--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@...> wrote: > > turq and FFL parents, teachers, elders: how do we help ourselves > and others grow without shaming? How do we help ourselves and > others drop harmful behavior while nurturing healthy self esteem? > How do we tell ourselves and others that a behavior is unacceptable > but the person is accepted?
(You're asking *Barry*??) Share, here's a news flash for you: FFL is not a therapy group. We are not here to help each other grow or to nurture each other's self-esteem. Ditch the smarmy, patronizing, pretentious psychobabble, please. If you feel your unacceptable behavior makes you personally unacceptable on FFL, either change your behavior or go somewhere else. And BTW, your questions are disingenuous on their face. You aren't asking for thoughts or information, you're attempting to shame the people you feel are shaming others.
