Sometimes people get real busy working in their home office and don't
really have time to post a long reply to a discussion group. Or, when
they hear the 'ding', they break away just long enough to post a short
one-liner, just so you know they are still monitoring everything that's
said. Go figure.
On 11/29/2013 4:04 PM, feste37 wrote:
Hey auth, what's with the weird punctuation? Doesn't. Make. Any.
Sense. I can only conclude that you have cracked under the recent
pressure. First, Share stands up to you. Then Richard J. Williams
kicks your ass all over the park, without much reply from you, and
then Xeno and Barry put the boot in, just to make sure you don't get
up. Not a good week for you on this board, is it?
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <authfriend@...> wrote:
*Feste, You. Do. Not. Have. A. Clue.*
*Feste the Clueless wrote:*
> What you and authfriend don't like is that Share does not respond to you
in the way you declare that she
> ought to, and that makes you mad and mean. You think she should say what
you have scripted for her,
> butof course things don't work that way, and to expect them to is
just another way of trying to control
> another person.
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, <emilymaenot@...> wrote:
---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
<no_re...@yahoogroups.com> wrote:
It's interesting to see the different approaches taken by
the Mean Girls. Authfriend practices a kind of knee-jerk
negativity that produces crude, nasty attacks. In respect
of Share (and Barry), she is All Nasty, All the Time. It
doesn't matter what these two write; the response is
always the same. Any excuse to belittle, mock, and insult
-- that's authfriend's MO.
With Emily, it's a little different at first. It starts
with the pretense that she doesn't understand or is trying
to understand something that Share wrote.
No pretense. I *am* trying to understand by asking her to
explain what she is saying or thinking or feeling when she
says it. Sometimes I am asking her to provide a larger
context for her comments because a lot of what she says
doesn't make sense to me. I've stated that many, many,
times. Objectively, human behavior does interest me, no
doubt, and I truly am a sincerely curious sort of person.
Emily likes to sound reasonable and sincere, carefully
trying to disguise her hostility.
I am *sounding* that way because I always give everyone
the benefit of the doubt and I am often reasonable and
usually sincere, albeit, sometimes within a context or a
writing style that you don't seem to pick up on, given
this statement of yours. I am not a hostile person and I
don't hold onto or maintain hostility on this forum
towards anyone ever, really. If I did, I wouldn't stay
here. I have certain triggers - Share's mean streak is
one of them, when it pops up. I respond to what shows up
in the moment, or as a result of watching the trajectory
of a conversation unfold. I try to keep a larger picture
in mind almost always, even as I may descend into the
energy and feeling of a thread as it resonates within me.
I may not always succeed in the heat of the moment (in
keeping the larger picture at the forefront), but behind
the scenes, in my own life, I always go through a process
of "lessons learned," if you will. I am a human being and
I *believe* in the concepts of accountability and
humility, for example.
This prepares the ground. It's a set up. Then when Share
responds, Emily declares the response to be inadequate or
shocking, and proceeds to plunge the knife in and twist it
as much as she can.
Jesus Christ Feste, I have been shocked by Share on many
occasions, it's true, and she has deferred and refused to
take accountability for her words, or even explain them,
on even more occasions. I have also apologized more times
and copped to my own actions more than many here and I
have stated many times that I always check what I might
say to others against my self - I am not a saint nor do I
pretend to be. Share has a record of "zero" on that front.
I hold no animosity towards her; I am just objectively
stating what I have noticed from her posts here. To
attribute these kinds of violent images to me says a lot
about you, not me. Curiously, Share, do you agree with
what Feste says here about me? Is this how you have
experienced me on this forum?
