Hello! What is surprising in this??!! On the contrary it is a surprise that the case of mine and other like me is surprising to you! Sir!Let me tell you that its not discovered "after daughters are married" only. The consiousness was there about my sextuality that I'm a Bi-sextual since begining that I get attraction towards men as well as women.....!
But, only the thing,that due the social atmosphere surrounding ppl. like us and its pressure and the fear, we can't come-out openly with our feelings and express it;but at the same time we're feeling tremendous force within the self of the same Bi-sextual tendency that constantly tries to come-out.....and our social awareness always has to supress it!We can say it as our weakness,that we can't follow our consience and do as per what our society has established the norms....Its a trgedy for the ppl. like us! But at the same time,I would say,its like a coragious soldier who keeps giving fight on both the fronts at a time!Its the spirituality!! But the time comes in the life, that at certain point we can't supress more;or on getting enough space and opportunity to follow that hidden feelings and act accordingly. In the life of ppl. like me comes such a chance when they are free from all their social/family responsibilities and obligations and get to surpass all the taboos!Then they want now to live as per their own liking/feeling/tendency which was there hidden originally.... Hope, now you can understand such thing and try to provide help/space/atmosphere/plateform to express ourselves without fear =================================================--- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, "Kanoji Kankhinche" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Hello,dEAR Owner/Moderator and all members! Thank you very much to alot me membership in this group. Since long I was looking for such a group/forum/plateform where I can meet ppl.like me and share my feelings. Giving brief intro. I'm Kanoji,55,a Mumbaikar,doing my own small mktg.business. I'm Bi-sextual. I'm married;had twin-daughters both of them got already married. Bi-sexuality is my inner-tendency.But,I must say,till now no actual experience with anybody....But,now I feel,after getting free from my social/family responsibilities I must give an ear to my inner-voice....its becoming nowadays bigger and bigger....I'm in search for a good-healthy-responsible-longtime relation with a guy(or GAY!)with whom I can pass my remaining life -in love- happily soulfully apart and along its phisical aspect!In short a mature relation.Anybody can write me on [EMAIL PROTECTED] I'm adding my own pics in our photo section. Thank you again. Kanoji Kankhinche. ================================= sigh.. how come ppl are discovering their sexuality "after daughters are married" and when one is all of 55?i don't even know how to respond to such mails. just moments back, read a private mail from another person who says he is gay but has children and even though he has come out to his sister (she stopped talking to him), he cannot come out at large because he has 2 children and society will label the children as offsprings of a gay father. regards moderator Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info ========================== This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking "Reply") will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. Post:- gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Unsubscribe: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Digest Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] (attachments are removed in the digest mode. You get one or two digest mails per day containing all emails, minus pictures/attachments) No Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Individual Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Contact Us:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Rss feed: http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com/maillist.xml Archives are at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Classifieds for personal advertisements are back on www.gaybombay.info site. Please exercise restraint in the language of your personal advertisement. To post mates/freinds wanted log on to http://pub35.bravenet.com/classified/show.php?usernum=2998156902 Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
