Hi One can very well understand your dilemma. 1.First, it is as ethical or unethical for a bi to have more than one partner of any sex, as it is for any straight human. If one is already having sexual gratification from one partner, then to have another is, according to current social norms and from the point of view of disease prevention, unethical. Ofcourse Indian society is full of hypocrites and so we have flourishing red light areas as well as high class call girls ( and may be guys ) This is the result of the basic human tendancy of wanting variety.
2. No, dont expect any loyalty from bi's. I am not saying this in a demeaning sense, but just being practical. So bi's dont misunderstand. 3. Marraige by bi's, gays or for that matter anyone is a very individual decision and there is no one correct answer. It will depend on his social, family and psychological situation. Please remember there are no norms in such grey areas so be practical and dont waste time agonising over this. Love without expectation! A --- Mountain Goat <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Hi Can someone please answer my questions; I am a passive gay man who always falls for bisexuals; and I end up hurting myself. Is it ethical for a bisexual to have two partners 1 male and one female? Is it ethical to expect loyalty from a bi? I. e. he shouldnt be with other women. Should a bi get married if he is not sure he can be satisfied with his wife and his wife only. Here by bisexuals I mean bi men. I am seeking answers to these questions with no results. Can someone please advice me! And throw some light on this topic. Is there any site that has info on bi psychology? Thanks in advance. Regards, MtnG. Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info ========================== This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking "Reply") will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. Post:- gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Unsubscribe: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Digest Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] (attachments are removed in the digest mode. You get one or two digest mails per day containing all emails, minus pictures/attachments) No Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Individual Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Contact Us:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Rss feed: http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com/maillist.xml Archives are at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Classifieds for personal advertisements are back on www.gaybombay.info site. Please exercise restraint in the language of your personal advertisement. To post mates/freinds wanted log on to http://pub35.bravenet.com/classified/show.php?usernum=2998156902 Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/