivukula.ravi@...> > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Friday, July 5, 2013 12:29 PM > Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Announcing the Robin Carlsen Memorial > Narcissism Award > > > > Â > On 7/5/13 10:14 AM, Xenophaneros Anartaxius wrote: > > Â > >--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "emilymae.reyn" <emilymae.reyn@> wrote: > >> > >> Well, then, what you are saying is that there is a > serious disconnect between what Share was "feeling" and > the reality, given the complete lack of evidence for her > accusation and all it's attendant implications. "Feelings > aren't facts" and all that. Again, responsibility for > oneself comes to mind. You give Robin a lot of power, > Xeno. Did he hurt your feelings? > > > >He did not hurt my feelings. If someone has a feeling > though, that is usually a spontaneous response. Why should > evidence be required to express what one feels? One does > not need to take responsibility for oneself. One needs to > take responsibility for the response to what one does. > Telling someone to take responsibility for themselves is > an attempt to make someone feel guilty. It is an attempt > to demean and take control. It is a useful technique, but > it does not give a person the incentive to move into a > space where they think of improving themselves on their > own. > > > More idiotic bullshit Xeno - remember your sociopathic traits, you > can't feel empathy - so how would you know Share's feelings? > Remember Share has confessed to being easily triggered and suffering > from attachment disorder. She's very emotionally, psychologically > stunted. > > > > > >
