The horses are their thing too, making them "our thing." Bruce, who hasn't been on a horse in 40 years, cleans the stalls, does the afternoon feeding, does all the hauling of feed, hay, shavings, maintains the horse trailer and hauls me to an occassional endurance ride.
If I even whisper the suggestion that we don't really "need" Twist and Yrsa, he lets me know that they need us - true for Twist, probably a lot less so for Yrsa. I think a husband can be very involved with horses and still not actually ride horses. Nancy