--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Xenophaneros Anartaxius" <anartaxius@...> wrote: > > >--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > >> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: (snip) > > > As for my bad behavior, IMO I've done my best to make amends. > > > Your best is none too good. There are piles and piles of > > your bad behavior that you haven't made the slightest > > effort to make amends for. And of course the one piece of > > *inexcusably* bad behavior for which you refuse to apologize. (snip) > > Did Robin ever ask Share for an apology?
Completely irrelevant. It's shocking that you would actually try to *dissuade* her from apologizing. That supports her very worst behavior. > Because nothing we think about is true on the level of > thinking, This is bullshit, Xeno's all-purpose excuse for all kinds of bad behavior and means of wiggling out of all kinds of stupidities. > People who are constantly asking for apologies How about people who have asked for one apology for one particularly atrocious deed? > might be > trying to control your behaviour by trying to induce a > feeling of guilt. Or they might be trying to get you to apologize. Sometimes a cigar... > Tell them to fuck off. They do not have the space in their > hearts to forgive you, so they will not give you the space > to really accept an apology. Speak for yourself, Xeno. Or perhaps more appropriately, fuck off.