<< Most of the Gospels in the Bible were all written by men >>
All four Gospels in the Bible were written by men. << so it is very important that all the Gospel writers agree that Jesus appeared to Mary first >> Except for Luke, of course. In Luke, the risen Jesus appears first to two of the disciples (men) on the road to Emmaus. << because he loved Mary more than any of the apostles. Mary had stood by him when all the others had fled. She was at the crucifixion, during the ministry of Jesus, and at the resurrection. Mary was in fact Jesus' favorite. >> That Mary was Jesus' favorite is a reasonable conjecture, but it's extra-biblical.